₦airaland Forum

Inferior19:
Una go just carry una mouth dey talk rubbish

illicit:
I once got a teaching offer there

The pay is 80k cefa per month

I learnt accommodation is about 30k cefa a month

Other utilities like water, gas and data will take another significant chunk, u buy water there it's not free

Are you talking about bottled water? If yes then please tell me where in this world is bottled water free. And if you’re talking about tap water then that’s not free neither cos water bills need to be paid. Anyway just let me know what you meant.

In Cotonou

I declined

Telstar:
Okay. Honestly, the probability of that guy marrying you is less than 0.5.

Telstar:
Which country does your boyfriend domicile?

AwesomeStormy00:
1) well sometimes that do happened sha but my advise is try apply again, this time use immigration lawyer let them help you to process your document. Yeah you may pay more but they know loophole they can use for you to get your visa. In any case if you visa office give you options to appeal any decision please go for it. Over 50% of people abroad got their visa through appeal.

2) certain document? Do you mean he doesn't have working permit on his visa? if you have working permit on your visa you can travel in and out of the country. In other word he your boyfriend might have over stayed his visa and he is trying to extend it through other means like assylum etc. ( please this is me typing based on my knowledge I'm not an expert ejoor)

What you can do in this case is to apply for student visa, with student visa you are allow to bring people into the country it is known as dependant visa, so family member can come stay with you. Since your boyfriend is there already you get your visa travel down there sort out your registration then get married his status is going to change pleasw try speak to immigration lawyer to explain in details that aspect to you

All the best, please do not give up.

Good luck

bigpicture001:
2017 till now is not far no.. Why wail like ur been waiting for 6years..if he doesn't comeback with money now.. U will still run.. Cuz as I know all girls, money comes firat

AwesomeStormy00:
Hi @Juliane quick question, why was your visa denied?

2) what do you mean his papers was not ready?

3) you talked everyday?? Time please nights morning afternoon or at anytime.

Reply to these questions before any input.

Take care

bigpicture001:
2017 till now is not far no.. Why wail like ur been waiting for 6years..if he doesn't comeback with money now.. U will still run.. Cuz as I know all girls, money comes firat

Polynek:
Opinion is like a nose everybody get His/Her own. I blv all dix advise from our friends here can help you make a decision. I wish you all the best

blinking001:
Interviewer :Which man in his right senses would want to still settle down with a woman that's already approaching 30 years?An expired evening newspaper for that matter

Me: a foolish low self esteemed Pussy wipped man.

Interviewer: you're Hired

Me: thanks sir, I'm grateful.

daniel7328:
If you feel it worth waiting for why not wait and don't allow anything or anyone intimidate you pressurize you.... follow your mind.

PlayMaker14:
Dear Juliane,


I really commend you for waiting that long for him, trust me, it's not easy... I will advise you to wait a little while if you truly want this man and don't put yourself into unnecessary pressure because you want to level up with your younger ones.

Try to keep the communication flowing between him and his family members and don't forget to also build yourself financially and otherwise...

Please don't see yourself as an evening newspaper, you're not up to that age.


On a lighter note; Apply Kayamanta" when he returns and trust me, he will not waste 2 seconds with the marriage plans.


I wish you well.

Tajbol4splend:
Do what you want that you think will be the best for you and don't do it out of pressure, someone's advice may not work for you, you keep talking about you not being bothered by age but inside you, you are already feeling your age, it's better to marry late than to marry the wrong person

Jashub:
Just be patient: he will marry you ; since it is obvious that he is committed to sending you over to join him. And lastly, make a habit of praying. For who knows whether that may hasten the process.

Peace