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sirliu:
Please show me the passage in the bible where it said in clear language that the people of Soddom and Gomorah were destroyed becuase they were gay. Go and Read it again.

To the OP, you were not initiated. That is a cop out and you not taking responsibility. You tried lesbian sex and you like it. I know ladies who don't enjoy sex and they don't realise that they are probably lesbians. The best thing you can do for yourself is love yourself, pray to God and move to a country where you will be accepted for who and what you are. You can still become bi-sexual. It is possible, but it will cause a lot of mental headaches and self loathing.

An example, the Orlando shooter was obviously a gay guy but because of his self loathing, he went to a gay bar and killed 50 people. He refused to accept what he is.

Must you chip in anything??
Your line of reasoning is even zero. Does d OP appear like a woman?? Does his statement suggest he is into d bullshit or he is narrating someone's ordeal?
U rada kip quiet dan vomit nonesense

bdavis:
Hmm...quite an interesting read.

@jpride: good to know you want to help your friend, but I think you might not have handled it well. Reason being this: it's very obvious how you feel about homosexuals and it's very glaring you detest them with a passion, and rightly or wrongly, you see it as a disease.

Now when someone comes to you and confides in you like this, you should mask your feelings and thoughts and not condemn them or tell them it's evil and devilish blah blah blah (not saying that's exactly what you did, but from your comments, looks like you might have let your feelings on the subject get through) anyways like I said commendation for trying to help, but help and advice with love and care.

@foolinlove & the rest advocating she continues: Clearly it was stated that the lady enjoys the company of guys and has been swept off her feet a couple of times whilst smooching guys, and would love for it to continue, but she somehow has a mental block when it comes to going all the way and taking the whole 9 inch (or less as the case may be) into her...she has a mental block on actual intercourse with men, which from the story, wouldn't be surprising, since she was conditioned as such from her experience and it's taken 9yrs. No one said she was raped. But she didn't initiate the initial move. Statistics show that about 85% of ladies get involved in same sex 'experiments' at one point or the other in their lives, especially in the early stages of discovering their sexuality, whilst about 90% of men masturbates.

Let's not kid ourselves, sex in any form,(well in most forms sha cos I still can't wrap my head around guy-on-guy action...but that's another topic entirely) is sweet and could be more so for lesbians, given that they don't have to deal with premature ejaculation or societal pressures to be as good or better than the guy.

This story isn't about being ashamed as a result of societal values or preconceptions...it's about her. She wants out not cos of peer pressure as some of you have suggested (we should learn to read and connect with what we are reading and not project ourselves into it, which I think is what's happening in some cases) but because to her, it's now shameful and she feels riddled with guilt.

And please enough with the 'some people are born that way nonsense! Nobody is born anyway! No gene is responsible for sexual orientation. It's all cock and bull theories to justify being that way, same way a serial killer would say he/she was born that way...so we should embrace the serial killers too and condone their murderous acts right?

So after all that long story, my advice: she should change her circle of friends...stay away from her lesbian friends that she has had stuff with, work on her mind set, find someone she can really talk to without fear of prejudice, an accountability partner, fill her mind with quality and productive things, read self help books and most importantly, pray to God for help and study the best and oldest book in th world...the Bible

You killed it bro. If this is food, I think no one will reject it. What a masterpiece.
Thanks a million.
@Bdavis I actually regret that statement I made. The truth is I never treated her like shit. Infact I promised to help her get out of dis situation. I always try to kip in touch with her cos she is always moody with dis inferiority complex. She is very free to xpress her feelings to me irrespective of our varied sexual orientation. I made that statement because this FOOLINLOVE pushed me to do so. I read series of articles daily just to see dat i proffer solution. The more reason I came here to hear from caring hearts willing to save an aching heart, only for this foolinlove to use this as an opportunity to promote same sex relationship. I made it clear in my initial post dat she is very very desperate to leave dat way of life, she feel so inferior... she ddnt wish for it. She learnt sexuality from the wrong hand. Yes she can be blamed by some persons but I dont. I know how much she cherishes all the good advices from this thread. I'm so confident she will break free.

Thanks again bro

jerryokpeh@gmail.com

Vivos:
I dont doubt u are a christian,thats wat everyone say nowadays,in the begining God created Adam n eve, not Adam and steve or Eve n jenny,He knows y He did that,if because of ur advice she\they miss her way n continue in that sinful thereby disobeying God,it will be beta u were neva born than to face what awaits u at the judgement day. Continue following the Americans. If ur generations were lesbians would u ve ever been conceived. I weep for our future generation.

May God bless you to the fullest. His immense blessings will be on you. Just imagine the stupid words that inhuman is uttering..

stnglobal:
I can be of help to her but I won't say it here let her contact me at toochsamn@yahoo.com

Whatever assistance u can offer her, pls do it here or pm me. Thank u

foolinlove:
Yeah, but the poor guy isn't very bright. I'd let that one go and stick to the main topic of debate.

Screw u...........

Shame on you...... Satan is really very powerful. Demonic powers shouldnt be underestimated. Good is now bad n bad is good. I despise u and ur orientation.

You just registered in NL few weeks ago and u have only registered ur presence in "Romance" thread bevcause u know dis is were u will meet ur fellow "toy admirers".......

I rather marry a LovePeddler than befriend a "toy owner"

iamdurent:
You had better shutup and listen when wise ladies talk.
My 2 cents tho.

Are u an asshole too??
Una many o

iamdurent:
Last time i checked its Romans not "Romance"

That was a mistake....... d issue under discussion was more of inappropriate romance. Guess dats wat led to dat

foolinlove:
I don't want her to go through any unnecessary suffering, by forcing her into a way of life she is uncomfortable with. I presented a reasonable option - celibacy.

Imagine if the norm was to be gay. Thay being straight was shameful. And someone tried to force you to be gay. That's how she is feeling.

Be kind to her.

The girl in question is not being pressured to change her lifestyle. She is not just comfortable with it. She want a normal life. GET IT STRAIGHT FOOLINLOVE

Mekzyzeus:
Seems we have reached an impasse !
It's not a smart move to accuse me of plagiarism when you can't simply swing an argument!
I too wonder at your intellectual ability cos you clearly reason like a 5year old still hooked on pacifier
Tread carefully, cos I buy ink by the barrel!!

Free that girlboy joor.

ZIMDRILL:
thats points to the alternator i suggest you change it

ok......thank u. Ive bn suspecting d alternator. will do dat moro

foolinlove:
Jesus didn't write Corinthians. And the bible is old, as I've said before. It's outdated. The literal interpretation is no longer useful.

If you want to lead a life of hate and discrimination, then that's on you.

God will judge us all in the end. At least I stood up for what is right. Love and peace.

May God forgive u for calling the bible an outdated book just because u want to justify ur shameful and immoral life.
If u must know, I dnt see homosexuals as normal humans.

ZIMDRILL:
I removed the battery from the car and took it to a roadside battery charging shop. It was fully charged






its either your alternator is not charging or you battery is not holding charge

normal a battery sign will come on by the dashboard meaning the alternator is not charging

Yes the abattery light is displayed on the dashboard

foolinlove:
I am not asking or telling everyone to be gay, for crying out loud.

Jesus taught us to love everyone. EVERYONE.

Stop misapplying the scripture please. Do u also know dat 1Cor 5:9 - 12 ask us to quit mixing in company with a serious wrongdoer? Do u also know dat 1 Cor 15:33 say bad association spoil good habit?
When u wanna apply, apply reasonably

foolinlove:
Look, you need to stop reading the first things that pop up on google. I can't debate with someone who has a meagre education and keepa changing the subject.

I mean, what about Turners Syndrome? Kleinfelters?

Am I supposed to defend the very basis of scientific method here?

It's impossible for me to give you three years of education in a single post. Just stop.

I am not talking about androgens. I am not talking about gender dysphoria. I am talking about how out genetic makeup determines our sexual orientation.

Even animals have displayed homosexuality, because it is a variation that happens in nature.

Everything is genetic. EVERYTHING. Because it is determined by our genes and how they are expressed. The structure of your brain is determined and controlled by genes.

Why do I bother? Only people with extremely low exposure to education and the world thinm that homosexuality is somehow bad.

Incase u dont know, read Romans 1:26,27 and tell me whether God condemn homosexuality or not

Vendoor:
Yes you can... Change your circle of friends

What a candid advice.
Thank u very much

foolinlove:
I do. I'm straight. It doesn't mean I believe anyone different to me is wrong and evil.

I'm not a discriminatory person. I believe in human rights, love and peace - that's what Jesus taught us.

And I stand up for human rights. Even if it makes me unpopular. Because protecting and loving your fellow humans is the right thing to do.

Did Jesus promote same sex thing??

foolinlove:
Because there is no single gene responsible. Sexuality is not as simple as "one gene". There are many examples of this in genetics, such as hair type and colour - several genes are responsible and each have their own effect on expression and dominance of the other genes involved.

Sexuality is not the same as gender "confusion". That is entirely different. Being born with a female brain and a male body is referred to as gender dysphoria and can be remedied through gender reassignment. It is not the same as being homosexual at all.

Are you really comfortable playing with Love Machine?? If it is really a normal thing, why tactfully support it?? Why not openly tell everyone ur sexual orientation?

katyeee:
hmmmmmm gayism ain't easy to break free from, itx as difficult as drug addiction... especially when u hear stories of the opp sex being hurt....back to the girl; she has been in the game for 9yrs....Jeez! that's long enough...it only takes sincere love and concrete rehabilitation to end it...above all God's intervention.....she should stay far away from homosexuals,idleness and porn.. though it would take time but she would be definitely free...itx not an impossible task.

Thanksssssssssssssssss.
Your advice rockss...
Thanks so much. When I asked if she do watch porn, she said she did only once and dat was very long ago.
She has as well stopped her relationship with her lesbian friend. She has taken all those measures. The only thing left is that d feelings she has for her fellow females still outweigh that of men and she want it d oda way. She do enjoy being romanced by the opposite sex but on few occasions. But i believe time and God's intervention will heal everything.

Thanks again Kayteee

Mekzyzeus:
Homosexuality ain't genetic senorita!

As regards your argument about gay gene transfer of sex chromosomes(genosomes), male has XY sex chromosome(hetrogametic sex) and the female has XX sex chromosome(homogametic sex). The X(female) and Y(male) chromosome helps determines the gender of the baby depending on the one it inherits. This is basic rudimentary elementary biology.

New research even indicates that it is possible to tell whether a man is gay or straight by monitoring tiny changes in how his DNA functions AFTER birth – a field known as epigenetics. Epigenetic changes are known to be triggered by ENVIRONMENTAL FACTORS  such as chemical exposure, childhood abuse, diet, exercise and STRESS.
Long story short.. homosexuality ain't genetic oh!!

Thank you

GSKing:
Half the whole commenters on Nairaland are gay people. Get it?

I knew I as gay before I was even 5. There's no breaking free to be done here, one has to chose to either accept it or live a lie for the rest of their lives. A girl of 15? I was fûckîng around before that age. Go and die if that info hurts so much.

Sexual orientation isn't a switch, you may get to 30 and realize how much you love the same gender sex, believe it or not, it can come knocking whenever your brain feels like and when it does, it stays there forever. You can't run away from yourself, LOL...

Just tell that lady she is okay and help her move on with her life. There are Nigerian lesbians and bisexual ladies everywhere, she doesn't even have to look too hard to get a chic.

Take that advise if you're the lady in question.

Toodles

I should take d advice if I'm d lady in question?? Do I appear like I'm a lady?? The day I turn out to become a gay, let mighty thunder fire me dat day.

Shame on you wide asshole

[quote author=ZIMDRILL post=47167105]what do you mean you charged the battery [/quote


I removed the battery from the car and took it to a roadside battery charging shop. It was fully charged

GSKing:
Your silliness is just out of this world.

If I tell you she's absolutely fine, isn't that a positive advice?

I just hope the girl is not in fact, YOU.

When you realise the amount of internalized homophobia you and your ilk are brewing against yourself and the rest of the world, then you'll realize how much you're suffering on your own account.

Gay people are absolutely normal and fine. Genetics of not, people choose to be arsèholes, how come no one is asking them to change? But LGBT, no freaking way we're gonna allow that thrive.

'xcuse me

I will not insult u.
If you are truly a gay and u are happy, shame on you

MRBrownJ:
sadly, people dont want to accept the reality of today, which is that there are many lesbians/gays/bisexuals in Nigeria... thus they'd rather believe the BS stories that these Nigerian gays/lesbians/bisexuals are feeding them (aka i was "forced/blackmailed" into the act etc), in order to not go to jail or be lynched via jungle justice.

Guy grow up. Who is doubting d fact dat such thing exists?? How many gay/lesbian has walked up to u to express their pains/regrets to u?? If this girls is happy wit her lifestyle, who will come to her house to arrest her?? Try and be reasonable pls

foolinlove:
So you didn't actually read anything about celibacy and the USA that I wrote? It was helpful for your cause, even though I don't personally agree with it.

No, I dont know the shame personally. But I'd like to point out that the shame doesn't occur on its own. It comes from homophobes like you judging her.

I didn't create this thread for shameless lesbians and gays. It was created exclusively for reasonable guys and girls who are willing to offer practical advice on how she can break free if it is possible. A girl of 15 can easily be manipulated to change her sexual orientation. It is a habit that once inculcated, u grow with it dat feeling dat it bcoms difficult to live normal life again.
Your words are annoying

@Foolinlove

Please get the point straight. If u are not here to offer positive advice, flee from this thread. I'm here narrating d ordeal of a young girl to u, you are being unreasonable. Its unfair. Do u know what it took her to narrate this shameful story to me Do u know how much she need ur helpful advice?? You live a normal life, do u know how it feels to know ur lifestyle is abnormal, shameful and irritating?? Do u know the trauma dat comes wen all ur friends flee from u because of ur nature? Someone is telling u she was lured into the act wen she was tender and feel so ashame and want to get out of it, you are encouraging her to continue in it?? No one is created homosexual, pls get dat into ur skull.
She want to live like every other girl. More so, she knows her lifestyle dishonours God and it will not mean good if she eventually marry. Why cant u keep quiet if u cant help?

For those who gave reasonable advice, THANKS. I will forward your opinions to her

Thanks to u all. I appreciate. I noticed that when I switch ON everything, they look bright because I charged the battery.....but after a while they turn dim

I met a girl who narrated her ordeal to me. She was 15 when she got initiated into lesbianism by her family friend. Now she is 24. As she said, she love having romance with a man when the feeling comes but she have not had sex with a man because it appears irritating to her. She is so ashame of herself. Now she is ready to do anything just to break free and grow in feelings for men rather than her fellow women. What can such a girl do to break free from that shameful act?

There could be some persons who have broken free from that habit. Please your best advice will be highly appreciated

Thanks bro. I will check

I'm really so happy for thos thread.
I own a 5 Series BMW 528i 2001 model. The alternator became faulty due to leakage from power steering oil. I took it to an electrician who worked on d alternator. After dat, d battery seem to b charging slowly but after some drive, d car stopped. I noticed my battery has run down. The electrician claimed my battery is bad but my still charge when i took to those roadside battery chargers. Now if i diconnect battery head, d car off after about 6seconds. Again I noticed dat my battery light is still ON even after he claimed to have repaired d alternator. What exactly is the problem? Pls help me

My BMW 528i alternator got failty due to leaking power steering oil. An electrician repaired it but i noticed that my battery still run down even with the alternator he has repaired. Please what could be the fault Is it that my battery is bad or the alternator is bad?

Wat is d product exactly?