[b][/b]hello folks, what's the big deal making love on a first date?

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you've done it or u're looking for excuse to do it?

its no big deal if the lady is ok with it. where u dey for london sef? i need to take you out on a first date

skylo:

[b][/b]hello folks, what's the big deal making love on a first date?

There's no big deal.
I like gurls that get down on the first vdate.

@ Topic.

It's no big deal if I am positive nothing good will turn up between the 2 of us. But it's a big deal if i was thinking we could be a hit before we fire.

no big deal, except that on a first date, u are not makin love, you are bleeping

^ Then why would you let it happen if its a big deal to you?

Its not ok. Its too early . . . sex should not be the foundation of a commitment.

but why are they on a date? is it not to see if it would work out? if they make love, are they not only speeding up the process?

Karma, if ur question is directd to me. . . .I know its a big deal because I don't like easy lay as a wife. I love my future wife to stress me like hell before I fit see her "pata" where she dey keep am talkless of getting her laid.

Perhaps thats why I find it difficult to have a serious relationship. somehow, girls that comes around me get laid easily.

myndofgold:

no big deal, except that on a first date, u are not makin love, you are bleeping

It's NOT bleeping, it's SEX.

@ Poster.

I have a friend called Skylo. Are you short?

sillyboy:

Karma, if ur question is directd to me. . . .I know its a big deal because I don't like easy lay as a wife. I love my future wife to stress me like hell before I fit see her "pata" where she dey keep am talkless of getting her laid.

Perhaps thats why I find it difficult to have a serious relationship. somehow, girls that comes around me get laid easily.

yet the same guys will complain that Naija girls "front too much" and Jamos are better cos they are easy etc

Anyway How long of a run around is enough to qualify as NOT an easy lay?

well i have a friend who slept wit his GF a week afta meetin her and they are still 2geda till date,infact they are doin their 1yr anniversary on the 29th of this month, u are all welcome, beer is free 4 guys and sminorf 4 the ladies, anyway shud u get down wit a lady on the 1st day it means 2 tins that she loves u alot dan u eva imagined or dat she has been starving 4 sex all thoes months waitin 4 mr rite(u) to approach,
NO BIG DEAL ABOUT IT

If you put out on the first date. . you will stay putting out.

~Sauron~:

It's NOT bleeping, it's SEX.

ya, ok, intercourse, making whoopee, knocking boots, banging, gbenshin, straffing, it's sha not making love,

yet the same guys will complain that Naija girls "front too much" and Jamos are better because they are easy etc

Anyway How long of a run around is enough to qualify as NOT an easy lay?

I have never complained about 9ja girls "fronting" and never made comparison with other nationality. for me a woman is a woman.

Talking about the duration, sorry I can be precise. I would just want her to deny me as long as she could. The longer she denies the better her chances to put me on check and control my silly head when we finally get married.

chika98:

If you put out on the first date. . you will stay putting out.

Not really.
Sex on the first night does not make a woman a LovePeddler or a slut.

myndofgold:

ya, ok, intercourse, making whoopee, knocking boots, banging, gbenshin, straffing, it's sha not making love,

Knocking boots?? Nah!!!
Shagging is a better word for it.

~Sauron~:

Not really.
Sex on the first night does not make a woman or a slut.

i co-sign

sillyboy:

I have never complained about Nigeria girls "fronting" and never made comparison with other nationality. for me a woman is a woman.

Talking about the duration, sorry I can be precise. I would just want her to deny me as long as she could. The longer she denies the better her chances to put me on check and control my silly head when we finally get married.

Dude, that was a general statement. Never specifically said YOU said such. Calm down

and why cant you be precise? How long is long enough?

~Sauron~:

Not really.
Sex on the first night does not make a woman a LovePeddler or a slut.

There is a double standard here. Anyways @ poster. . it is not good to have sex on the first date. Please don't.

myndofgold:

i co-sign

sorry for digressing, i cldnt just resist. mehn ur lips na die!. I could tech them a few things u kno!

myndofgold:

i co-sign

It's the TRUTH.

chika98:

There is a double standard here. Anyways @ poster. . it is not good to have sex on the first date. Please don't.

No double standard here.
Sex is a spontaneous reaction. It's not something people plan/unplan to do.
It happens just like u dunno if u are going to sneeze or blink by 6pm tomorrow evening.

Dude, that was a general statement. Never specifically said YOU said such. Calm down

and why can't you be precise? How long is long enough?

I cant be precise,simple. The longer the berra for me(Please that is for a lady i could end up marrying ooo). But if just a lady I knw it will never happen between us, and I just wanna check out what she's all about, . . . .i will do anything to make her lay me quickly. And if am not successfull, I will "fashy" her side.

I just wanna chase my wife for long.  

In other words a woman isnt allowed to WANT to have sex as long as she's in a relationship with you.

In other words something like 8 months into the relationship, she makes a pass and she's sudden an easy lay?

sillyboy:

I can't be precise,simple. The longer the berra for me(Please that is for a lady i could end up marrying ooo). But if just a lady I knw it will never happen between us, and I just want to check out what she's all about, . . . .i will do anything to make her lay me quickly. And if am not successfull, I will "fashy" her side.

I just want to chase my wife for long.

Ah, so that was chasing you did on the other thread with iyeayo?

Mehn, you guys need to define chasing for us o. No wonder you ppl claim we do too much shakara

KarmaMod:

In other words a woman isnt allowed to WANT to have sex as long as she's in a relationship with you.

In other words something like 8 months into the relationship, she makes a pass and she's sudden an easy lay?

LMAO!!! abi?

r_o_b_b_y:

sorry for digressing, i cldnt just resist. mehn ur lips na die!. I could tech them a few things u kno!

emi aunti e, Kneel down there.

sillyboy:

I can't be precise,simple. The longer the berra for me(Please that is for a lady i could end up marrying ooo). But if just a lady I knw it will never happen between us, and I just want to check out what she's all about, . . . .i will do anything to make her lay me quickly. And if am not successfull, I will "fashy" her side.

I just want to chase my wife for long.  

I doubt if u have ever balled a woman before with this comment.
Reh reh reh. . . . .I want to chase ma wife for long. . . .Yea right!!!
If u think this would make NL ladies suck up to u, you are on a long ride to Himalayas.

Chai! See me see trouble oooo.

In other words a woman isnt allowed to WANT to have sex as long as she's in a relationship with you.

A woman can want sex and I will always be ready to give her by God's grace so far my thing still dey work. And remember, I do have relationships and there is sex. Am just saying perhaps thats why i dont have a serious one.

In other words something like 8 months into the relationship, she makes a pass and she's sudden an easy lay?

Capital No. If she can deny me sex for 8 months, I guess I will be quite convinced to marry her. And she must have had total control of my excesses for her to deny my that for such a long time. I hope u understand me now karma.

Ah, so that was chasing you did on the other thread with iyeayo?

Mehn, you guys need to define chasing for us o. No wonder you people claim we do too much shakara

I no chase Iyeayo! She be my towm girl. . . . . abi Iyeayo, I chase you?

Sex on the first date hmm every guy's dream i guess but i respect the challenge ooh i like stepping my game a few notches so if she gives it up on the first date best believe i am not calling her back because my mind would start wandering about how many other first dates she has given up her chocha to i am not trying to catch VD's or STI's i am too young