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[quote author= post=126074907]Children of perdition, hate and frustration and all terrorists disturbing the peace of our darling nation and killing innocent Nigerians,
Una papa yansh go hot these coming days.

Correct

From Oyo State
President Peter Obi
Governor Seyi Makinde

Exactly

Ugwoji101:
Can't find the email reach me on what's app 08065671949

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Ok then

emmanuelpopson:

mr no penetration. u were enjoying the free pvssy and all but you didnt mind your biz. a student who was enjoying her life kos u still want the gal to be under your control. u went ahead and scolded her.. that serves u right kos u have a beautiful wife and kids but u still cheating.. u better confess and beg your wife..

I didn't lie here and I have explained it all to my wife. Just that she still didn't believe me and I can't start lieying to make her believe.

Ugwoji101:
Get this girl arrested, employ a lawyer to write a petition of malicious falsehood, criminal defamation of character and conduct likely to cause breach of the peace. Make sure you teach this silly girl a lesson.If you need a well detailed petition you can contact me.

You didn't respond to the email I sent to you

dollytino4real:
am ma not sir

Okay, thanks for your encouragement, I believe everything will soon get back to normal

dollytino4real:
try more

We are still on it sir,

LUAN1:
through out my 5yrs in the university as an engineering student in the east where things were very expensive, I was not even privilege to see something close to 10k a month. But my fellow man dey send random girl 20k-30k monthly. You have make me remember my University days, am crying in my heart now. There are many guys in school now struggling, but op will never see those ones to help. Na one olosho dey Enter your eyes. SIMPing get level ahswear.

Bros be calming down I too didn't receive 5k from anybody when I was in school. You too might do the same with time. Sorry I fall your hand

GoldSantana:
Na wao... It's either this girl lock your sense inside Pepsi bottle or na higher level of simping.
Tell your wife the truth, but spare the details.

The thing week me

Socratiz:
Your major problem now is how to restore the trust in your marriage. Stop thinking about how you can punish this girl.

Face your wife. Do everything to regain her trust and confidence in your marriage.

And stop behaving like a big uncle to a random girl. Even if you know her parents, it's not your problem if she chooses to share her nude pictures on social media.

Stay on your own lane.

Learn from this mistake and move in with your life

Am on this already and she is better of now. Just feel this girl should in a bit know she got it all wrong. Yes, I was wrong too but she went too far.

TheZeezle:
Bro you can't sue the girl! If you no penetrate, u kissed and press Bounda so you can only make her feel the heat to realize she bleeped up.

So how do I make her feel the heat?

dontrulee:
Unfortunately many more people will still fall in this trap. Almost everyone is a cheat (both males and females). It will shock you to know that your wife was or is planning to cheat on you without you being aware one bit. Don't cheat, but if you can't help it, make sure not to get caught but the chances are there that you'll be caught so don't do it in the first place.

For Op, I really don't know the nature of your wife but I have handled situations like this before. If your wife truly loves you, apologize to her, compliment her, appeal to her love language. The reason why she is angry with you Is because she thinks she is not adequate enough hence your looking outside (and most woman don't like that one bit). If she is too stubborn or irrational (as most women are) go ghost mode, employ the silent treatment, be happy always, dance around the house and enjoy your Life, if you're valuable in her eyes she will wonder what's is wrong and question herself about her inadequacies and will find subtle ways to bring you back. The worse is that she may decide to leave you but at least you enjoyed yourself and made yourself happy. She may consider the kids and stay as some women will. The variables are endless and it depends on the situations and make up of your woman. Some are forgiving some are not too forgiving. Watch out!

Very encouraging. Thanks so much sir

TheZeezle:
You sponsored an unrepentant Olosho to school baami. You can actually teach her some lessons anyways. You have her cell number? Give us let's share it for people to be calling her for hook ups first. Let's stalk her...

Sorry I have deleted band and deleted her numbers even though she did that first the moment she reported to my wife. Though, I don't see this your advice being helpful in anyway except you explain better, her contact is still on my wife phone

SarutobiEky:
I don't Pity him... let him lie on the bed he laid..should teach him a lesson

Thanks, sure I will get over this. My wife is beginning to listen though she kept crying. I wish there is any move I can make against that girl that is one of the reasons I brought this matter to this forum.

gbowoade85142:
Brother, I regretBrother, I regret...

You know her right?

Truvelisback:
Who did u report her to?

I reported her to her father and her brother but there responses was looks suspicious to me. As if the have a hand in the whole thing

czarr:
What married men don't know is that no girl you cheat with who knows you have a wife and children would ever fully respect you.

The girl is doing runs, you are probably not the only married man that is bankrolling her...she feels she doesn't need your 25k monthly anymore.

Next time respect your wife and children and be faithful, if you want to taste different soup once in a while, employ the services of a call girl that doesn't know you, do your thing and never call her again.

Thank you so much, so there is nothing I can do to the girl? I still feel she deserves to be called to order

Mentholated:
Your story is incomplete. You have been sleeping with her. Cut her off. Make up with your wife.

Lesson learnt. Move on with your life.

I took her to a Geust house twice but didn't penetrate her I was that cautious

empire02:
But this story is not complete.

What should I add

Adejo1:
It's even better she blocked you, at least that money you have been spending on her, you will have sense now and be using it for something better or spend it on your family.
Why u wnt even sue her self...?
Just lock up the matter, try man up, beg your wife, if she no gree. Look for someone that she listens to, if e no still work then just lock up. Life goes on

Why I feel like suing her, is because I felt she took advantage of my simplicity. Though I have blocked her off completely but I still feel cheated

07kjb:
That girl is STUPID

Cut every thing about her off

Just did this, I wish there is something I could do to teach her better lesson. I know she will be feeling smart now

kingscare1:
Don't sue her, tell your wife the truth, apologies, forgive yourself, and forget her completely. Never make contact with her anymore, silence is the best answer for a fool like her. You acted SIMply but nobody is above mistakes. Block her line everywhere. Move on.

Thank you sir, I just did that now

Bunnybee:
What do you want to sue her for?

Oga take your L and apologize to your wife. Even if you didn’t penetrate the lady, it’s still adultery.

I’m happy she even reported you to your wife. The money you have been sending her monthly would go a long way for your wife and children.

My family by God's grace is not suffering.

Please what if I threaten her with police. I mean the girl

SarutobiEky:
you go dey sponsor woman wey no be your sister, or relative, or wife for school. You deserve everyrhing that's happening to you right now.

Brother, I regret

SarutobiEky:
mumu man..

Thank you

Abfinest007:
Something tells me u are not telling d true

Why will I lie here, nobody knows me. I wish there is something I can do to thank girl legally. Is very painful. Now she has blocked my lines

Calibrator:
Some situations demands that you deny any wrongdoing even if you are as guilty as sin.


You shouldn't have confessed to any form of romance with her to your wife.

I denied it initially but my wife kept mounting pressure, and she said she has been suspecting before now

kushma:
It’s better you come out and tell your wife what really happened between you and the girl if your wife wants to stay she will, if she does not want to let it be. You have already made the mistake so man up for it.

I have done this sir, but she kept asking, how can I take a lady to a hotel and come around to tell her that I didn complete the act not once but twice

dollytino4real:
Tell her the truth no need to lie and show genuine repentance n rekindle the love by buying her things she never requested for

I have tried to let her know what happened but is very hard to believe because I took the girl to a guest house

garriAndsugar:
I think you should have sex with her so that the story can be true

No sir, the relationship is over, we can't have anything to do with each other anymore

Sincerely, I messed up big time and I never thought I could find myself in this kind of mess, please I need your advice. Not to waste time. Am married for eight years now to a beautiful woman and have 3lovely kids.
About two years ago I employed this girl to work with me, she was in her early 20's and I was 37 then. This Girl became very respectful and very committed to her job. About five months down the line we start getting too close and most time I caught her stirring at me she will smile. Each time my wife complain about her closeness to me I will assure her that there is nothing to worry about.

To cut this short, we became fond of each others and we sometimes kiss in the office and in two occasions I took her out and romanced her but I avoided making a penetration into her. I bought her phone and other things.

Early this year she gained an admission in one poly in the North. Due to her parents financial strength I practically carried all the responsibilities. My wife was aware I assisted her but not to the extend that I did.

From January till this month I send her money every month for her upkeep and other things at least 25-30k monthly. But an issue came up last month.

I saw some of her pictures and videos on tik tok which was very undecent, I called her and scolded her but I observed she wasn't happy the way I talked to her. I went ahead and reported her to her and hell got loosed. She called my wife and Informed her that I have cheated on her and that I have had sex with her twice. Which is not exactly the truth. Now my family is falling apart. My wife is threatening to end the union.

Please, I need every advice that I can get, to earn my wife trust again. Also what can I do to this girl? Can I sue her? Please bear with my grammatical bluders.