₦airaland Forum

donstan18:
You should rather copy Davido and think of settling down than investing his time watching Tacha on Bbnaija.

Let's leave the messenger this time. He made a good point tho.

Neddyogu:
Outside the uni.

Thanks for the clarification.

Neddyogu:
Not within the university. It was a Private building.

Outside the 4 walls of the university? Or inside but a private building. The topic reads "Building collapses in Unizik"

Come this thing don de vex person o what kind of see finish is all this.

World wide are flexing their muscles on Nigerians wetin sef shuu.

This man seems free. Enjoy your golden years you worked for it.

Wow!

And this happened in tha university with supposed Professionals.

When you're in power treat the people right cuz no one stays in power forever. Life is more than money sometimes.

Nor be him fault.

These days insanity pays more than being sane.

IF u wanna survive in this country you must have some percentage of madness.

Really for social media followers?

That's life. Tables turn in seconds don't look down on Anyone.

Is this for real.

NaWa!

Nothing we nor go hear.

Ol' G's when nor wan rest for youngins to take over. Dragging us back with their ol' style of reasoning.

Dammy should have been a gangsta rapper instead of a pop abi R&B singer.

JasonScoolari:
"LIFE"



Life is just like a FLOWER, today it's HERE, tomorrow it's GONE.... It's indeed the master of disguise.

A beautiful mother who had plans for her kids, herself and her tomorrow....

I ask again, what is the essence of bringing us into this world when He knows we will all die?

Mtchewww, Rest peacefully beautiful woman and I pray for the little ones you left behind fighting for their young lives.

Painful shi life sometimes got no meaningful meaning mehn.

purples25:
I dont understand, this thing you are asking us, is it not your family that is supposed to sit and help you plan? You dont have any elder relative that will guide you except we strangers on nairaland?

Well, i dont know who you have but its good you're asking. Me i feel you should do the small thing that is within your power and be happily married.

Just spend what you can afford. If it is small you can afford, good. If it is a big something you can do, good, lol.

Don kee yourself.

@purple25 You know U&I got same view on this. @Op is about time we start doing things according to our capability we Africans especially Nigerians are stressing ourselves a lot on these wedding thing and forget that the main thing is the marriage itself and not the party.

Look at the wrestler/actor "The rock" wedding some weeks back with all the millions he has he did a simple wedding. Make we nor de kill ourselves here over the party the main goal is the marriage.

Look at all them celebs crashed marriages recently imagine all they spent yet the marriages ended before 5yrs mark. what matters is the aftermath do where your power reach cut cost like the pics I will post with this check what the couple decide to do. We need to be bold.

N.P. Don't misinterpret the pics those are two different events the I.V couple is different from the wedding pics.

I wish u success tho.

She obviously got no shame.

He's lucky. Politics is a dirty game.

Stepping outside in this country is already a risk. Even the rich and politicians are feeling the heat too.

Na God go help us.

This will sound harsh but some rich folks dogs feed better than the average Nigerian. People are suffering in this damn country and the worst part is the government don't care.

SMH.

What a shame.

Nawa! people take this show personal o as if they're gaining anything from it. Housemates that don't even send them.

purples25:
Thanks.

Uwc.

Cool works.

purples25:
Kwara. I am just a normal woman tho. But i don't like this rowdiness, noise and crowd, and headache.

oH kwara you a northerner or Yoruba? Or otherwise. You don't strike me like some1 from kwara or you grew up in other states. Back to topic. Some people like it o. In fact they focus more on the party than even the marriage itself that's why we having broken marriages here n there.

purples25:
People would be vexing that you didn't invite the whole neighborhood to eat. Some people will still invite themselves.....naija wedding.

Only hope is if truly you can put your foot down, be a no nonsense person. Then they may listen, things will go your way because you don't care who gets annoyed.

Exactly. You don't reason like the average 9ja woman tho. What region of 9ja are u from.

purples25:
I'd like to have something simple and classy and quiet too. Hate the idea of crying, going mad, running up and down that day, cuz of some people who must eat and still make mockery of you.

Something simple yet classy, no too much noise! With only few people who care, who are not salty and over sassy.

Private, brief, peaceful, yeah we dont want too many comments.

That would be nice.

Exactly the event I fancy. No crowd just love ones. But how possible is that in 9ja. When your family each go invite their fiends mama Papa go invite their own siblings etc.

The only way to achieve that is laying a strict rule to the family involve that this is the number of guest I need no more no less..

kunleweb:
Smh for you. That's why you're single


Women look at benefits. When trying to catch a prey, you watch its characteristics and not think like yourself. To catch a woman, a man must think like a woman thinks. Women think of Gian's and try as much to run from liability



Get it straight. I'm done

Let me just dive in this convo tho I wasn't mentioned. You refer to a woman as prey really? Looking at benefits that's how most men got married to women that don't have a single atom of love for them. They keep treating the women as goods buying their love with money and as soon as the money goes the honey leaves.

I like the realness of the op.

majamajic:
when I say my mind now , people will say I don't mind my business ,

shey them wey carry their matter enter online them wan mind their business ?

As in ehn.

All these online show of love I do see it as fake jare. People now feel they're obligated to share their daily activities with strangers on social media why?

Hmmm!


Some deep words in that post mehn.

'I bought three cars in one day when I was at Tottenham: a Lamborghini, a Hummer and a Cadillac. To the youngsters, I tell them: "You cannot buy happiness".

The look on that kid's face says it all..

overlord77:
Imagine the likes of Tacha being celebrated in this whack country. Guess there is no need for schools anymore if the no-do-goods are getting all the spotlight and normal people are being ignored and broke. Chai

Just imagine that.