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sisi, what about allison naa

then you shouldnt have taken any offence at the comment directed at you.

and why would I take offense at your comment?  I already said that you obviously can't be referring to me

My question was merely that you seem to be fighting with the girls the most about it despite the fact that they arent the only ones who said stuff.

lucabrasi:
this is what happens when a lady tries to hook a guy with pregnancy, while i don't know the genesis of your relationship,what l make guys back out of having a baby is prolly because you both never had any agreement as to having a child at this time and he obviously thought you were using protection

Did you miss where she said Husband?

My question is why are you only yelling at the girls lucabrasi, or should I say the ones supposedly"hiding" their photos cos you cant possibly be, be talking about me and a few others

You are acting like na only the females are the ones calling these girls wowo. Guys can, Girls cant?

whatever90:
,i wouldnt stay a day wtout seeing him or talking to him on d phone,its only natural

why let him move out then?

Quit a difference between being there all the day and being there the days she decides to pay him a visit

They should set a schedule.

But she doesnt visit everyday. he visits on the 2-3 days michelin goes there

I only blame the boy for not telling her the days that its fine for her to visit and there wont be any interference

spikedcylinder:
Another question Michelin,

You say you don't live alone, who do you live with? Your parents? Siblings? Would he (your ex) be right to say they should gerrout for a few days so he can spend time with you too?

But the dude lives alone. There's quite a difference. What was the point of him getting his own place if Mama is gonna be there everyday and night

She's probably right under the bed at this moment

chika98:
Maybe he knows one of em girls

probably dating a Kenyan

I sure the few pretty ones are mixed with some other country

The mother is obviously not convinced her son is ready for a committed relationship yet.

what a depressing statement.

Beware of okija. His mama dey his house 24/7

I can't just go and visit her because since he has not made it official that he wants to get serious with me, i don't want to act desperate by licking his mum's ass to get her approval

This is true. My parents have been singing this into our heads for the longest. since 10 sef.  

DavidDylan:
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- Women expect that men should simply dispense with their mothers as soon as they show up . . . not ever going to happen.

I dont think that's what she meant.

More like give her a time when it's just them

pretty but most likely has a knife in her pocket to cut you with

whats so diff in trying to relate with his friends and family now?
this are the same people u would be sharing his time with and u find it hard to adapt to them?
what would u request for eventually when u are married. outright ban on his mum and no visiting irghts for his friends?

Did you read the thread. 

maybe during marriage sef, the mother should sit there while they're having sex, giving her tips on "good babymaking positions"

Eva reminds me of a Newark akata.

aka trying to look hard.

Well, we Nigerians really value our family and I think for men its stronger.

and this means having a live-in mother?

It shouldnt be an ultimatum but more like "can you tell me the times I can visit when I know well have alone quality time"

You don't want to look like the "evil witch" that is against the almighty mummy

If he wants/wanted to be serious, he'd sit and you'd both set up times good enough for the both of you

oh please she looks like a Botoxed clown

Allison wins.

JustGood:
@Karma
yes. I'm married. Is there a law against a married man having any friends?

If the married woman can have such "friends" too, why not

You werent in the wrong michelin, a compromise should have been made though on the days you could go for a visit and the mother wouldnt be there

You wouldnt exactly want him to say "oh my girl wants space so please come back next week", it would make you look like the bad one in the situation.

is this past or a reconciliation?

Karma, nope am not. just got less on hand Smiley
why? or you want give me vacation ni

Lol well from Upstate NY to Fuji. How does that work?

Watching CNN

Apparently after shaking his hand, Bush turned and used hand sanitizer 

Im still waiting for that answer myself, then again I guess the dude's a joke

Michelle needs to start dressing way better. She started out great but has declined

Poor Bush has negro cooties now

Oloshi cant even give a real handshake

Now I see why Kenyans are now marrying women outside their country

In other words a woman isnt allowed to WANT to have sex as long as she's in a relationship with you.

In other words something like 8 months into the relationship, she makes a pass and she's sudden an easy lay?