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dozieinspired:
yah that is what am working on and i think most men should work on it. thank God @18 i am still a virgin though i have been tempted but God has kept me and i hope to be a virgin till i get married especially as am about to enter the so called notorious uniben

Not so, am currently schooling here and i can say it's notorious for people living a notorious life. just stay composed and know How you talk and act in public, mind the friends you keep and a whole lot of others, Which you will get to know when you start your journey.

Harbosede02:
Op,nice writeup u've got up dere,bt do u think ladies that date married men actually cares abt dis ur points of urz??,they av their motives of dating them.

no matter the motive, It's WRONG!

or3gon:
nice one OP. but na both ways O! Guys should equally leave married women alone; Guys should keep their distance.
As you admonished ladies i will do same for the guys.

Be wise dear Guys
Get out of that
sexual network. Stop wasting your time with
married women.
Love ladies of your level who have true love for
you.

no doubt, it's just common among females.

Elantracey:
lol, it scares me to and in fact a lot , but their are still good and decent girls out there.

by baba's grace, when time is right. I go jam d right one. and you too jam your own

dozieinspired:
though am working on myself not to be easily tempted by ladies especially when i resume in uniben next year , by God's grace i will concentrate on my studies and make first class(no bi by mouth)

amen to that.

dozieinspired:
no i just men they shld enter the marriage market and men sef na wa una no fit take eye see woman , it is not our fault shaa it is the way we were wired

Lol, na our configuration be that

Elantracey:
Is there really a competition for marriage or am the one not seeing it? Every lady has a potential husband out there its just for her to fish him out .



I won't really agree that they're the one causing problem for married women because the men have their blame.

marriage sometimes scares me, with the rate of infidelity on the up rise. and all these young gals no dey help matter. it takes a great deal of self control to stick with a partner for life, without cheating.

fuckshit:
FÜCKING nice one OP; one will only FÜCKING hope one will apply wisdom in this FÜCKING matter; just as you FÜCKING concluded:



this is one FÜCKING good advice

Lol, you funny man. Thanks

Hyinkar97:
you suppose wait small...make u dey come on the 7th

Lol, e get Why dey born me for 3rd Feb.

Elantracey:
it couldn't be an obsession , its just. their choose and sometimes the pressure could be very high.

while some don't even have a choice, sometimes I just wish I could do some thing bout these things, cause I know a quite few of them. the highest I can do for now is pray for them.

Hyinkar97:
y u no wait small?

as in??

mizzkeji44:
Most girls know all dis yet they wont stop dating married men.

maybe it's an obsession then

February 3

one I met in my stay in school, said she's just doing it for the money only. that she has to support herself and all. I tried convincing her to stop, and she told me that if I agree to pay her allowance, house rent that she would stop . na So I opt out o, cause me no get that kin money.

one I met in my stay in school, said she's just doing it for the money only. that she has to support herself and all. I tried convincing her to stop, and she told me that if I agree to pay her allowance, house rent that she would stop . na So I opt out o.

Xavier9ja:
why should u tink of dating a married man in d first place?

you should refer the question to those who are currently dating on of them or have at one time. as for me I have no clue.

urhoboman:
You think this will change their mindset?
Gold diggers#

I pray it does

1. The only thing he wants from you is sex,
After
Cumming he will be gone. He will only sweet
talk you again when he needs some sex.
2. He can spend a day with you touring
beautiful
places but at the end of the day he will go back
to his
wife and kids who will be missing him.
3. He is never going to leave his kids and wife
because of you. He will only be fooling you all
the time with words like “I will marry you, I will
build for
you a house, I will buy for you land, I will take
you to
the driving school, I will buy for you a posh car”
and
many more different lies.
4. Keep it in your minds that you’re not the only
one
he sleeps with apart from his wife. If he can
cheat on his wife with you then can’t he cheat
on you with
some other lady? Seriously he does. He spends
his
time and money on other babes just like the
way he
does with you.
5. He really loves his wife that is why he
married her,
he can’t divorce her and he can’t marry you.
You are just his side dish to take off his stress.
So his loving
you is for fun and temporary.
6. He will dump you after using you for some
other
fresh babe; he won’t fulfill what he promised
you.
Those will be lies that he told you just to soften
your
heart and to get what he wanted.
7. Getting pregnant won’t fully trap him; He has
his
real kids and wife at home that he can show to
the
friends and relatives. You and your kids will be
hidden.
8. His property and money are his, children and
his
wife. It’s very hard to get a share on his
property.
9. You will never be part of his future, so stop
wasting your time and energy. Cease serving
your
body to him because he gives you some money,
because he promised you something.
10. A real lady works hard and gets her own
money,
pays her bills and a man with a lot of dime
should just be a BONUS. Be wise dear Ladies.
Get out of that
sexual network. Stop wasting your time with
married men.
Love guys of your level who have true love for
you.

oyeludef:
for ur info i never said i made a firstclass. Secondly i believe u will agree wit me dat firstclass students are exceptional students so i dont see any reason they shouldnt b given automatic employment in d academic world.

Am not against the automatic employment of first class graduates, my point is not all first class student make good lecturers. talking from my little experience.

the fact that you a first class student does not mean you can make an impact in student lives, I know people who graduated with first class, But na through la cram la pour, How do you expect someone like that to teach or lecture his students. rather lecturer's like this come to class drop material and leave. on d day of exam they will set questions(strong ones). my opinion is appointment if lecturers should not be by grades. But on How he/she can make a positive impact in that system.

ireneony:
lol...THE I TOO KNOW:they are the first to finish during exam and when result comes out they have a D
THE HOD;these ones always claim to be the oga of the claim. they always have what to contribute/say in any gathering and people always listen.
THE PREACHER: these ones always hold morning devotion once a week in the class
........

Lol...I did d "I too know thing" in my 100level, I go leave d exam hall like say I be Obama, while some people still dey sweat for hall. But when result show now,instead of A, na B I go c for board. since then I always take my time whenever Am writing a course. if I like I leave last.

1. THE GOOD LISTENERS: These ones dey
listen an jot down notes well.. dey are always
found in d front.
2. THE ON-LOOKERS: Dese one cannot be rilly
classified as good-listeners.. cos dey just look
at d lecturer, so confused.. weda d lecturer is
speakin gibberish or mumbo jumbo dey just
keep lookin. and dats how dey keep looking till
exam finish..
3.THE PHOTOCOPYING TEAM: Oh my! dese pple
knw demselves.. dey are always found saying
"abeg i no get strent to write.. do make i
photocopy". This set of pple can photocopy
anytin on paper.dey dnt care dey just
photocopy. If u no hol ursef well, dem go
photocopy u join.
4.The "THIS MAN TOO FAST" clique: These
students are damn slowww.. if d lecturer tries
to fasten up note callin abit..dey just hands
down and join d onlookers.
5.THE PERPETUAL LATECOMER: These are d
pple who enjoy and derive pleasure comin to
class afta lecture has started.. dey just like
sneakin-in and I begin to wonder y d sneaking,
didn't u pay skul fees? Abi no be u get d
admission neh?.
6. THE SLEEPERS CONGLOMERATE: This group
can sleep for Africa, they sleep without fear or
favour, dey just find one nice spot to receive
breeze and 30mins into d lecture, dey are off.
7. THE PEN BORROWERS: Weda dem be
students abi dem be non-learning students I
dnt just undastand.. dese pple can neva hav
biro, dey keep borrowing till dia bag is full of
biros.
8. THE ARGUEMENT LORDS: These group of
pple are just lookin for how to start a
controversy.. dey just love to argue.. funny
thing is dah dey might not be intelligent
according to book-wise ooo.. buh wen it comes
to arguments u can neva win dem.. see talent.
9. THE QUESTIONNAIRES: Chei dese pple can
ask useless questions ehh.. sometimes d
lecturers get frustrated and feel like punching d
student.. u can imagine sumbody asking "sir,
the slaves in the plantation, were dey allowed
to eat d plantain?"
10. THE ABSENTEE STUDENT: Wah can I say..
these pple neva attend class buh dia names are
always in d attendance and dey always write
test.. ghost students.
11. THE NOISEMAKERS: These ones are
different from d "argumentists" in dat.. d
arguers hav points buh dese one jux make noise
randomly and keeps disturbing d klass.
12. THE FASHIONISTS: All dey pray for is pple
to look at dem and WOW.. Dey hav d latest
dress in Vogue.. dey wear different cloths
evryday.. and we wey dey repeat cloth go jux
hang oneside..
13. THE FIGHTERS: Anyway all na work of the
devil.
14. THE NO-TIME STUDENTS: These ones
always hav sumtin to do sumwea.. dey jux
want d lecture to finsih so dat dey can go shap
shap.
15. THE ENGLISH CORRECTION OFFICERS:
They may not be listening ooo.. buh wen d
lecturer makes one single English error.. Gbam!
Work don start bdat.
16. THE AMEBOS: Dia own na to observe
anything wey dey happen and dem no dey keep
dia mouth shut ( U no need tell me, I know
that's where I belong )
WHERE DO YOU BELONG AMONG THE LIST

The Whatsapp update does not bother me
at all. Blue ticks, black ticks, no ticks. I
don't even care, if I want to ignore you, I
will.

jaybee3:
I'm guessing you live in Nigeria right? If yes, what next after receiving your Phd in Physics?

what are you currently studying?

Yeah Am currently staying in Nigeria, and Am currently studying Pure and applied physics. am taking it step by step, after I receive my PhD in Physics I will know what to do next then.

jaybee3:
Then do what with it?

Am aspiring to be a physics researcher. Basically on Atomic physics!

Pure and applied Physics

When the 2014 UNIVERSITY WEB RANKINGS for
Africa » released by International Colleges and
Universities (ICU), no Nigerian University » was
listed among the ten best in Africa.
In the Nigerian Universities rankings » , the
University of Ilorin (UNILORIN) was the best
University in Nigeria, followed by the University of
Lagos (UNILAG) , with the Obafemi Awolowo
University (OAU) coming 3rd.
University of Ibadan (UI) was 4th, Landmark
University (LMU) 5th, Covenant University 6th,
Federal University of Technology , Minna
(FUTMINNA) 7th, University of Benin (UNIBEN) 8th,
University of Agriculture, Abeokuta (UNAAB) 9th
and University of Nigeria , Nsukka (UNN) came
10th.
Some people have disagreed with this ranking,
leading to this rankings by Student Pulse.
We have made a new list based on the user
experience of the WEBSITES of these TOP 10
universities.
1. University of Ilorin (UNILORIN -
www.unilorin.edu.ng): UNILORIN's website
has blue and white as the predominant
colors. It has a nice slider which you can
PAUSE and PLAY. The main interesting
things about the website are the very efficient
multilevel menu tabs, detailed floating
sidebar widget and a footer that contains a
lot of useful links, even links to Nigerian
newspapers. We also love that it has a very
accessible, well positioned search bar and a
fresh news ticker. You might also enjoy the
video tour found on the homepage. The
header is however very boring, especially as
the UNILORIN logo and name are hidden in a
lot of blue space. Score 83%.
2. University of Lagos ( UNILAG - http://
unilag.edu.ng/): UNILAG's website is built on
the main colors red and white. It has good
menus, but nothing special. I don't like that
the main slider is too fast can only be
controlled paused pauses when you hold the
mouse over it - now, not many people are so
tech savvy to know that. The site however
loads very fast and has almost all you need
on the front end - Prospective Students, Staff
Login Students Login and Resources. It's
multilevel menu is awesome and the
homepage is well arranged. Why is the
search bar is hidden below the address bar?
It is however good that the Google
customized Search bar shows results as
pop-outs, meaning you can keep the page. It
is very bad though that when you type the
search term 'school fees' there is no result
from 2014. Score 80%.
3. Landmark University (LMU- http://
lmu.edu.ng/): LMU built its website around
green and grey. I love its innovative wipe-left
slider which has nice pictures. Unfortunately,
some of the pictures are not linkable - dead
ends. It probably has the best header with
the University name and logo as well as the
Google customized search bar well
positioned there. Simple design, less clutter
and PERFECT social media showing and
links. The big + is that the information on th
front page is current and you can navigate
easily. It however still lacks that final
professional touch. Score 75%.
4. Obafemi Awolowo University (OAU - http://
www.oauife.edu.ng/): OAU has blue and
white as the main colours on its website. It
has a lovely slider which allows you to select
slides by clicking below it. Beside the slider
is the Kedu talk + video! app which claims to
allow student "connect with your friends,
Lecturers, Colleagues and Groups over the
OAU intranet service." The header and name
of the institution is however well designed
with the search bad clearly displayed on the
far right. The rest of the homepage is
however boring and the footer has lots of link
but the graphics and aesthetics are below
par. Score 64%.
5. Covenant University (CU http://
covenantuniversity.edu.ng/): This nice
website was loosely built around purple and
green. It has nice slider which seems to be
uncontrollable, though linking well. Logo is
almost lost in lots of white space and it does
not have multilevel menu. It however still
has the mature feel with less clutter. A
minus is that it doesn't give enough on the
home page. Score 60%.
6. Federal University of Technology , Minna
(FUTMINNA - http://www.futminna.edu.ng/):
Purple based website. Good multilevel menu
system. Search bar in the header. The name
ad logo melts into all that purple and the
slider seems to running a race against time,
but it has a back and forward button and it is
linkable. Sadly, it is very slow loading and
has lots of down-time when it is inaccessible
on laptops, desktops and mobile devices.
Below the header, there was no attempt at
arrangement, with too much white space and
a footer that seems slightly playful. Score
55%.
7. University of Agriculture, Abeokuta (UNAAB -
http://www.unaab.edu.ng/): UNAAB's
website is as green as a maize farm in the
raining season. I love the menu system and
header. It is also very informative right from
the homepage. But the three column system
is somewhat cluttered and ill-informed. It is
also distractive with almost every page
element either winking or blinking. Score
54%
8. University of Ibadan (UI - http://ui.edu.ng/):
UI's website (?) looks too much like a
teenager's blog, with an oversized a slider as
the main homepage feature. The menu bar s
also poor, not so clearly defined. Don't be
surprised if you can't search because the
search bar is hidden at the footer! On a
positive note, it links to its social media
accounts well and it has an innovative
parents portal that states 'VERIFY THE
ACADEMIC STATUS OF YOUR WARD. I think
that is good in an era where some students
get rusticated but keep lying at home. Score
47%.
9. University of Benin (UNIBEN -http://
www.uniben.edu/): UNIBEN's light purple
website is a joke, given the position of the
university. The jumbo slider covers the
whole screen and has very poor images. The
menus are divided above and below the
slider. They're not multilevel and tiny. The
about us section, like everything else, is
oversized and boring. It's ridiculously giant
social media links are horrible. As as the last
time checked, the Twitter account was last
used on 21st of March 2013 with 260
followers while last Facebook post was July
29 and the Google + link is a dead-end.
Score 39%.
10. University of Nigeria , Nsukka (UNN - http://
www.unn.edu.ng/): UNN's greenish website
has a fine header, a useful side bar with
multiple link and a prominent search bar too.
The menu is stylish and looks interesting but
is very limited with no drop-downs/multi-
level navigation. The site is however
cluttered and unresponsive. Worse still, if
you zoom the page, the elements rearrange
themselves - horribly! But the biggest horror
yet is the very large grey space below the
main menu. Score them 35%.
There you go, let us have your opinions. What do
you agree or disagree with?
source: pulse.ng/student_pulse/student-pulse-rankings-unilorin-has-best-website-among-top-10-nigerian-universities-unns-is-worst-id3227538.html?utm_campaign=student-pulse-rankings-unilorin-has-best-website-among-top-10-nigerian-universities-unns-is-worst&utm_medium=social&utm_source=facebook

In my widest dream..... Could this
happen? I never
thought this could happen. When Nigeria
was hit by
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US Anti-Ebola
drugs called Zmapp and they even called
our Anti-
Ebola drug production a "Pesticide".
Obama sent them
to other Ebola hit Nations (Liberia and
Guinea). Now Nigeria with God's
intervention heard all our cry and in
His infinite mercy, He helped us
conquered it.
Ebola has hit US by a Liberian and Obama
had ordered some of his delegates to
Nigeria to seek
how Nigeria my Dear Country conquered
Ebola without
the help of any Country.
# ADVICE : Never be proud that you have
it all. Even the
Rich beg for a pen in the bank cos am a
witness. That
person you let down can turn out to be
your helper
tomorrow. One Love Nigeria! Together as
we
conquered Ebola, we shall conquer Boko
Haram.
hit "like" if u are proud to be a Nigerian.

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