₦airaland Forum

bonaventure73: please are u sure u'r human?

bonaventure73: i dont know if my fellow male nairalanders have
noticed dis or mayb am just over-reacting....the
rate of heart-breaks and dumping is gettn too
much...abeg,hoes...wats happening??...is it dat u
Babes dont want to b serious abt relatnships
anylonga or u just want to chop money and go ....guys,i
think we shud protest ooo...abi,wat do u think...
?

gabazin080: bt av tried talkin to her always bt her behavior is not improvin

benghaziii: well...my gf is the exact type..we fite everyday... i ve not enjoyed 24hours quarrel-free...although am too jealous..she is pretty...she has bad friends too..whores who keep advising her that she shouldn't keep her eggs in one basket...that she deserves a beta guy
we ve broken up times without number....only fr us to come bk together. .am thinking of what to do
we are nt enjoying the relationship but rather enduring it..
is gonna be 4 yrs in November...
i hope it survives

Kasynpaulsyn1997: Oh.....but its not my business.

Wolison: I met this girl at a NIMC registration centre last year in August and coincidentally it was the day of her birthday, I saw the girl, looking so beautiful and wooable I momentary got myself together and approached her, after few minutes of my well-structured sermons, she yielded to my preaching.
In a nutshell, we started dating but I had one major problem with her which is her inability to say "sorry" at the right time and as at when due, but mystically I managed to have contained that and instilled the lifestyle in her.
Unfortunately, we always get immersed into one altercation or another.
I've had series of nasty words that ain't encouraging from her; she had to call off the relationship one certain time but said she merely joked, just to test the strength of my love for her but frankly, my heart was rented when she said that cos it got me instantly indisposed.
We later soldered our ways and moved very fine; on a certain day again, we'd another clash on Facebook where she threatened deleting me off from her list for useless reasons!!!
That was when it dawned on me that I was fighting a worthless battle which ought not to have been fought, I stopped calling her though I sometimes faked calling her and gave manner of flippant unsubstantiated tales; she lost my love, my trust, feelings....name it!!!
I assumed the single status immediately.
We later made-up and flow gently like sea but my heart wasn't there as of before cos she's irritating and also her indelicate attitudes.
Now the last shot: I had a talk with her, asking her whether she think we re still in the same ship, she nodded in affirmation...(unimaginable)
She now openly confessed to me of double-dating (so she double- dates?) which was what I told her that I greatly abhors; she said that she had to break-up with him (the guy) cos she loved me much lengthy, but initially, the raison d'etre why I initiated the talk was to peacefully break-up with her but was stocked up with emotions listening her lamentions which left me nonplussed.
I don't want this girl and I don't love her not even a modicum of it; my problem now is how to confront her and have the break-up peacefully done without shooting her emotionally.
I don't want to break her heart, just it being symbiotic. (I can clearly say that the relationship was purely platonic though with some smooching and smudging shaa).
Am trying to be brief and to go straight to the point cos there still lies untouched sins that I couldn't type so as not to bore you with an extensive write-up.
You guys can help me with a candid advice but not me going back to her cos I can never love her (maybe I would still reside small portion of likeness for her shaaa) please!!!
Advise me pls!!
Thanks!!!

Misogynist2014: Even if I have slept with thousands of them,I can still not marry a 'left over' alias 'second hand.' An adage says:It's only a person with a bad head that does not desire a good thing.
As for me,I don't freaking care about my past,All I fucking care about is getting a virgin as the mother of my kids.
If you were in my shoes,can you marry one?Be sincere.

Seun: I saw that there was a need for a truly Nigerian forum, after spending a long time on the Internet trying to create successful businesses. Yes, we make money by selling ads to business-people who want to sell products to our members or to encourage our members to visit their websites.

onstelly: Go and meet her parent first, if they refused then u can move on. So sorry about tht sometimes moving on is so hard

Scyllapatron: *a woman missed her flight, the flight took off and crashed in the midair 5mins after take off killing everyone on board, the woman took an airport taxi to return home, a big lorry hit the taxi at a junction killing only the woman.

*dog mysteriously returned to Enugu State from Lagos. a police dog (bought as puppy) lived for years with owner in Enugu State, the owner later sold the dog to a relative who brought the dog to Lagos, after 2days the dog escaped from the Lagos compound and went missing,
approximately 3weeks from the day it went missing the former Enugu owner called and said that he woke up in the morning and saw the dog in front of his gate looking hungry and disordered.
how the dog made his way back remains a mystery all.

Cannonleo: Same situation am having with this gal now

Natasha2: My dear its better you hurt her feelings now than later. A failed relationship is better than a failed marriage. No matter how you try to do it she will still get hurt, there's truly no way to let her know that wouldn't bring hurt because she loves you but you have to do the right thing. One thing I always appreciate is honesty and one thing I can't stand is deceit. If you are not ready for a serious relationship please let her know your stand, since you don't want her don't severe her chances of being with another man. Nothing beat sincerity. I was in a situation few months ago where I had to accept a guy who had been wooing me for 6 years. I did it out of pity and hope that I might actually fall in love with him, knowing how much he loves me. After a month I had to break up he treated me right no doubt but I didn't just feel the same way I knew breaking up with him will hurt him so much and honestly I was hurt too that I had to hurt someone but in the end it was for the best. Now he can be with a girl who truly loves him while I can have rest of mind being alone. Please don't play with peoples feelings it is just wrong and there's hardly any justification for it. I can't stand someone playing with mine so I can never do it to anyone. If not for anything for your own freedom and rest of mind please tell her, she deserves to know the truth, you owe her that.

Emmysteve: Your own better na. We wey dey beg our girl friends to tell her mum about our relationship wey she no gree nko? Loolz

onstelly: Sharp babe, I like her