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@Kokoye,thanx!

I refused to pick his calls all thru Monday and finally picked it on Tuesday, He accused me of this and I told him i purposely didn't pick them and it was at this point that he said he thanked God he discovered my attitude early and hanged up on me.

In annoyance, i sent a text that whateva he thinks of is not my biz,that while he claimed to be observing my attitude, i was trying to discover what he wanted from me too.That al thru the night,we didnt discuss anything tangible,the only thing  i  remembered  he asked me was Bleep, not even how my day went, i told him he's so self-centred, He replied my text with 'No wahala'

He called again yesterday that i didnt ask of him and i told him for what,  and dat was y i asked my fellow NLanders wat he actually wants,

@Lord-Reel, I wonder too o,nah food?

MMM,u wldn't want to try go home in that rain,it was unspeakable
U mean I was lucky he didnt rape me?yeeeeeeee!!!! thank God o but oun na o ni fe sinwin(run mad)

@Goldiekuls,uhh! thanks babes, how much are we talking about?

@OP, please walk away without hesitating

Kpolli,what is it dat u regret?

@lesbianBoy,
really?in dat case, thunder fire his stupid 'kini',oloshi

@Bhusayor,
u dont know too?o ga o

Met this guy some weeks ago when I went to buy some stuffs .I noticed he was actually looking at me and couldn’t concentrate on what he was getting for himself. Trust 'gurls' now, we have our way of knowing when a guy is making attempt . Well, he summoned courage and the rest? we exchanged contacts,

He does most of the calling and each time he calls, it has to be one question or the other, 'tell me about you, please don’t tell me lies, are u on facebook? , ,what’s your genotype?, blablabahh!!!
As for me, I wasn't ready for any relationship cos I just lost one to genotype and I told him to give my time to know if I wanted a relationship with him or not,

He kept calling and to my surprise he started this 'I love you baby' thing and on the spot I told him not to go there at all.
Recently, he called to tell me he was attacked by hoodlums ,ofcos I didn't believe him, I thought it was a trick to visit him but I had to at least care even if it was a lie, so I paid him a visit on Sunday and found that the attack was real, I couldn't leave that day because of the rain and everywhere was flooded, i hated myself for passing the night there(i hate the idea of sleeping over in a guy’s place) plus nobody at home knew my whereabouts, i couldn’t sleep, was scared of the unknown. He asked for IT and I bluntly refused and he didn’t press further but his attitude changed, He became another person entirely as he picked offence in virtually everything I said or did, I was so upset but what could I do? Nothing, and there I made up my mind I wasn’t going to see him again. I picked one out of his numerous calls and he said thank God he realised early the kind of person I am,

So my question is what exactly does he want?

very funny!!!

Everything ke?, dats bad market o.Fyn i can be of help but not spend my fortunes,hard-earned money on some guy,for wat nah?Abegiiii!!!!!!!!

@OP,
wetin gangan be d problem?, too many mix-up

yeeee,lol, i trust ur guys with your responses.wat on earth r u tinkin of oga jeff?my advice,go and read ur books and stop tinkin of marriage for now.leave marriage for the marriageables and stop asking 'boyish' question

@yusus,being married or single has got nutin,absolutely nutin to do wt ones attitude either in marriage or any relationship.people's experiences from different homes and their ability to handle situation couple with YOU(iwo gangan) is d mata, wo ma soro ju

says who?dats not tru jo,im from a broken home yet i can confidently say im good,

please runnnnnnnnn for your life.Ha ah! Wat kind of human being is he?At close to 40? im sure its ds same reason girls kip runnin away from him,who wan collabo with NFA.my dear,pple lyk dem dont change

its a two sided thing, it depends on how close the relationship was b4 they parted ways and it depends on how each side can handle the situation,