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Romance / Re: How Did You Heal From Your Heartbreak?? by k2039: 4:26pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
obelisk: Rebounded mercilessly with multiple partners both concurrently and consecutively until the pain left and I got my heart and conscience back.It never occured to you that in the process of rebounding you will be hurting the other person (the person you using to heal up). How will you feel if a girl use you as her rebound, it's same guys like you that will complain that girls are wicked and heartless. |
Romance / Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by k2039: 6:25pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
Mynd_44: I agree. Every human on earth has both potential to behave as a saint and as a swine. Though which one is actualised is a product of choice and not conditions. But in a world where most people are controlled by just feelings, then it's likely people will change with time afterall their feelings won't always remain thesame. In summary, a good man can turn bad and a bad woman can turn good. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Do Prayers Actually Work? Be Realistic With Your Response And No Insult, Please! by k2039: 6:10pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
ajayikayod: Bro, u cant be on d fence. Its either it works or it doesnt.There are laws that govern prayers, if you must achieve results, then you must be ready to play by the rules. If you chose to go against the rules and you don't get results, it's not because the rules (in this case Prayer) doesn't work, it's because you violated the principles governing the result. Go through my whole post again. k2039: [color=soyouquotedme][b]It's complicated. |
Romance / Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by k2039: 5:51pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
Mynd_44: Why fear when I can always opt out?Marriage done turn molue |
Romance / Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by k2039: 5:28pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
notinmege:AMEN AMEN AMEN |
Romance / Re: Is Kissing And Romancing Before Marriage 'Fornication' ? by k2039: 2:03pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
Anonymous Heart:Matthew 5: 27-28 Though Jesus made reference to adultery, but then same principle applies to both adultery and fornication. Secret_Dreams: It depends on your frame of mind, I don't think there's anyway you can be kissing and romancing someone you aren't married to with a clean mind, lust will find a way to creep in. Jesus said if we think it, we have done it. Policewoman: It is a sin of fornication because all your erotic points are stimulated. |
Romance / Re: Is Kissing And Romancing Before Marriage 'Fornication' ? by k2039: 1:36pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
According to the bible yes, Matthew 5: 27-28 made it clear that lust in itself equates to the act afterall God is looking at the mind. Though Jesus made reference to adultery, but then same principle applies to both adultery and fornication. Personally for me that's a sin I'm willing to commit. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Marriage Things: I Am So Confused, Please Advice by k2039: 1:08pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
Diamondwriter: fiftly,hw old are you?Olodo, did you bother to read the post at all or you just skimmed through it. |
Family / Re: Marriage Things: I Am So Confused, Please Advice by k2039: 1:04pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
bellong:Perfect answer. You did a great job in addressing all the points raised by the OP. @Op, my two cent, just reflect on what bellong has written and sink everything into your skull and mind. |
Romance / Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by k2039: 10:24am On Oct 08, 2013 |
ledafaze:PREMISE 1 God hates adultery. PREMISE 2 Adultery is not the only sin God hates, he hates anything sin. PREMISE 3 I'm a sinner |
Romance / Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by k2039: 10:19am On Oct 08, 2013 |
Mynd_44: I have none.I know say you no dey think of marriage at all, abi you get marriage for mynd |
Romance / Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by k2039: 10:15am On Oct 08, 2013 |
ledafaze:If they die together, na plane/car crash be that o. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by k2039: 10:12am On Oct 08, 2013 |
pasqal09: Fear of marrying an unfaithful person, its one tin to cheat in a relationship, its another in to cheat in marriage. If I'm cheated on in marriage, I'm might commit mother.Why not commit FATHER 10 Likes |
Romance / Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by k2039: 10:09am On Oct 08, 2013 |
My only fear is that I may cheat on my wife and have kids outside of wedlock. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How Can My Sister Marry A Security Man? Tufia! by k2039: 8:07am On Oct 08, 2013 |
Shaw007: Dude!! . . Ur frigging shallow minded!!!!This is the right word to describe the op. The fact that he buys book for the girl is one reason why I don't have a problem with him being a gateman. I'm sure for him to buy books for the girl, he certainly must be reading also. Either he is a graduate or not (probably he didn't have money to complete his school) doesn't matter, afterall he is educating is mind. Going to school only makes one literate, it's investment in literature that matters eventually. The most dangerous man to under estimate is a man who constantly builds his mind through reading. You can ask Bill Gate and I'm sure if Kiyosaki had his way, he probably won't finish school. My2Cent: I understand you fears and it's perfectly normal, but I will suggest you get close to the guy, I'm sure you'll marvel at the wisdom that will proceed out of his mouth. Think about it, if you were to be in his shoe, will you be happy if family members prevent the love of your life from marrying you because you are a gateman. Learn to appreciate a man who choses to word that steal, one of the UK currency which has the gateman of the bank of England on it, that's a nation that appreciates hard work. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How Can My Sister Marry A Security Man? Tufia! by k2039: 7:47am On Oct 08, 2013 |
danny301: Guy, your sense of reasoning and value system is terribly bad... What is wrong with someone working as a security man in a bank?.. Is he not receiving pay?... Do you prefer a rich criminal coming for your sister?....Dude, know that there is dignity in labour... If every graduate in Nigeria has a job that pays him or her the equivalent of what a security man in the bank receives , people would not be complaining of unemployment in this country as they complain today. Your sister has found happiness, and it doesn't matter whether, the man is working as a security man or as CEO, what matters is that he is responsible. Everybody must not start big in life. Its not a 'crime' to start small, what is a bad is remaining small... You need a shift in your paradigm, because its people like you that celebrate people with ill-gotten wealth and despise legitimate and honest low income earners , which is the major problem of Nigeria, because we succeeded in creating the impression that the low or middle-income earner is a nobody in the society, so everybody wants to be a high-come earner,either by hook or by crook and tomorrow will turn around and say Nigeria is bad.Your head is too correct. |
Romance / Re: How Can My Sister Marry A Security Man? Tufia! by k2039: 5:35am On Oct 08, 2013 |
johnwizey: U quoted all dat to say 'K'. Check my signature, u are one of dose dat are mad but nt roaming |
Romance / Re: He Has Changed After His Family Bought A Car by k2039: 4:57am On Oct 08, 2013 |
Afam4eva:Is hell funny? 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Akeem Akintunde's Post Before The Crash by k2039: 5:59pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
mindtricks: Might be mere coincidence but, really weighty words, enough for all to pause and ponder.The guy just copied and pasted the sentence. Na Steve Jobs talk am, I still watched that video on youtube recently sef. |
Romance / Re: Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by k2039: 4:12pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Mystic Vibe: Interesting topic. I have been attracted to someone before, it was for a long time - about 3 years. I understood the feeling wasn't mutual so I moved on...it was hard but it became easier when I put myself in his shoes. And when I moved away the change of scenery helped. Point is, you cant force anyone to love you. If everyone accepted this basic truth the world would have less pain.For this comment alone, if you are single, I promise to dump my current girl friend for you. You just impressed me with this response Eeja Nla01: K2039 has been impressive in the thread so far ,This guy is cracking me up. |
Romance / Re: Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by k2039: 11:51am On Oct 07, 2013 |
sunny t: Why wud u love someone who dosnt love u in return or someone who belong to anoda person?@ M.t Everest. abi o, when one can just ride in a plane that soars into the sky. |
Romance / Re: Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by k2039: 11:49am On Oct 07, 2013 |
kayClt: Its a normal tin,u don't always eat ur cake n hv it,if u get rejected,take a walk bck to th river n throw ur net,U will catch another big fish.Must it be a big fish?. |
Romance / Re: Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by k2039: 11:47am On Oct 07, 2013 |
usermane: The worst university in the world to attend is the 'UNIVERSITY OF HOPE'. Rarely do people ever graduate. Hoping that a girl who is with another man (good or bad) will finally come back to you is synonymous to waiting for a ship in an airport or waiting for an airbus in a harbour. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by k2039: 11:39am On Oct 07, 2013 |
Wu Zetian: I remember when I was a sophomore, I used to crush on this guy called Ryan. He is an Alpha Phi Alpha, Alphas are just cool, period! I'm sure if I post a picture, the ladies would understand the torture I was passing true.That's what some guys have to go through every time they ask a girl out and to think some of those girls (small brats) embarrases them is derogatory. For me, if I initiate the conversation and she starts acting up, then I'm a gooner, I don't contact her again. |
Romance / Re: Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by k2039: 9:49am On Oct 07, 2013 |
xoctic: that book is for deception, why nt advice them 2 play calm, if the guy notices you he ll certainly come 4 u. All u av 2 do is let ur sef been seenHave you ever heard that 'Everything is fair in love and war'. |
Romance / Re: Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by k2039: 9:48am On Oct 07, 2013 |
El Guapo: Havent we grown past this bullcrap?Here is someone who sees the world I see. |
Romance / Re: Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by k2039: 9:31am On Oct 07, 2013 |
wandeykul: I'm a victim...in my case,we were alredy dating n it lasted 4yrs buh I was d 1 loving more,.ds month,he acts gud,nxt month,na anoda thin,I do most of d callin,text etc...ladies,we realy nid to knw our worth smtimes,I'm in anoda raltionshp nw where d luv is mutual on same level,I v learnt my lessons thoNow you realised you spent four years being unhappy and it was your faultm because you didn't consider your own happiness. In reality, you were just an option in the guys book, their was someone else who was his priority. I'm happy that you are happy now, wishing you the best in your current relationship. |
Romance / Re: Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by k2039: 9:19am On Oct 07, 2013 |
Linqsz: here z ma story.The worst place to be is the region of friend zone, you are only there to massage her ego. Leave now that your brain is still normal, the more you push the more you will get hurt and the lesser your chances with her. When I mean lesser, I mean negative percent because as it stands you chances of getting her is zero-one percent. |
Romance / Re: Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by k2039: 9:14am On Oct 07, 2013 |
mayten30: guy when u truly love someone u will put them first,self love na wash sometimes,are u a christian?did u see what jesus did in the bible?he gave his life for you and I,didn't he think about self love?did you see that he put other party ahead of himself?and we are the other partyBe honest. Can you die in place of your girl friend (not direct bullet to your brain), I mean being crucified in her stead, where you have to go through pain before giving the ghost. If you are married, I can understand, because I can die in the stead of my wife and that will be based on a lot of considerations, but a girl friend, HELL NO. |
Romance / Re: Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by k2039: 9:02am On Oct 07, 2013 |
mayten30: do u think love just happens suddenly?many people just spit the word "I love her I love him" without knowing if truly the feelings they get is love,love deserves patience?love is for the strong-hearted people not for the weakWhether suddenly or with time, I don't think it does matter. Infact when a person loves with time, it's because he discovered something about the other person. In most cases it's intrinsic and he may not be able to pinpoint it for sure. But then if your life is controlled by feelings, what happens when the feelings fade away?. The day my life really changed was the day I realised, I'm not my feelings or emotions, I had absolute control over it. If my feelings or emotions controlled me, it's because I abdicated the responsibility to take charge to such emotions. I can go on loving someone for my lifetime because I realise it's a choice and when it comes to professing love, I have to stay committed to the other party. Infact, the major problem with most relationship is that there is lack of commitment. A man/woman who is controlled by her feelings and emotions is always likely to get hurt and devastated when the other party isn't treating he/she well. If your feelings control you, you will only empower it. Now, I understand humans are creation of emotions, but then if they don't control/take charge of it, it will more likely destroy them. Look at this illustration, what happens if a man catches his woman having sex with another man on his matrimonial bed (worst still it was raw se.x). Are you implying since the love is unconditional, he should just take the woman back wothout considering the pros and cons. Bearing in mind since she is not faithful she could get infected with sexual related diseases and that makes her a killer by default. In that case are you implying the man shouldn't love/consider his own interest first. If that mad dies as a result of sexual related diseases, then it's simply because he was plainly exhibiting the apex of all stupidities. You don't have to agree with me, most times we are blinded by prejudice (preconceived mindsets), but then if you take time to reflect on my post, you may actually see a lot of sense in it. That's not to say I don't get your point, I quite understand you perfectly, but then one is always likely to get hurt than not because your destiny (happiness/joy) now lies with the other party. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by k2039: 8:27am On Oct 07, 2013 |
mayten30: love is what you cannot define,when you can define it then it is not loveBondage to slavery |
Romance / Re: Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by k2039: 8:21am On Oct 07, 2013 |
sampitts: what is love?Based on my experience with people, I realised that love is simply the act of being stupi.d, whereby a man/woman let her happiness and emotions get controlled by the opposite sex. For someone like me, Love is just a choice and a verb. I love you just because I want to and I'm smart enough to sack you if you misbehave because I love myself first before anyone. My interest first before yours. Afterall the bible says love your neigbour as yourself, you have to love yourself first. Actually most people lack self love. They put the other party ahead of them and it's alway disastrous. |
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