I met this girl about 2months ago, we have gone out once(we are not dating yet), and she said she wants us to date and all that acting like someone that is really in love.. She tells me she wants to come to my house, or maybe prepare food for me and bring, to save my time for work....

I notice anytime I ask for Facetime, she always complain of having bad network(even when the network is so strong).She has done it like 4times now. (That action does not match her attitude when we see face to face even when she sends VN, I hear alot of male voices in the background, contrary to what I should expect based on where she told me she is staying and I have concluded that there is something she is not telling me, and my instincts is that she is into something fishy......(you know what I mean).

My Dear Nairalanders I know the best thing is to discard her as soon as possible. But I need your opinion on this.

I am still wondering why an average Nigeria lady looks for who to deceive.

Na she say she want una to date.

Na she want cook for you.

Na she want visit you.

How you take think she go wan make you junior opinion? Even if she has sb, that person is your deputy bro.


For your mind, everybody wey their phone get three camera dey use iphone. You know no some na refurbished? How facetime go work?

Believe.

Carry your fishy wahala from here,is she your wife that you are monitoring her? boyfriend entitlement mentality.

They are wired that way... Coupled with the dwindling economy.

But seriously a girl might be with different guys and yet still have a special likeness for you, maybe because of your vibes or for reasons best known to her

.

Just4this:
I met this girl about 2months ago, we have gone out once(we are not dating yet), and she said she wants us to date and all that acting like someone that is really in love.. She tells me she wants to come to my house, or maybe prepare food for me and bring, to save my time for work....

I notice anytime I ask for Facetime, she always complain of having bad network(even when the network is so strong).She has done it like 4times now. (That action does not match her attitude when we see face to face even when she sends VN, I hear alot of male voices in the background, contrary to what I should expect based on where she told me she is staying and I have concluded that there is something she is not telling me, and my instincts is that she is into something fishy......(you know what I mean).

My Dear Nairalanders I know the best thing is to discard her as soon as possible. But I need your opinion on this.

I am still wondering why an average Nigeria lady looks for who to deceive.

A) how much time and money have you spent on this babe?
B) what do you know about this babe, apart from the usual BS chit chat?

chatinent:
Na she say she want una to date.

Na she want cook for you.

Na she want visit you.

How you take think she go wan make you junior opinion? Even if she has sb, that person is your deputy bro.


For your mind, everybody wey their phone get three camera dey use iphone. You know no some na refurbished? How facetime go work?

Believe.

shawante:
They are wired that way... Coupled with the dwindling economy.

But seriously a girl might be with different guys and yet still have a special likeness for you, maybe because of your vibes or for reasons best known to her

But brotherly, it is suspicious to constantly tell me that there is no network everytime, that she can only send VN, since I know the person..I believe you understand where I am coming from.

Iyaebe:
Carry your fishy wahala from here,is she your wife that you are monitoring her? boyfriend entitlement mentality.

Madam this issue here has nothing to do with entitlement mentality, is better to be safe than sorry... Somebody always wants to come to your house but does not want you to come to her own house...is somehow na, let's put some Logical thinking into this.

MrBrownJay1:


A) how much time and money have you spent on this babe?
B) what do you know about this babe, apart from the usual BS chit chat?

she is still in school(one of the well know public universities), the way and people she hangs out with(in school), is quite different from what she does once she is in town( she acts all cool and dressingwise too, from the friends I see her hangout with, let me not lie those girls na Street babes).

I won't lie, I spent reasonably well, for hangout, but not for any personal effect.

And once my mind start doubting somebody's trueself, most times I prefer to withdraw.
I

Just4this:
she is still in school(one of the well know public universities), the way and people she hangs out with(in school), is quite different from what she does once she is in town( she acts all cool and dressingwise too, from the friends I see her hangout with, let me not lie those girls na Street babes).

I won't lie, I spent reasonably well, for hangout, but not for any personal effect.

And once my mind start doubting somebody's trueself, most times I prefer to withdraw.

invite her to some hotel, make sure she only knows about location when you guys get there, get some "sexual" value from all the money you spent on dating her til date....and be done with the babe.

We have told you guys countless times before that you don't date Nigeria girls, u bang their pussies, dump them and move on

Just4this:



she is still in school(one of the well know public universities), the way and people she hangs out with(in school), is quite different from what she does once she is in town( she acts all cool and dressingwise too, from the friends I see her hangout with, let me not lie those girls na Street babes).

I won't lie, I spent reasonably well, for hangout, but not for any personal effect.

And once my mind start doubting somebody's trueself, most times I prefer to withdraw.
I

What a Simp you are.

That girl is a coded runz girl who obviously have lots of customers/suitors she cashes out from! You're of course one of her maga too!

Oga, bang that girl, dump her and move on, you should know apart from sex, Nigeria girls have absolutely nothing meaningful and purposeful to offer a man in a relationship apart from their over used pussy

Just4this:
I met this girl about 2months ago, we have gone out once(we are not dating yet), and she said she wants us to date and all that acting like someone that is really in love.. She tells me she wants to come to my house, or maybe prepare food for me and bring, to save my time for work....

I notice anytime I ask for Facetime, she always complain of having bad network(even when the network is so strong).She has done it like 4times now. (That action does not match her attitude when we see face to face even when she sends VN, I hear alot of male voices in the background, contrary to what I should expect based on where she told me she is staying and I have concluded that there is something she is not telling me, and my instincts is that she is into something fishy......(you know what I mean).

My Dear Nairalanders I know the best thing is to discard her as soon as possible. But I need your opinion on this.

I am still wondering why an average Nigeria lady looks for who to deceive.

talk to her directly. What do you want us to tell you. We are not mind readers.

Na ashawo house the girl dey stay, she no won tell u Abt am so that u no go japa.

But nothing bad dating or marrying an ashawo at least na human being

Oturatetuala:
Na ashawo house the girl dey stay, she no won tell u Abt am so that u no go japa.

But nothing bad dating or marrying an ashawo at least na human being

Lol, God forbid bad thing oo
But on a serious note, she just chatted me up now, still no network. LMAO until we see face to face. God abeg ooo

Just4this:





But brotherly, it is suspicious to constantly tell me that there is no network everytime, that she can only send VN, since I know the person..I believe you understand where I am coming from.

I understand you perfectly Bro but in this case I'd advise you just play along.

Don't even bother doing the video calls sef.. Just study her for like a week then make conclusions from there

shawante:


I understand you perfectly Bro but in this case I'd advise you just play along.

Don't even bother doing the video calls sef.. Just study her for like a week then make conclusions from there

Ok thanks, I told her I want to pay her a visit if she is really in love as she claims, atleast a visit wouldn't hurt, but she told me that all her cousin brothers (normal doinz ��) are all around.

Calm mi brotherly
Just chill
I'd advice not to conclude yet and give the benefit of doubt
peace

Luckydabull:
Calm mi brotherly

Just chill

I'd advice not to conclude yet and give the benefit of doubt

peace

Okay, so what do I have to see or know to conclude the matter.

Iyaebe:
Carry your fishy wahala from here,is she your wife that you are monitoring her? boyfriend entitlement mentality.

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WTF MAN!

If you got her from this forum, bro delete that number asap. Or rather never let her know you own an apartment, if you want to sleep with her take her to an hotel.

Just4this:


Ok thanks, I told her I want to pay her a visit if she is really in love as she claims, atleast a visit wouldn't hurt, but she told me that all her cousin brothers (normal doinz ��) are all around.

.. Bro the babe na cruise o. Anyway if you can't pay her a visit let her be the one doing the visiting at least it will save you the stress.

Las las if she starts demanding for money you find your way

toujurs:
If you got her from this forum, bro delete that number asap. Or rather never let her know you own an apartment, if you want to sleep with her take her to an hotel.

Lolz, forget that thing bro,any girl you meet on This forum is cool headed,no responsible woman will have time to read news on online,na Facebook Dem Sabi,,, forget all Dem banters for This forum,I believe they're different other women, I've noticed it for sometimes now,runs babes no deh know Wetin deh sup base on intellectuals,na fkexin and make uoydem Sabi, reason nam...

Exkandayee:

Lolz, forget that thing bro,any girl you meet on This forum is cool headed,no responsible woman will have time to read news on online,na Facebook Dem Sabi,,, forget all Dem banters for This forum,I believe they're different other women, I've noticed it for sometimes now,runs babes no deh know Wetin deh sup base on intellectuals,na fkexin and make uoydem Sabi, reason nam...

Cool headed you say?. Not true! Most girls here are introverts and toxic. Due to one or two use and dump by guys. Very Boring and they like urgent 2k, Osho free.