foolinlove:
If she lived in the western part of the world she wouldn't be so ashamed of herself.

She'd learn to accept and love herself for what she is - a lesbian.

People are born this way. There is a difficult path ahead of her. You can't "cure" homosexuality. It's like trying to cure your eye or hair color. You can use contact lenses, or dye your hair, but underneath your genes are still the same.

I implore you to support amd love your friend while she comes to terms with who she is. Often gay people turn to drugs and alcohol and suicide in order to cope with the shame they feel.


She may need to hide her sexuality, due to the laws in Nigeria , but she shouldn't feel ashamed for the way she was born.

I am praying for her. God loves everyone.

SANDOSKI:
*Pray for her........


*It's not easy....

foolinlove:
If she lived in the western part of the world she wouldn't be so ashamed of herself.

She'd learn to accept and love herself for what she is - a lesbian.

People are born this way. There is a difficult path ahead of her. You can't "cure" homosexuality. It's like trying to cure your eye or hair color. You can use contact lenses, or dye your hair, but underneath your genes are still the same.

I implore you to support amd love your friend while she comes to terms with who she is. Often gay people turn to drugs and alcohol and suicide in order to cope with the shame they feel.


She may need to hide her sexuality, due to the laws in Nigeria , but she shouldn't feel ashamed for the way she was born.

I am praying for her. God loves everyone.

foolinlove:
If she lived in the western part of the world she wouldn't be so ashamed of herself.

She'd learn to accept and love herself for what she is - a lesbian.

People are born this way. There is a difficult path ahead of her. You can't "cure" homosexuality. It's like trying to cure your eye or hair color. You can use contact lenses, or dye your hair, but underneath your genes are still the same.

I implore you to support amd love your friend while she comes to terms with who she is. Often gay people turn to drugs and alcohol and suicide in order to cope with the shame they feel.


She may need to hide her sexuality, due to the laws in Nigeria , but she shouldn't feel ashamed for the way she was born.

I am praying for her. God loves everyone.

UndisputedBosom:


Y re mine hvin a feelin dat u re indirectly supportin her...

She was initiated in2 it wen she was 15 and wasn't born wit it.

Get ur facts right...b4 poppin a comment

UndisputedBosom:



Y re mine hvin a feelin dat u re indirectly supportin her...


She was initiated in2 it wen she was 15 and wasn't born wit it.


Get ur facts right...b4 poppin a comment

seyezy:


My dear, you need to read the post well before posting yours, The poster said she was initiated into lesbianism and I quite disagree with you on the opinion that people are born as lesbians. Because if they are,God wouldn't have had any reason to destroy the people of Soldom and Gomorah.

foolinlove:


Spare me.

The bible is an old book and if you obeyed everything in there, you wouldn't be cutting your hair, or eating pork or shrimp.

Be real. You can't pick and choose what people do and don't obey in the bible. The most important part is to emulate Jesus love, and to show love and kindness to everyone.

bitchcrafts:
Continue talking sense to these fanatics on my behalf... I spent my whole lifetime in a spent moniker showing them the truth and the light... but I guess they are too hungry for HOPE... too strong believes in miracle , deliverance necessitated most possibly by the strikes of poverty... pummelling thinking straight a great deal, their understanding of the God concept too.

foolinlove:


I will. People can fear what they don't understand, especially when it feels uncomfortable to them.

What they don't realise is that you don't have to understand something in order to accept it. Everyone accepts that the sky is blue, whether they understand why or not.

No one is forcing homosexuality on anyone. What consenting partners do in their bedrooms is really no one's business. Everyone should grow up a little.

0ubenji:

I percieve some sincere empathy in ur words of encouragement..#IfYouKnowWahIMean

IknowWahYouMean

#I attended only girls school{boarding} and I know wat she is passing through. I have friends who were like dat before.

Its not easy.


#Always Pray for her

#how I wish, I can talk to her...... With time she will get over it..*sad*

bitchcrafts:
You too my dear, there are still some concepts that needs to be bluffed off your mind like its cancer but that's a story for another day

foolinlove:


What concepts? I no longer hate all men...

foolinlove:


So you're saying she was raped by a lesbian?

It doesn't sound like it. It sounds like she participated willingly and now, due to the pressure of society is desperate to become straight. So her life can be easier.

She still likes sex with girls -you said that, she wants an easy way out so she doesn't have to deal with her shame and the negative stigma anymore.

She's a lesbian. Possibly bisexual. There is no "cure". She has to live her life to the fullest the best way she can.

0ubenji:
Exactly my point

Nikita1:
Let her open herself to love a guy. It's just 'mindset' stuff. If I talk now, they will come for me

foolinlove:
If she lived in the western part of the world she wouldn't be so ashamed of herself.

She'd learn to accept and love herself for what she is - a lesbian.

People are born this way. There is a difficult path ahead of her. You can't "cure" homosexuality. It's like trying to cure your eye or hair color. You can use contact lenses, or dye your hair, but underneath your genes are still the same.

I implore you to support amd love your friend while she comes to terms with who she is. Often gay people turn to drugs and alcohol and suicide in order to cope with the shame they feel.


She may need to hide her sexuality, due to the laws in Nigeria , but she shouldn't feel ashamed for the way she was born.

I am praying for her. God loves everyone.

Nikita1:
Let her open herself to love a guy. It's just 'mindset' stuff. If I talk now, they will come for me

Vendoor:
Yes you can... Change your circle of friends