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It is definitely Michael Joseph Jackson(August 29, 1958 – June 25, 2009)

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It's not right, I can't think of any biblical response for now.

I won't hesitate to facilitate my NYSC to any state I deem it fit.

I need to know your age, so I can advise you relative to your age.

Until I find a book with satan's own story in it, I can't make any comparison. The bible is God's story and I believe it.

By the way satan has also killed much. his disciples are really working around the clock.

What happens when there is a penalty shoot out where the other 10 have taken their kicks and the coach had exhausted all his substitution before the shoot out?.

Idowuogbo: Wtf? Guy, ur babe na Ashana. Listen, make I knack u tru stories... Most of my friends are males. But! I don't go about saving dier names wiv "my life", wetin? Dem b oxygen? [size=14pt]Dude, marriage won't change nada![/size] If u like go carry commercial waste put for house, after wedding,dem go update and save ur name as "Recycler".

I assume the guy is suffering from a low self esteem. The earlier he wakes up and face the reality, the better for him or else reality will set in by default and I'm sorry he will just be a recycler.

OP by the way I think you should go through some threads in the family section, so you will have an overview of what you are going into. If you decide to proceed, I will be waiting for your thread in the family section, My wife cheats/cheated/cheating on me.

shawn5ng: Honestly, she's my kind of dream girl and can't stop telling me she has seen it all that I shld calm down.

I assume that if she is your dream girl you should not have any issue with her lifestyle, but your post reveals otherwise

One thing I like abt her is because she accepted me for who I am unlike d other one I left for her who can't even intoduce me to friend not to talk of her family.

Only a loser will write this.
There are billions of girls on earth, there are other girls who will love you even more than she did.
You should'nt base your love on her acceptance of you.

I don't really know if the love she claims she has for me is genuine and am about to meet the father soon. I left all my flings cos I wanna be faithful to her and expecting same from her.

I assume if her love is genuine, she should please you, but your post reveals otherwise.

What kills a married man early in life is knowing fully well that ur wife cheats and then I don't understand their language is another challenge.

Only a fool will proceed into a marriage knowing fully well that his wife cheats.(Cheating, smoking, drinking etc are habits that can't be easily broken, knowing this fully well an proceeding is synonymous to stupidity)

I see all these unhealthy signs but really stuck in the relationship that leaving could affect me but finding ways I cud do that without hurting myself d more.

Again another sentence that reveals that you think and sound like a loser.

My final cent on this thread:
Marriage is to far a journey to see red flags early enough before the solemnization and still proceed.
Let me take you back memory lane
I assumed you said this about the first girl you ever loved. I will never love any girl except you, I've found my wife. I don't think I can survive without you etc.
But after series of events you fell in love with someone else and you did survive your first relationship. My point, leaving this girl isn't going to be an exception.

In fact with the way you reason and think I can predict that you will be miserable in that marriage even if she changes. You making it sound like she is a big trophy that can't be lost, trust me she will capitalize on that, knowing fully well that you will do anything to please her, even if it meant admitting you are wrong when you are not.

Remember to see things as they are, not as you wish them to be. Be brave enough to face the Principle of Truth. If her behavior makes you angry or tense when you eventually get married, then it is your fault, not hers, you were lucky and fortunate to see the signs early enough, ignoring the signs won't save you from the reality when it finally sets in, this is a time bomb waiting to explode.

Finally: She’s not better than you and neither is she the best girl on earth. Intrinsically, there is not one human being who is truly more valuable or better than any one else. She sleeps, eats, farts, belch, wears her trouser one leg after the other, she acts like every other girl, she is not a superwoman neither is she a trophy that cannot be lost.
It is a big misconception for you to think you can't survive or live without her.


In the end you have to be optimistic and believe there is a girl out there who will love you for who you are and who you will also love in all totality including her lifestyle etc. Never settle for less when there is more(there are just too many ladies). Also don't be fooled my the misconception that the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know. Only a mediocre thinks like that

NEVER forget you were born without her. Don’t waste your time, do what needs to be done, let her go.

Ultimately this is the best I can do for you, the final decision lies with you. It’s better to regret the things you did than the things you didn’t.

40Lightyears: Whether their break-up was smooth or rough, dont try it. Don't joke with emotions!

For Christ sake, I'm the one who is friend with him not my wife.

Are you saying if my friend had dated my wife before, I should stip being friends with him.

[quote author=gree-die]because there are better schs.[/quote]Mind telling me the school.

[quote author=gree-die]same sch? no[/quote]why?.

sanb: I love my course/profession a lot. I just couldn’t see myself studying for a different course...

hmm, I think I can identify with you.

Church business is definitely a good business.

sanb: That’s for sure. I’ll definitely study my course again.....

why?.

Unfortunately, I'm busy and she is also busy.

I doubt if I will ever wear a wedding ring and I also doubt if I will ever cheat on my wife.

Wearing of wedding rings or not doesn't correspond to fidelity.
Fidelity is based on the individual and not the presence or absence of the ring on the fourth left finger.

trojanjeremy: you r a student of Unilorin o guess! As for me o its either elect/elect or unilorin, definitely not the two *lailai

You incredibly guessed wrong.

(11+10)÷2=10.5

Actually I saw 10.

It depends entirely on the breakup.

Yes, but a different university.

Ebony my preference any day, any time.

A candidate is a reflection of his party, but it's more preferable to vote based on the individuals record because that's the deviation factor on the long run, evident by the fact that comparing a state with the same political party with different candidates in succession, the candidates will not achieve the same results. It boils to how far the candidate is willing to work.

shawn5ng: I discover she saves guys name on her phone with pet names eg my life.Mine is my sugar, my heart, ifeanyi love etc to the extent that the first time I discover that of my heart I was so furious until she now told me is her mum nd truly it was.

So all the pet names belong to her mum, including Ifeanyi love, think with your brain, the fact that her mums corresponds to one doesn't mean the others corresponds to her relations.

Today I discover a guy saying I love kissing ur lips and I miss u and she replied I miss u more.

Only a fool will ignore a good evidence like this.

She drinks and told me she will change and I will ever thank God if I got married to her if it works out but am scared cos of her wild life. Could it be she will change truly.

Expecting otherwise would not only be slightly crazy, but it would leave you disappointed for the rest of your life. There are certain traits that people have, and you cannot wish or hope them to be different; they can only be accepted. Another reason to leave her.

Does d ibo ppl look outside after marriage?

You don't judge a whole race by the actions of a selected few.

Pls advise me cos I can't imagine my wife having man friend when we are married.

Let her GO! You’re better off alone than with the wrong woman!

In closing, NEVER forget there are thousands of women who are better than her.

[quote author=Mynd_44]What if I said the OP is Channel 190?
[/quote]If you said that, you will be 100% correct. This are scenarios where I can bet with my life that the Op is channel 190.

I assume he was trying to impress sexkillz because after reading killz's response on the other thread I couldn't help but laugh.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Fairy tales. . . The construction is so poor. No wonder nollywood keeps churning out bullshitologic movies.

Anyone that believes this should PM me. I have the BB pin of the current Miss World to give him. [/color]

Orpelin: k2039 welcome back!!!

Thanks.

patin48hrs: He told me when i was regreting the act that many had fall in love like this and that to quote himself right he opened a thread in my presence.

After viewing channel 190's response on the other thread, I can say with all certainty that the whole story is a hoax.

Channel 190's response sounded more like he pulled some stunts on her(played her) and it worked, if it was a true story his comments would have been remorseful to win the girl since the girl was with him when he opened the thread and it was certain she would read all the response.

gboss4sure: How sure are we that they person at www.nairaland.com/1159901/how-got-48hrs-yet-she is not the person that created this thread with a new ID

Your assertion makes maximum sense, very possible.
I refused to be fooled.

Same applies to me.

olaabiodun: Hello Nairalanders, Just yesterday, a friend called to tell me what her girlfriend told him.

Why do I have a feeling the whole post is your story.

He called this lady to inform her he's going to Church and to ask her if she has any prayer request. The lady gave him some prayer requests

He asked for a prayer request and he got one.

which included '' GOD SHOULD GIVE ME MY OWN HUSBAND ''

IMHO, that was a perfect and good prayer point.

Please what could she be insinuating?

As much as I'm not telepathic and I can't read peoples mind, I think she wants to get married to her own husband. The husband could be your friend and may not be. But she's definitely not sure if your friend is the right man for her.

My2Cent: Since your friend is the custodian and channel of that particular prayer, he can as well claim to receive the answer to that prayer and vote for himself.

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victorian:
Oh lord...rolls eyes here... She should be the one saying it , not you.

If the relationship doesn't work, I become unfortunate by default since I was fortunate to have her in the first place. For Christ sake there are millions of ladies on planet earth, that I chose one of them doesn't make me fortunate. I chose to love her and I can undo it.