₦airaland Forum

Luckydabull:
Calm mi brotherly

Just chill

I'd advice not to conclude yet and give the benefit of doubt

peace

Okay, so what do I have to see or know to conclude the matter.

shawante:
I understand you perfectly Bro but in this case I'd advise you just play along.

Don't even bother doing the video calls sef.. Just study her for like a week then make conclusions from there

Ok thanks, I told her I want to pay her a visit if she is really in love as she claims, atleast a visit wouldn't hurt, but she told me that all her cousin brothers (normal doinz ��) are all around.

Oturatetuala:
Na ashawo house the girl dey stay, she no won tell u Abt am so that u no go japa.

But nothing bad dating or marrying an ashawo at least na human being

Lol, God forbid bad thing oo
But on a serious note, she just chatted me up now, still no network. LMAO until we see face to face. God abeg ooo

MrBrownJay1:
A) how much time and money have you spent on this babe?
B) what do you know about this babe, apart from the usual BS chit chat?

she is still in school(one of the well know public universities), the way and people she hangs out with(in school), is quite different from what she does once she is in town( she acts all cool and dressingwise too, from the friends I see her hangout with, let me not lie those girls na Street babes).

I won't lie, I spent reasonably well, for hangout, but not for any personal effect.

And once my mind start doubting somebody's trueself, most times I prefer to withdraw.
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Iyaebe:
Carry your fishy wahala from here,is she your wife that you are monitoring her? boyfriend entitlement mentality.

Madam this issue here has nothing to do with entitlement mentality, is better to be safe than sorry... Somebody always wants to come to your house but does not want you to come to her own house...is somehow na, let's put some Logical thinking into this.

chatinent:
Na she say she want una to date.

Na she want cook for you.

Na she want visit you.

How you take think she go wan make you junior opinion? Even if she has sb, that person is your deputy bro.


For your mind, everybody wey their phone get three camera dey use iphone. You know no some na refurbished? How facetime go work?

Believe.

shawante:
They are wired that way... Coupled with the dwindling economy.

But seriously a girl might be with different guys and yet still have a special likeness for you, maybe because of your vibes or for reasons best known to her

But brotherly, it is suspicious to constantly tell me that there is no network everytime, that she can only send VN, since I know the person..I believe you understand where I am coming from.

I met this girl about 2months ago, we have gone out once(we are not dating yet), and she said she wants us to date and all that acting like someone that is really in love.. She tells me she wants to come to my house, or maybe prepare food for me and bring, to save my time for work....

I notice anytime I ask for Facetime, she always complain of having bad network(even when the network is so strong).She has done it like 4times now. (That action does not match her attitude when we see face to face even when she sends VN, I hear alot of male voices in the background, contrary to what I should expect based on where she told me she is staying and I have concluded that there is something she is not telling me, and my instincts is that she is into something fishy......(you know what I mean).

My Dear Nairalanders I know the best thing is to discard her as soon as possible. But I need your opinion on this.

I am still wondering why an average Nigeria lady looks for who to deceive.

@Sammy I will totally agree with you.Instead of wasting my time hoping, and everything falls between stool at the end of the day.thanks man

[In otherwords i should move on abi??quote author=donbachi post=90698687]Women dont make decisions.they are not good at that....they concludes without making decisions.she don conclude long ago...na u no see am.[/quote]

Hello nairalanders,please I want your candid advice on something and I will be glad if I get as much advice as possible.There is this girl(22yr),graduate from one of Nigeria's foremost universities.I first met her in school,but I never talked to her, I don't know if I should say I liked her immediately i saw her.Atleast from her looks and dressing she was atleast descen. Even thiught hat is not the yardstick for measuring descency.Fastfroward to 2020 after graduation I met one of my primary school friend that was her classmate, and explained everything to him, and he said he was going to talk to her about it.And he also confirmed to me that she is acrually descent and God fearing too.After he talked to her, to cut the long story short, she told him she was going to message me herself, which she did.
We started talking from there and I asked her if we can go out and she said, yes.We chose a date went out,and just had a nice time but I never made my intentions known to her immediately. One day I summoned courage to tell her,and she told me she has someone but it was not official yet.But one issue i have with her is that she finds it difficult to call or even chat,but once I call like this, we talk well and it is fun.And finally she told me that it is going to be a survival of the fittest, And God will help her make her decision.please nairalanders what are your view on this.And mind you,I actually like her,but I don't know if it will be wise for me to keep on waiting until she makes her decision,even though I still have a girl that actually wants me to date her. She is nice and cool also, but I don't want to rush anything.So i dont make mistakes. what do you guys advice.Thanks in advance.