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Politics / Re: Diezani: EFCC Arrests Two Enugu Commissioners, Investigates Chime by Jude44: 7:53am On Oct 20, 2016 |
pls no arrest was made, its just a propaganda.. my bestfrnd's dad is a commissioner for water resources i called her now nd she said she's with her dad now.. |
Crime / Re: Two Ladies Attempt To Rape A Man In South Africa (Photos, Video) by Jude44: 1:42pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
casttlebarbz:pls wia did u download it? |
Romance / Re: Talk To Me About Ur Relationship Issues N Get D Best Possible Advice On Whatsapp by Jude44: 10:11am On Sep 23, 2016 |
are u a boy or a girl let me start with that |
Nairaland / General / Re: Nokulunga Buthelezi "Snake Woman Of Africa" (Photos, Video) by Jude44: 9:25pm On Sep 21, 2016 |
magicminister:beast |
Romance / Why Girls Love Dating Bad Guys.. 12 Reasons by Jude44: 8:39am On Sep 20, 2016 |
OUCH! ... These sting a little. It almost seems like most men fall into either the bad boy or the nice guy category. In my opinion, the ideal man is neither, but walks that fine line between the two. While some women say they want a nice guy, they usually end up dating bad boys. Here a few reasons (some legitimate and some just stereotypes that won't die) why girls like bad boys and dismiss the nice guys: 1. Nice guys' personalities don't seem genuine. advertisement Giphy Nice guys are too nice. No one can always be that nice unless they're a saint. They are busy being nice instead of being real, and women instinctively don't trust that. Bad boys "keep it real." Nice guys don't want to upset the apple cart. 2. Nice guys don't have self-respect. Giphy advertisement No one respects a doormat. Nice guys don't set boundaries or make any real demands. A bad boy doesn't let a woman walk all over him or control him. Women can't respect a man they can control. No respect equals no attraction. 3. They're SO predictable — w hich is just boring! Gif Sec Most people lead boring, predictable lives, so they're attracted to people who are exciting and a bit unpredictable. Bad boys are always a challenge. Nice guys are never a challenge. Predictable plus no excitement plus no challenge equals I prefer a bad boy. 4. Loving a bad boy is in our genes. Giphy Women are designed to nurture. However, instead of doing this with children, they often end up doing it with bad boys. They think their love will save them. Nice guys rarely need to be saved. 5. Women like to feel needed. Giphy Nice guys don't usually need "to be fixed." Bad boys usually do, so they become a "project." Some women think if they can "create" the perfect man, he will never leave them. Also, if they're busy fixing someone else, they don't have to look at what needs to be fixed in their own lives. 6. Nice guys seem weak. Giphy Women are subconsciously attracted to potential mates with strong genes . Bad boys send out a subconscious message that they those powerful genes. They believe their genes are so strong that they aren't afraid of losing a woman because of bad behavior. Nice guys' fear of losing their woman sends the exact opposite message. 7. Nice guys are into commitment. Giphy If a woman is afraid of intimacy , she subconsciously knows she can avoid it with a bad boy, since she can never get close enough to him to have to go there. A nice guy will eventually want a commitment, and that's scary. 8. Some women have low self-esteem. Giphy We don't feel comfortable with people who treat us better than we treat ourselves. If you don't think much of yourself, the bad boy is simply reinforcing your negative belief. A nice guy is treating you in a way you're not familiar with and that feels uncomfortable. 9. The sex just isn't as mind-blowing. Betches Women assume a nice guy won't be good in bed. We sometimes like to be manhandled and think a nice guy won't be able to take control and get the job done. A bad boy comes across as being able to deliver, even though that may not always be the case. 10. Bad boys are totally sexy. Giphy Have you ever seen a bad boy who wasn't hot? I'm sure there are a few, but they wouldn't be able to get away with half the stuff they did if they didn't look so good. Meanwhile, when a woman describes someone as a nice guy, she means, "He's not hot." 11. Nice guys aren't as charming. Giphy Nice guys don't always know what to say and are sometimes at a loss for words. Bad boys can be very charming and know exactly what women want to hear. However, they eventually switch over to being selfish. By the time they reveal their true colors, the woman has fallen hard and has a tough time letting go. 12. Nice guys aren't as strong physically. Giphy Historically, men have protected women — physically and otherwise. Bad boys give the illusion of being able to protect women, while with nice guys, women aren't so sure. Life is all about balance. Until men learn how to do that, more often than not, women will choose the bad boy, until they realize that his bad qualities outweigh his good ones. 1 Like |
Phones / Re: The First Person To Buy iPhone 7 by Jude44: 11:38am On Sep 17, 2016 |
dtruseeker:lion 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Know Money Doesn't Buy Happiness, But Let Me Cry In G-Wagon - ABSU Aspirant by Jude44: 10:50pm On Sep 14, 2016 |
yanabasee:is u dat is old fashioned |
Romance / Re: I Know Money Doesn't Buy Happiness, But Let Me Cry In G-Wagon - ABSU Aspirant by Jude44: 10:50pm On Sep 14, 2016 |
yanabasee:is u dat ia old fashioned |
Politics / Re: You Can’t Use And Dump Me, Muazu Tells PDP Members [PM NEWS] by Jude44: 4:28pm On May 03, 2015 |
Them dey use u u be babe? |
Politics / Re: Another Trekker From Taraba To Abuja To Present An Award To President Gej-pix by Jude44: 12:00am On May 02, 2015 |
Very soon nija go use am act movie |
Crime / Re: My Thread No Dey Reach Front Page Y? by Jude44: 11:20pm On Apr 25, 2015 |
iphanyiuma:lol |
Crime / My Thread No Dey Reach Front Page Y? by Jude44: 10:55pm On Apr 25, 2015 |
Ever since I joined narialand, narialand hv not recognize my thread in front page. Is really getting on my nerves, don't knw wat to do. |
Crime / Re: Meet Woman Who Married 2 Husbands Same Time For 11 Years In Delta (photo) by Jude44: 9:20am On Apr 20, 2015 |
Double penetration |
Romance / Re: Having Sex With A Reverend Sister In A Church Toilet: Whats The Repercussion? by Jude44: 4:51pm On Apr 19, 2015 |
Death!!! |
Health / Re: Breaking News : More Than 5 Died by Jude44: 8:47pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
Hahahahahaha....... Oba of idiots 1 Like |
Foreign Affairs / Re: – Man Who Shot South African Lucky Dube Says He Thought He Was A Nigerian. by Jude44: 9:45pm On Apr 16, 2015 |
Gbolask24:idiot. |
Crime / Re: The Face Of The Nanny Who Kidnapped The Orekoya Kids (Photo) by Jude44: 1:57pm On Apr 16, 2015 |
Omo she gather... Plz dnt kill her, I dnt want d boobs to waste 1 Like |
Romance / Re: When The Babe You Are Chasing Said She Love White Guys by Jude44: 9:40am On Apr 16, 2015 |
End time guys |
Crime / Re: He Was Raped By Fellow Boys Because Of His Feminine Voice by Jude44: 11:02am On Apr 11, 2015 |
tupem:pain watin? I dey mad? |
Crime / Re: He Was Raped By Fellow Boys Because Of His Feminine Voice by Jude44: 10:29am On Apr 11, 2015 |
tupem:tunder fire u there.... Asshole 10 Likes 1 Share |
Crime / Re: He Was Raped By Fellow Boys Because Of His Feminine Voice by Jude44: 9:47am On Apr 11, 2015 |
Idiot |
Politics / Re: UNBELIEVABLE!! Buhari Dances Shoki With His Daughter, Zahra After Winning by Jude44: 6:51am On Apr 04, 2015 |
Na craze dey worry u, idiot... I go report u oo 1 Like 1 Share |
Politics / Re: President Jonathan Asks A Quick Question On Facebook....(pix Inclusive) by Jude44: 9:24am On Mar 31, 2015 |
Need u? As as how? 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Breaking News: 2015 Election Postponed by Jude44: 12:35pm On Feb 07, 2015 |
First person to comment |
Romance / Re: HELP!!! Ever Since I Entered University, No Guy Has Asked Me For Sex by Jude44: 12:33pm On Feb 07, 2015 |
Front page tinz |
Jokes Etc / If Na You, Watin U Go Do? by Jude44: 5:13pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
I enter bus wey de go Niger state, as we were waiting for d bus 2load, I noticed 1 Aboki sitting behind d driver's seat holding a bag & sweating. D guywas so uneasy, shifting from side 2 side on his seat, wiping sweat from his face.Hmmm, at dis point I no know wetin I go think, could this be.....? Well, no need 2jump in2 conclusion yet. Now, he started to look around as if he was trying 2access his environment,he would look around & look @his watch, look again & check his watch, & then all of a sudden he placed d bag under his seat, jumped down & started walking very fast away from d bus. Omo see gobe ooo,na dat time Irealize say no be only me dey look dis man, as he jump down,everybody scatter, me self jumpdown go far place. Every single passenger abandon d bus, five minutes later, we saw the Abokicoming back 2d bus with tissue paper in his hands wondering where everybody had gone to.Finally, na shit Aboki go shit oo.But 2 b sincere, if na U, wetinU 4 do? 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Man Kills 3-month-old Son For Ritual by Jude44: 2:24pm On Sep 20, 2013 |
nawa ooooo |
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