EVILS OF LATE MARRIAGE FOR WOMEN.
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Medically, a lady is mature as soon as menstruation starts. Most women start menstruation by the age of 11,12,13, 14 up to 18years. If any lady fails to menstruate by the age of 18, that's abnormality. It is a disease; We should take note. But 11 to 18years is still acceptable...

Now, what we mean by menstruation is that every month, every lady will release an egg from the ''ovary ''. An ovary is a house of eggs in a woman; the eggs that become baby in the future & the number of eggs in the ovary is limited; it cannot be increased. So every month when a lady starts to menstruate, an egg is released. Once a lady/woman releases an egg, it is menstruation. And once that egg waits for like 72hours in any woman's reproductive system and there is no sperm to fertilise it, it comes along with menstrual blood; so it is wasted, but that is minus one from the counts in the ovary. So if you now start counting, it that means a lady loses eggs from the age of 11 like that... 12eggs in a year, another year another loss, another 12eggs and so on.

The pattern of eggs in a woman are in three phases, just like any fruit passes through 3 phases: 1st phase - Unripe phase, not good to eat. 2nd phase - Ripe phase very good to eat, best time to eat. 3rd phase - bad phase. This is similar to the phases of eggs that will be released in any woman as she develops. We have some eggs that will be released in a woman in the first phase. It is the time when a woman starts to menstruate up to 18years, so from 11 to 18years is the first phase of eggs.

These are the eggs that can be liken to unripe eggs like unripe fruit. Once a woman reaches age of 18, this is second phase of eggs. That second phase is between 18 and 24years. These are the best form of eggs that a woman releases in her life. They are best in quality; they are best in fertility potential, best in everything you can be think of. Those are the best eggs. They are such that when any sperms hit them they become fertilised and develop baby immediately. They don't fail because they are very good.
So the third phase is the last stage at age 24 and above. This is when the bad eggs will be coming up. So it is a consensus that if any woman wants to be very fertile in her life, the best time to start that fertility period and doesn't want to stress herself go around before she conceives is between the ages of 18 and 24. So marriage in that age range is acceptable worldwide.

Dear sisters of 24years upward are facing risk of infertility. I am not saying that every lady of age 24 will neccessarily face risk of infertility but majority of infertility cases is common among those who are over 25years. You would rarely find someone who marries within 18 and 24years facing infertility problem except if she has done abortions, uses contraceptives or something similar. But ordinarily & naturally, they are not likely to suffer infertility. So that is the position of age.
There was a programme on NTA nationwide in nigeria sometimes ago. Their discussion was based on health and the topic was: ''The reason why infertility is increasing in Nigeria''.

Three foreign doctors from England were invited who specialised on the treatment of infertility and one was invited from Nigeria. Those foreign doctors have been practicing in Nigeria for long. They had experienced so many cases of infertility like that but not a single muslim was from amongst those involved.

At the end of the programme, they all concluded that the most common reason why infertility is increasing in Nigeria is that most ladies/women in Nigeria don't marry at the right/normal time. They marry very late @ the age of 25 and above. They said they suspected the cause of infertility to be late marriage owing to fact that most parents insist their children must complete their education before getting married. They therefore advised the public to avoid toying with the future of their children & that it is better to let them get married while in school when they are in best age range to produce so as not to face the risk of infertility than to delay them till when their fertility potential will be low.

This is a confusion for non-muslims. Dear sisters don't put yourself in unnecessary risk. Don't allow yourself to fall into infertility problem. A lot of people are in it today many of whom lose their Eeman because they are looking for ways to bear children in their life. Some with full hijab/niqab remove it and later go to church, alfa onijalabi/babalawo, herbalist place. Some go to Osun Osogbo and many other places of Shirk; the places that can never earn them any good. May ALLAH not try you with infertility problem. Dear sisters don't put yourself in unnecessary trial.

This is the consequence of marrying lately.
Another dangerous effect of late marriage on our health particularly we ladies/women is the problem of FIBROID. You might have heard about fibroid. One of the major reasons why women/ladies have fibroid is simply because they don't get pregnant very early. If your womb is empty for long, fibroid would begin to grow. That is the rule. If a woman's womb is empty for long and she's above 24, 25, 26years without pregnancy, insteady of her womb to be empty, naturally fibroid will begin to grow.
Many women usually complain of ''oyun iju'' in yoruba. It is nothing but fibroid. That is why you find most cases of fibroid among ladies/women that are more than 25years of age.

You would observe that most women who have fibroid use local and traditional medicines to solve the problem but to no avail. The most reliable treatment for fibroid is to remove/operate it. If not, it can cause infertility for many reasons; it can block where the tube join with the womb. It may not allow the sperm reach the womb. Fibroid may be embedded within the uterus such that any pregnancy that's about to occur attaches to the womb & sit to the fibroid. And the fibroid pushes them out.
So there are many ways fibroid can cause problem. But what leads to fibroid is when you delay getting pregnant on time and not only that, the problem of breast cancer is another reason why late marriage is very dangerous. I pray ALLAH will not inflict anyone of us with breast cancer. It is a very deadly disease; it doesn't have cure because it has four stages: stages 1,2,3 & 4. As it is usually said medically, stage one and two are curable and the cure for it is that it will be removed. The breast is not a matter of drug; they will remove the breast but stage 3 and 4 even if the breast is removed doesn't make any difference. So many women have the tendency because breast cancer is hereditary; there are some chromosomes in the body from genetic materials within the system that can make somebody prone to breast cancer in the future.

So early marriage has been found to be a very potent preventive measure against breast cancer. For the benefit of doubt, this can be confirmed from any medical doctor or search the internet. What I am saying is authentic as much as possible. Today, it is agreed in the medical world that early marriage is a potential preventive measure against breast cancer and there are many wonderful explanations to it.

POTENTIAL PREVENTIVE MEASURES AGAINST BREAST CANCER
1- There is an hormone called oestrogen in the reproductive system of a woman. This hormone is responsible for menstruation. if it attacks the breast of any woman that has the tendency to develop breast cancer, the cancer starts to grow. It is the hormone that stimulates the growth of that cancer but if she doesn't has the tendency, the hormone will not do anything to her breast which nobody knows except ALLAH. Nobody knows if she has the tendency or not..

The only technology now in use is called mammography breast screening. The breast is examined if cancer is likely to grow in it. But it cannot be see if there is tendency for its development in a woman. So if anybody has the tendency of breast cancer, it is the hormone that stimulates it. As it attacks the breast it starts to grow breast cancer.
We now sat down that the only way this breast cancer can be prevented from growing is to create a situation for that woman where she has no oestrogen in her system.

But there is no injection to suppress that oestrogen so we must find a natural way of making her free of oestrogen. The analysis now is that since oestrogen is responsible for menstruation, if there is no menstruation there can no be oestrogen.
So, what are the natural ways by which a woman may not menstruate? The first one is pregnancy. If a woman is pregnant for nine months, she will not menstruate. If any woman says she's pregnant and at the same time menstruating, then that is not possible but to a layman. In the medical field, it is not possible because they work with science; they read things with science but if it happens that a woman is pregnant and at the same time menstruate, that means the pregnancy is trying to get aborted. So it gets threatened this month & stops next month. When this occurs, people count it as menstruation but it is never a menstruation now for 9months. During pregnancy the oestrogen will not occur in a woman; that is the first natural measure. For nine months the woman will be free of oestrogen.
Secondly, another natural way that a woman will be free of oestrogen is breastfeeding particularly if she breastfeeds during the night. There are so many cases where a woman breastfeed for 1 and a half year above and was not menstruating at all. It depends on how serious the woman breastfeeds. If she's very aggressive in breastfeeding for 2years, she may not menstruate. That means for that two years, the woman will be free of oestrogen.
This is the formula: Let her get married as early as possible - 18 to lately 24years - that kind of lady will be very fertile. She is likely to get pregnant at that particularly period. Let's assume she got pregnant at that particularly period for nine months; she will be free of oestrogen after nine months immediately she delivers, she start breastfeeding let's say for two years, she will be also free of oestrogen so, that is 3years. She will be free of oestrogen. Before another 3years she got another pregnant, is that not a formula? Now another pregnant for 9 months, she is free of oestrogen. Another 2years for breastfeeding she is free of oestrogen. Before another 2years she got another pregnant and she is not a type of lady that says "four children is enough for my family". She believes in the ideology of islam that says Muslims should have many children as our Prophet (may peace and blessings of ALLAH be upon him) advised: ''get married to women that you will love and that will produce many children". They will be very prolific in terms of fertilization. If a women believes in that, it means every three years she is having children and she continue like that may be 6, 7 or 8 children before the completion of that 8 children, she will have approached menopause. After menopause, no more oestrogen. Which religion preaches the best formula? The only religion that preaches early marriage is islam. Which religion preaches breastfeeding for 2years? Isn't it islam? Which religion preaches having many children? Of course it is only Islam. Allahu Akbar! So, let's put Islam first in whatever we do before any other thing. It is unfortunate that most of our parents and ladies/women follow the western culture. May God guide us aright .

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[qquote author=EfemenaXY post=59012396]Lives in the bush or sexually deranged or both.

Which is it?[/quote]

I don't get you. Are u asking or u are affirming?

The situation worsen when the entire systems in my establishment run into this issue of turning folders in drives into application and as well, hiding folders.

Please what is the proper ways of solving this issue?

Cc; Lalasticlala

COMPARING A FLAT TYRE WITH AN INFLATED ONE: THE STORY OF UNCLE SUNDAY

Akinlabi Abdulkabeer

A Yoruba uncle or brother will tell his growing nieces, sisters, female cousins when they try to protect their private parts from him that:

"What are you now hiding from me? Hmm this girl is turning something else o. It is me you are hiding your body from. For your information, I bathed you nakedly when u were growing, I took you to school after dressing you up. Even check the mark on your chest there is an injury there which I was scared of, as such, I rushed you to the hospital and I was the one running the cleansing daily. This is the chest you are now hiding from me. You better stop deceiving your self."

The above is the real life comment from am uncle and a common one among the Yoruba brothers to their distanced sisters, especially the brothers who are not very conversant of what religions say regarding the privacy of female children and ladies.

My own comment is: even Wole Soyinka came to faculty of Art, UI and said he couldn't recognize it again due to restructuring. There are many roads in Ibadan that I couldn't recognize again after Akala Government left the state. So the fact that I was there when Mokola round about was a single lane does not mean I should be the one to control it when it is now an over-head bridge.

Mr uncle and booda Sunday, gone are the days when Molete road was just a smooth surfaced way. Now it is an over-head restructured construction that even if Adedibu wakes up from the grave, he wouldn't recognize it again.

Taking you back to the culture before it was bastardized, It was the norms in Yoruba land that when a lady gets to a stage in life, she cannot take her baths in the public area no matter what the situation is or how poverty engulfed her family, that she couldn't even get a private bathroom. She is expected to hide in a bush to protect her restructured image. If not for a bastardized cultural changes in the name of civilization and socialisation, when plenty parts of a female is no more private, she is expected to remain under her clothes and exposes nothing to anyone, no matter how the relationship is except her legal husband.

Let me enter from Islamic point of view, children from same parents but of different genders are expected to be separated from the bed at age 10. The wisdom is Godly and the reason is divine. But to my common sense, it is to cub and prevent sexual immorality that can emerge from same brothers and sisters.

Are you wiser than the divine prophet and God?

Going back to attack boda Sunday who wants to see a "reconstructed Jerusalem". It is not a lie that when Latifah was a baby, she had an injury whereby you channeled the cleansing, but the present state of where you want to see now is never the same as the old injury you cleaned. Even the value of a 100 dollars three years ago is never the same today.

Your Lagos roads in the days of Tinubu are not same in the days of Fashola especially that Latifah own that is a "third mainland bridge. "

You better no let your eyes see what if they ask you 3+6, you will just be answering 2. Even if they ask you 7 and 9.

My dear sister, it is a common gist and norms amongst you to think that he is your cousin, he is your nephew so your sanctuary should not be a holy land. Your body is a temple of the Lord, better no defile the place of sacredness.

I am not ignorant of the fact that plenty sisters have even gone beyond exposing their private parts to uncles, rather it is to the public. We are in a time when the breasts are not private except the tip of it. A period where the buttocks is not kept away from the sun.

Let me branch the societal sickness and let you know that even females are falling in love with their co-females with a grown up chest and liking to see what is under it. You have heard that lesbians are not far from the society. So if such could happen, then uncles can also become sick and commit sins.

Change your ways and turn new leaf.

This piece is important to orientate the ladies with these ideologies but plenty are afraid to share it because of the usage of my wordings. My dear, there are no ways I could defend the situation except this style. Sorry if our minds do not think same at the moment.

Graduate set to launch Data Bank for Arabic and Islamic Studies in Nigeria

By AbdulGaniy Shehu

As efforts are geared towards the documentation and archival of data in the country, a graduate of Islamic Studies in the University of Ibadan is set to launch an Arabic and Islamic Studies (ARISS) data bank to preserve and digitize the resources in the two departments in Nigerian Universities.

The graduate, AKINLABI AbdulKabir Habeebullah while speaking on the aim of the proposed data bank said: “Its major aim is to collect academic data, research topics, scholars’ profiles and graduates’ information, and then preserve them on a central searchable database”

Furthermore he states that the databank will among other things avail to the public areas of research in Arabic and Islamic studies, create a platform where members of the Arabic and Islamic communities in Nigeria can interact, and publicise events that relate to the field of Arabic and Islamic studies in the country.

According to him, the databank which will be officially launched and take off from the University of Ibadan as projects cutting across the Bachelor of Arts, long essays, masters and PHD thesis are currently been compiled and will soon be uploaded on the databank.

He emphasised that since the 21st century requires that data should be preserved and easily accessed, then all stakeholders in these two fields should be able to get information from an up-to-date database. He urged the general public to access the platform via www.ariss.com.ng.

Students in Nigerian tertiary institutions who are willing to represent their various universities as data entry students and collectors can also do so too by sending their Curriculum Vitae to info@ariss.com.ng.

Are there charms in the west also? Do the Americans and the Europeans also believe in some elements having sacredness in them?

I know there are some technological charms and astrological spirits but their workings and implementation are totally different from ours down the Africa, especially Nigeria.

Nigeria in its own perceptions and engagement is different from other African countries.

The difference is becoming clearer when you come down to yoruba land where our fathers have attached sacredness and negative voodoo effect to some elements and scenarios.

To a yoruba man, when you wake up early in the morning, if you see someone who is an unfortunate person, courtesy of the yoruba demands that you go back to sleep and wakeup again to have a good day ahead, else, according to those who believe, you are liable to have a bad luck.


Religious ones amongst us have used quranic and biblical verses to divert bad luck attached to magics and ill lucks.

The problem is: what of some scenarios which are not magical and unexplainable?

When a lady pant is put on a line, especially a dirty one and the type that might contains elements of some monthly discharges. when a jamb candidate passes under such clothing, he might not be able to get, even a question right in the examination because he has just passed under a spiritually lined pant, a gaseously corrosive underwear and a chemically acidic element.

Will chanting averts such scenario?
What are the sources of such believes?
Why are there differences between our believes?

That was why, when a sister called me, during my undergraduate days, to help her pack her clothes while the rain gave signs, I said: I have packed the packables and left the other packages because as small as they are, so also terrible they seems.

DEXTROVERT:
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The major problem you have is that you don't read through the lines.

Who visited the IDP? Zahrah husband or the brother?

This corper has been sighted in one of the orientation camps. Can she be the most bursty?

In a facebook post, someone tagged her "Operation Feed the Nation" is the tag correlating?

Cc: Lalasticlala

If someone missed camp for d stream I because of statement of result. will he be automatically added to stream II ?

Wasiu Alabi Pasuma is celebrating his birthday today. A legendary in the Fuji music and the entertainment industry in general.

Wish Oganla, Obama and Ijaya of Fuji a happy birthday.

Courtesy of a die hard fan.

Unfortunately, an IT firm that wants to recruit doesn't have a private email. Using yahoo mail. I smell plenty things.

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Which area is their NYSC office. Please not camp o. I mean d state secretariat.

I got it from NYSC website but I don't know which it is

If you want to travel directly from Ibadan, specifically UI area to Edo Camp, please drop your link/contact here

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To all my fellow otondos posted to Edo State let's hook up here.

I am simply RK by name...right here in Festac Town, Lagos. WhatsApp Number 08097611985.
I will be going to Edo state on Wednesday.

From where are u faking off?

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Osun state it is Victoria.

Welcome to The State of Omoluabis

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Good morning corpers, ex-corpers and prospective corpers. There had been recent talks and information regarding nursing mothers and pregnant PCMS in the camp.

Initially there used to be a case whereby the nursing mothers and pregnant corpers would be registered and asked to return but they remain corpers.

Recently or few months back, I also heard the then DG Olawunmi saying that the Duo will be demobilised. Close to that also, we later heard he had retrieved that statement.

Shall we discuss the fate of these categories of corpers, the way forward and how they can cope with NYSC, if at all they will be welcomed.

Please make it threads well and let's make it informative.

What is the fate of the pregnant prospective Corp members. Would they be chased back home as a corper or would be denied the service?

I need answer from u guys please!!!!

It is better let him state it. Why won't he state it?

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Some parts of your post aren't necessary bro. Why not just give the young lady the thumbs up and move on

U no sabi english again?

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