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Acidosis:
You're not married yet she calls your mom to complain about your sudden reluctance to have sex with her? You mean your "unmarried" girlfriend of 4+ years called your mom to complain about this?

Considering the kind of family you have, I don't think cheating should be considered an issue to be very honest.

Just six weeks of no sex with your girlfriend and she's already crying, calling your mom?

LMAO!

are you so stupid to see where i Said we are engaged. Do you know what the term engagement means? Don't be stupid behind your keypad.

realestate99:
The love can't come back, don't deceive yourself, for that man to think he has a son with your girl means they have done " terrible things" for long.
Most times girls cheat just to have a feeling of being with a new person, not that they have any problem with their relationship.

I really pity you because psychologically you are down at the moment, Time will heal you but you are better off by solving the whole issue once and for all, you can call respected people from both families and treat it once and for all, any move you want to take is in your hand.

do you know your evidence is weak in front of a defiant lady?, you still have unfinished business with her phone, you need to get more details of their chats and get a vivid identity of that man or else your lady might deny everything and turn you to mutembe.

I have pictures of the chat saved on my phone, I know if I tell my Mom the marriage is over, I made my friend swear a oath of silence not to tell another soul? This girl is sweat like really kind. My perfect kind of lady, innocent ( I thought she was) gentle, super clean, prayerful ( she wakes up each day by 3am and pray and all she says is God bless my husband) she never allows me and my son gets hungry, she never fights or quarrels with my neighbors, like I don't know why she did that. I don't just know. I swear I still love her and pray I grow feelings back for her

Lamasta:
Your girl is taking advantage of your calmness and gentility to cheat on you.....

Voice out your discovery to her and make your decision to forgive her or let her go instead of holding grudges towards her

bro I have checked her phone, from Facebook to Instagram and WhatsApp and there is no evidence apart from the other one that she is cheating and most I be someone else ( shouting and trying to prove I'm the man) to show her am in charge? We just finished praying right now after she served me dinner and I can see her not happy but I just feel empty. Maybe I should just tell her and if we can work things out. I feel sad I'm putting her through this and no be say I no dey see women wey want me ooo but I believe In the sacred and sanctity of marriage. May God help me on what to do

Decency2020:
If only you know that most of these stories here are fabricated. People with real marital problems don't run to nairaland because here is full of lunatics.

Never be deterred about marriage. It is an institution made by God so it is good. Reason why many marriages are suffering today is because many don't prepare for marriage rather they prepare for wedding and after the one day event they are not ready for the real deal.

Having said that no sane person runs to social media to discuss his or her private life . Don't just mind them

what would I gain if I post fake stories, did you see me bash her, what would nairaland likes and retweet do for me? You think the DNA results is fake also? Have you ever been hurt by someone you truly love? Do you know what paternity fraud is? Anyways goodnight and sweet dreams..

Sonnobax15:
Na so cha...but bro,I for like say make you confront her...At least, make the grudges for leave your mind..My take tho...

won't she just cry and say it's the devil..my brother make I do like say I no no yet and just dey use style check her phone and if by March Next year the love never come back then we go end am

Franzinni:
Op, save yourself the unnecessary heart ache and forgive the girl because you will still forgive down the line so why waste the time in pain and sorrow ... let it Go as long as she still loves you because you are in love with her and you are willing to let go if not you won't even be here on the matter

Most women are cheats, as much if not more than men but they only take the precaution to no get caught abit better than men.

But know the line has been crossed and you can never see her the same again.

It could be even better tho because she can go extra miles to prove her love after the mistake (if she loves you Niyen)

Also you need to start seeping some red pill smoothies because if some random dude can be calling you small boy... hmm e get wetin him see or hear.

Watch some toxic YouTube MGTOW and gym your masculinity small. Every woman loves to chase that is why bad boys will always get their attention over pleasers or for lack of a better word.... simps.

Peace

lol I understand bro, I no be simp oo, and if you see me I don't look 28, the man is an older guy from his picture of whaatapp..I feel like posting that bastards picture sef but what would I gain from it. But I just feel when you love your woman you should love her with all your heart and soul and not look outside. But thanks

Sonnobax15:

Op, first of all,kudos to that nigha of yours...In fact,na that kind of best friend guyman suppose get....

Well,110k has just saved you from the future trauma....And this whole story should serve as a lesson to any man who thinks marrying a virgin is a sure way to escape from women's promiscuity and their endless wahala .

Las las, woman wey go cheat go cheat...So fvck virginity

But op,just reason your son and just try forgive her....

brother it's hard. I can't imagine she keeping such secret. Haba, someone else was banging my woman while I was loving her and caring for her and toiling for her. Thank God he is my son if not I for fit beat her for the first time. But I hope the love comes back Sha

Pierocash:
Your post is incoherent. You started of with paternity fraud ,later switched to cheating. And turned to you hated her,but you still love her.


Your post is direction less.

hey I'm not a professional writer ok. Just felt like writing down my pain and to advise someone. See how you want to see it. Take care and goodnight

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