Thank you all for all your kind advice, Please keep them coming!

@napa thank you , he has a girlfriend but always maltreats her, yes, we pray for him,and continue to do so

@shadeyinka Thank you for this kind advice , He has been taken to good ministers of God for deliverance while growing up, We got a job for him too but he complained it was too stressful, we decided to just leave him and pray for God to soften him, but I think his irresponsible behavior is taking a toll on everyone, and I just don't want to cope with it again,

@eyinjuege thank you , for your thoughtful advice, God bless you

@ fellis Thanks for your kind words , this too we have tried but he seems worse if he feels he has an effect on us....

@ richy4 he's my biological child, and we have tried to support him in all forms but he just wants to remain a bully .... is there any law enforcement agent that can handle him if he happens to lay hands on his father or anyone else?

Hello everyone, I have a toxic bullying adult child that all he does is to curse and threaten ,he is 37 years old and still lives with me and my husband, he has gone in and out of schools and does not have a form of tertiary education despite the fact that the father and I have, he hit his father about 2 different times before while living with us and still lives with us, he does not have any job, and does not want to get one, all he does is sells hemp and smoke too, My 2 other children are doing very well of very good professions and highly responsible, I wont say I've been an enabler,We raised his other siblings I think he just wants to be wayward and be influenced badly.I am in my sixties and just want to live the rest of my life in peace , the father has decided to leave him without any inheritance , I have noticed all he does is harass and threaten helpless people like the aged parents and younger children , good advice is highly appreciated

Hello everyone, I have a toxic bullying adult child that all he does is to curse and threaten ,he is 37 years old and still lives with me and my husband, he has gone in and out of schools and does not have a form of tertiary education despite the fact that the father and I have, he hit his father about 2 different times before while living with us and still lives with us, he does not have any job, and does not want to get one, all he does is sells hemp and smoke too, My 2 other children are doing very well of very good professions and highly responsible, I wont say I've been an enabler,We raised his other siblings I think he just wants to be wayward and be influenced badly.I am in my sixties and just want to live the rest of my life in peace , the father has decided to leave him without any inheritance , I have noticed all he does is harass, threaten and beat helpless people like the aged parents and younger children ,I can go on and on but this gives you an idea of what i have in my hands, good advice is highly appreciated