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Their wahala,,,,na money we all need. Even when they claim it's not all about money 💰.

wanimo:
Going to live in the US is not promising at all

True

What's happening in Zamfara state that made them receive the highest share?

Congrats young lady¡!!!

She's narcissist, too manipulative, pretentious!! I ran for my life.

Our politicians nko?

Record breaking!!!

When are you coming back?
No one knows.

This has been the question hindering a successful relationship to come to reality. A relationship that have lasted three years+ with ups and downs suddenly came to a halt when I informed my babe about another traveling opportunity which she has been proposing after the first one failed. I returned home with nothing and she has been helpful too.

Honestly, I didn't inform her about the first one till the whole processes came and gone before she realized. She termed me a lier and called me names. I had apologize and she accepted but learning to believe whatever I say to her.

We had agreed to settle down before the end of this year but things wasn't working out well. Suddenly, this opportunity came and some money came in too. If you are in my shoes you would understand what am about to say. My parents wants me to get married before traveling. In a bid to avoid what happened initially, I informed her of this opportunity so that we can plan together on it as we have already decided to get passports ready. Her's is ready mine is in the process. I still have less than a year to get things done while I prepare myself. I equally convinced her that we can make the move same time or after I must traveled I would start her own processes.

The first and second day we had a successful discussion. The next day she termed it that am leaving her, I have already set my plans to leave. I begged her but I can't conclude if she accepted. Before this time, she gave me reasons like some men who traveled and left their wives to rotten, many negative excuses. Adding that some went there and remained prisoners. I told her cause these are happening to some people you know doesn't mean it will happen to you. Using where I came from as an example, we hardly get a record of men who traveled without their family. Many travels with them same time, some would return and go back with their family.

Few days I had to inform her to give us a date my people would like to know their family. Without giving a pause she declined. I asked for consideration she said no. If I would travel let me not come back to ask for her hand in marriage again. This time, I have returned my message to my parents.

Emotionally, considering what she has said. I have to call her few days that I understand and respect her decisions better we continue as friends and would not be enemies....she turned the statement against me that I have made up this plan to leave her long time ago, she is going to call my Dad to inform her that I have decided to leave which she did immediately when she dropped call on me. I can't really say everything that took place.

Two days later, my Dad called her to give us a date, tell your parents we are coming. she repeated same response she gave me without saying give me a little time rather we can visit as family friends. Then raised this question when am I coming back? Nothing has been done concerning the travel yet he replied let alone saying when I should return. My Dad accepted without letting me know, the call was to affirm her decisions.

Two days ago, we have commenced chatting again. I have asked once more why the decline she said I should blame her that I can go on and do what makes me happy. When I made her know her response is not reasonable and shows no respect she said I should not blame her, if am in her shoes I would understand her.

Let me not talk about how our communications have taken a different level since things turned against me. Already, she has some one abroad promising her heaven and earth. My question is how can one tell when he's coming home since the travel preparations haven't commenced. This is like one writing his will before he is dead. She asked me what would be her fate if i travel and never returned?

A beg moderator help out. I need responses pls

Congrats to them!!!!

It's well deserved.

God bless you guys

He said it right but these men are they ready to take this as to correct the menace.

It's unstoppable as far as IT world is concerned.

Am interested but I don't have any computer system with me. Is there any software for Android to assist me on the process?

It's been a long expectations from the financial institutions but they never embraced it till this moment.

Dexy4yah:
Narcissist doesn't see themselves as one...
Anything they do is the right thing to them as long as they derive happiness from it not minding weda their partner's feelings is hurt or not.


Stay away from a narcissist...they will take away your peace of mind and make you a sadist

Exactly, to her it seems that I hate the good part of hers instead of accepting criticisms.

Blackestjunior:
Bleepp

Not sure

Ego driven people,

Strong head people

I too know people... ITK

Just tell her to her face unless you be SIMPle man.

Am not a simp,,, man!!!

Does a narcissist ever know that they are one? Will they accept or defend themselves eventually you made them know about it?

Currently, am dating one now. Of course I have read about narcissist behavior but it is quite unusual we have gone far. I doubt she knows herself well cause I want to call her out a narcissist to her face. However, I need some reactions here.

Just a little money I borrowed from the bank that led to this long article while the government keep owing me. How will I recover mine?

200k it's to go with compared with the western countries.

"Nigerians have no reason to be poor" says the president.

Congrats my man

Love you brother!!!!!

Peter Obi to Nigrians and to the world!!

Deserve an award!!

Praxis758:
I support this.

Let the Eagles square and MKO Abiola Stadium be occupied by university students to show those satanic politicians that our education matters.

You’ll see how the ineffective DSS and drunk police will embarrass themselves by showing loyalty to destructive politicians if university students should occupy those PE venues in protest.

The military may even order the deployment of fighter jets to disperseY the protesting students.

I like this decision ASUU is taking.

I like this, hope ASUU will definitely take actions on this decision.

Whether it true or not.

What about Nigeria's foreign Affairs and Buhari, what's there take on this issue?

naija4life247:
Worst part is that ritualists and Yahoo boys don't use Almajaris for rituals

This one eeh, ei sweet pass

He runs like he's going to score goal.

Sunday2021:
we will continue to blame them till enternity. When PDP was in power, they were blaming the military and up to date some of you are still blaming the military.
We cannot stop blaming people that destroy our country for 16 yrs. Do you know what 16billion dollars will do to the sector? But obj PDP divert the money to their private Pocket and some fools are telling us not to blame them. Now tell us who are we going to blame or we should just agree that everything was good during PDP time?

What can we do them so that we stop blaming them? The blame will never stop it has become a stigma.

Na because money dey, some of the polygamist I know that doesn't have money don't have problemd with their wives and concubines.

Congrats � big brother, up APGA.