₦airaland Forum

ogwumgbe:
I thought I was discussing with an intelligent being not knowing I was just wasting my time with someone with the iq level of a cock. Nollywood movies are mostly fictions eghu. They don't always depict the reality

glossy6:
You are always talking about prostitution. Out of the abundance of the heart, the mind speaketh. Maybe you are a product of one What you people practice is even worse than prostitution. Or what do you call a situation where if a wife leaves her husband, she must marry another man and get a divorce before going back to her former. And the cycle continues in that manner. Even your religion states that a woman is half of a woman and that the evidence of a 10years old boy carries more weight than that of a woman. Who then is a slave here?

How many women from your region are sent out of their matrimonial homes brutalized on daily basis? Your region is the only place you see a 15 years old girl in her second marriage. Go and see doctors trying to patch their leaking and oozing punas on daily basis. I'd not live like that, not even my enemy
Go for a brain check please

MissShakara:
Now am not into tribal bashing which is by the way actually killing Nairaland. I have few things to say; As an Igbo woman and someone very familiar with the Law, this decision by the supreme court is a welcome development!
Many women and children have been dispossessed of their husband's properties because they have female children only. Now am not talking about ancestral land (ana umunna), but properties in the city, lands, houses and even cars, by greedy brothers who feel it is their right to inherit their brothers properties since he left no male heir. Now these helpless women who are led on to believe that it is our 'culture' are left struggling to live their lives in penury with their daughters! This is where this law comes to aid. Now tell me OILSOUP, will you love to see your wife and female children suffer if you have no male child? Who do you think will protect them from your greedy brothers when you die intestate? It is this Law! So I applaud the decision of the Supreme Court in this regard.

Amberon:
Shut up your filthy mouth. Have you ever heard of Folorunsho Alakija? All the other wealthy women in Nigeria are southerners. No one wants to have anything to do with dirty northern girls who don't even wash properly.

ogwumgbe:
But the same flat headed akpu eating people have told you several times that they don't like to in the same Country with you to the extent of picking up arms before and now through agitations yet you refused to let the akpu eater you hate so much to go. Are you not ashamed of yourself? The akpu eater is the den of all atrocities yet you still want by all means to remain in the same Country with them? Your ancestors must be ashamed and disappointed in you. Your heroic founding fathers must be ashamed at you for being so shameless that you can't survive without akpu people. What a shame? Igbos are truly blessed, the mystery of hating someone so much yet still wants to be in the same Country with the person is what I've found difficult to understand. Truly without igbos Nigeria will be a skeleton. I throw the challenge to you that without igbos in NIGERIA, in a year Nigeria will be surviving by UNAIDS

woodcook:
My dear please I thought in Fed Poly Damaturu and I know what I am saying. In response to your assertion:

'I'll treatment of women in the north exists but in ur imagination' : Is child-bride consider ill treatment or not and from data available everywhere, child-bride is a common practice in the north.

Few weeks ago, a 25yr old girl was made a LG chairman in Kebbi state and ur folks were also on this forum spewing their usual trash
: That is a wonderful development. I can proudly tell you no one in the South is going to 'make' her LG chairman, if she wants it she has to fight for it and earn it like everyone else. Mind you there are a lot of women in politics in the South.

the type of freedom u are talking about is not even desired by our ladies: That is a warp conclusion, how would you know what they desire when they are not all to desire anything other than what the men tell them to desire. Because having a desire and expressing your desire in the North might lead to beheading, with such mind set how can the females freely desire anything on their own without running the risk of loosing a limb or a head?

Freedom to insult ur husband and parents, . It is only an insecure husband that would view a disagreement with his wife as an insult. If a husband becomes useful, I think he deserves some insult if that is what will straighten him up. On a more serious note, the issue of insult is as a direct result of freedom of expression, if the price that men from the South has to be for giving their daughters and wives equal right is insult, then we are willing to accept such 'insult' with good fate as long as our girls and women turns out to be resources, strong and courageous. If that is what it takes to cure them of timidity then I stand for that.

freedom to go to wherever u want, with or without ur husband consent, : That you are married to a lady does not make her your property. So based on our you see the world in a marriage is only the man that has the right to tell the wife where and when to go, who then dictates to the man where and when to go (what is good for a pregnant woman is also got for the man that got her pregnant)


freedom to go unclad and be clubbing, name them.: If I may ask you what is wrong with clubbing as long as it does not get in the way of you performing your duties as a husband or wife. Meanwhile most responsible married couples go the club together in company of their friends to hang out. For your information is not everyone that goes to club goes there to get drunk, get hire and go home with a random fellow. Most of your Northern politicians and business mogul spend do spend considerable amount of time clubbing( without their wives because they have a different agenda. Mind you they sell non alcoholic drinks in club if that is part of your concern)

Finally, I will tell u that a northerner treats his female children with more dignity than the males Eg, how many female Streets urchins have u seen on the streets of Kano?: Would you mind giving me the statistics of child-bride in the North compare to any other region in the country. Can also give me figures on female school enrollment in the North in comparison to other region? I am sure those figures will contradict your assertion of treating female child with dignity. Is forcing a child into marriage against her will part of treating her with dignity? Of course I not not surprise that there is no female alamajiri in the streets because they are all married as soon as they were born. How would then be out on the street when they have to satisfy the sexual orgies of old men, who derive joy in child molestation?

glossy6:
You are actually suffering from acute diarrhoea of the gut and mouth. I may not have inheritance from my father's house because it is my culture but I am not under bondage to be married off at will and divorced at will and passed on to yet another man. My husband's property is enough for me and my kids.

woodcook:
Oppression is oppression but in trying to understand issues and how it affects a particular group of people in relation to others, Ii will start by looking at oppression in terms of severity.


My dear, I doubt if you really understand the level of oppression that women faced everyday up North, I guess you probably have spent all your live in the North (at least where your ego is massage as a man), if you have really lived in the South, you would understand that the issue of equal right when it comes to inheritance was something that has its root on the progress that have been made in terms of gender equality in the South. Female are allowed to make their choice and chart their own path in life. In most families female as well as male child have equal opportunity to pursue any field of endeavor they so desire.

Females are treated as human who have both the capability and talent to achieve as much or even more than male, rather than being seen as subhuman.

If and when the North solves the few endemic problems of gender inequality that exposes female child into becoming child-bride then we can talk about the problem of inheritance (I and most Nigerians will he happy if the North as a whole start having serious discussions about some of the cruel life that women and female child face up North).

ogwumgbe:
Oh boy you are a damned hypocrites, and your entire North. If you practice what you preach, it would be a different ball game, but you don't practice it and want to subject someone to what you can't practice. I wonder why you want to remain in the same Country by all means with the southern sinners you hate so much, are you not ashamed of yourself? Can't you see we are not the same and can't ever be? Please go your way and form your goddamn Country with your fellow hypocrites

teepsee:
but what is your problem, why you just venting around. Are you the only northerner here?



Please go get some rest you running out of breath.


Note i don't have problem with the north but I would have preferred you guys to be realistic.

Hades2016:
oga I don't need any shiit from you aiiiit

teepsee:
you just so right

They are just too insecured to let that happen. If you have once stayed in the north you will be sorry for their girls. Where the youth there are ready to kill other guys who try making passes on them, making the girls so timed and shy to face other guys. You will see them sneaking to other guys house at late hours. Is that life or imprisonment. I feel for them

teepsee:




What is this one saying? When will you learn to be reasonable for once and stop letting sentiment cloud that ur small brain

Just look at ur username, all i can say is no wonder you so shallow minded

You are pained for her success i know, you guys will regret that.

cindyrocks:
And Zhara doesn't?

teepsee:
I knew from the day they said they baned her, they already send her to limelight unknowingly.


Their fall just started here

cindyrocks:
So people are 'gifting' Zhara more than they did PEJ?

Wonderful!

Dinobi77:
I pity the northern women cos their men outv there do as they like. I am not an advocate of all these immoral videos, but pple should be allowed to make their choices in life.

woodcook:
Hypocrisy is the order of the day up North.

Same North where a man and a woman will engage in fornication and the woman will be punished while the man walks free.

Everyone up there is calling for the female actor head, while the guy walks free.

I think most men up North are insecure and would stop at nothing and see their women as underdogs that should be subdued at all cost. I am sure the day they allow their women equal right as men ( or at least the choice too make their own decision and be their own person), I can bet that most men there will die alone and wretched

Niyinficient:
Is that the best action against a failing state due to her leaders' insensitivity your brain can come up with? If yes....pathetic

cindyrocks:
So now the daughter of a president makes more money than his wife?

cindyrocks:
Did I hear you ask where and when PEJ said so?


Please, where and when did Zhara tell you that the billions she spends are from donations?


Ear ring: N5m, pulse: N10m, wrist watch: N50m, even organisation: N200m.




How much have you donated to her so far or are you not her friend?


If I hear!

cindyrocks:
Did I hear you ask where and when PEJ said so?


Please, where and when did Zhara tell you that the billions she spends are from donations?


Ear ring: N5m, pulse: N10m, wrist watch: N50m, even organisation: N200m.




How much have you donated to her so far or are you not her friend?


If I hear!

Niyinficient:
I can imagine how many billionaires, thieficians will donate for her, some to woo her (especially dose northern old buff.ons seeking her hand in marriage for her to b 4th wife, emg Zamfara state gov) those trying to get favour frm her dad, those who wish to enter d presidential clique, political sabotage etc..

Bottomline: IF THE YOUTH WONT TAKE ACTIONS NIGERIA WONT GET TO THE PL

aalangel:
Refined Hausa girl.

watchindelta:
but why she no dey do all dis tins since wey baba never b presido abi level never show dat time

cindyrocks:
PEJ's money is also donations from friends and we'll wishers.

kabrud:
Forget all these rubbish, u are talking about the daughter of a president who doesn't even need to ask her dad for anything if she wants to raise 10m within 1 week. U think if Zahra meets any of these top shots soliciting for sponsorship, they will think about it? We are talking of thieves who brought this country on her knees, and u are talking of the president daughter who doesn't have access to her mother's account let alone the nation's treasury.

cindyrocks:
PEJ's money is also donations from friends and we'll wishers.

EverestdeBliu:
it baffles me as well. does Obama's daughters have access to the federal coffer?

bayelsaowei:
i should explain that to you??...you in kindergarten or what??...

go back to your history and read up who the oil or any natural resource in any ones land belonged to..

go back to history and read up why nigeria as we see it today is a fraud...go back to your history and see why nigeria is a failed state...just read up you over grown adult...

bayelsaowei:
i go school pass you oo...

na why i dey open eye for leeches like you..

bye bye

QuotaSystem:
General Buratai will take care of that .

For now you remain an inconsequential 5%er claiming Nigeria's oil