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danbrowndmf:
Question For The Ladies, come tell us your Answer.

godoluwa:
in olamide's voice, a ni ko r'ebadi e o si wa n s'ako...a se soosi deeper lo n lo

Jollyjoy:
Gosh, is this advice?

Phboy1:
A lady friend of mine sincerely needs an advice, she shld be around 35yrs, her schl boyfriend who graduated in 2007 but still an applicant is proposing to marry her, another guy in his early 40s working in telecom industry also wants to marry her. the telecom guy has a wife with 2 kids and very wealthy with houses in abuja, lagos and ph. So my friend is kind of confused and wants my opinion on this ..

Dolypson04:
A friend asked me this question but I couldn't give him a satisfactory answer. I believe there are wiser people than me here. Advise him pls!
Let me narrate in his words.
This girl stays in my hostel in sch (Off campus). She is one kind SU and a prayer warrior. Its obvious we liked each other. Early this year, I asked her out and she told me I would never be able to cope with her past. I thought she was trying to scare me off considering her naivety and innocence. She told me she is no virgin and has aborted. I couldn't believe it. I wanted to run but I think I love her regardless of her past mistakes.
We started dating in a nutshell with agreement on no sex.
Just last month, I received a friend request from a guy. We chatted and he told me that he is my girl ex. He blackmailed her calling her a pretender that she is a LovePeddler and not a born again she portrayed. I decided to pretend as if her past was not obvious to me so I played along. He told me how she aborted but failed to mention who impregnated and denied her pregnancy. Now he told me he has evidences in case I find it difficult to believe him. He insist I come to check his evidences in his own school. I am seriously bothered as I don't know he could have up his sleeves. It might probably tarnish our image in future if the guy is not silenced.
I must confess, I once considered keeping him shut till eternity( U no wat I mean). It's against my religion and the law of the land.
Pls advise me. Should I meet him as he wants, how can I destroy his evidences without hurting him or should I even leave the girl outright? Help me plssss!
Snapshot of their conversation will follow b4 pple call it superstory.

Allosaurus:
Not clear

Maamin:
Try harder...you are worthless, still no Bleep will be given

Maamin:
Is this what you look like and you are calling me vulture?...bwahahahahaha...I forgive u

No wonder..***insecurity alert!***

Maamin:
Is this what you look like and you are calling me vulture?...bwahahahahaha...I forgive u

No wonder..***insecurity alert!***

Maamin:
Another stupid attention seeking troll....but no fuckz will be given to you today..

Back off!

GeneralQuamdeen:
We only get girlfriends with 0.2 chance that she will become our wife.

yungmarshall:
children are wonderful gifts from God and they should be given beautiful names,by God grace my beautiful wife will give birth to 3kids 2boys and 1 girl and they will b called

ALVIN
EHIS
ROYALTY

profojah:
Make sure you breastfeed your kids you hear..try to be a good mother .. Nairaland guyz no dey like after3 lady..See as your b**bs fall like mango tree ...smh

Maamin:
Hope you are not insecure?..coz i could do this all day with you..some random jobless people on a faceless forum cannot be my assessment of beauty...sorry i trampled on your ego...but truth be told that is how I see it..hate it or love it


#i repeat "am yet to see anything gorgeous" go hug transformer

Iamfrank:
Have bn dating dis gal 4 2yrs nw... Sh went to her hometown 4 easter, she came back jst yesterday, sh jst came to c me today, due to d size of d big hand bag she carried... I decided to check her bag n I saw dis little tin inside, its all wrapped with feathers all over, am so very shocked, I asked ha wats it, she jst said its nothing.... Pls does any1 here knws wats it... Coz it luks so fetish to me

parrygee:
Often times, they hardly admit their flaws.

You'll hear "C. Ronaldo and Steve Job was born out of wedlock" "Children are bundle of joy" "I think its God's will".

Morestill most say "any man that loves me must allow me move in with my child".

I'm not an advocate of abortion. But this trend is becoming the norm.

Let's hear your experiences and opinion.

Morning peeps!

sambas:
And for those that will throw
tantrums, remember
Its my phone
My Mb
My opinion
There is something ladies do
nowadays that is paining me, its
paining me so much that if I
don't say it out, I might die of
""piled up anger""
In a desperate bid to land
theirselves husbands, a lot of
ladies have resorting to telling
cheap lies about their
virginity,and I ask, is it worth it?
Last month, a man drove his wife
away from their home because he
said the lady lied to him that she
was a Virgin,he found out after
their wedding in December that
she wasn't, since he found out,
he has not been able to forgive
her, and that he now hates her so
much, he said the best thing for
them to do under the
circumstances was to go their
separate ways, that he can't
continue the marriage since it was
already built on lies and mistrust
Do you blame him?
Well, the woman said the reason
she lied was because she knows
how men respect the women
they married as virgins more than
the ones they didn't marry as
virgins,lwkmd,I wonder where she
got that from
How the man managed to find
out is what I can't really fathom ,
even though he acted rashly by
sending her away, I really don't
blame him because I know how
painful it is when you go to the
market to buy a sealed product,
after all the assurance from the
seller that what you are buying is
authentic, you take it home only
to open it and discover its fake,
thats exactly how the man felt
when he discovered his wife lied
to him
Ladies, the truth of the matter is
that, a man that will value you
will value you irrespective of your
virginity status, what shall it profit
you to lie and get a husband and
later lose the marriage?
I want you to know that there are
still very smart men, even after
you have finished using all the
tightening soaps, creams, alum,
lime and all, he still finds a way
to discover you are not a
Virgin,even though many men are
novice in that area, believe me,
there are still smart ones
If that virginity is your own
criteria for landing a good
husband, why lose it in the first
place?
Does it ever cross your mind that
you might run into an ex
who,when God wan punish
you,turns out to be your
husband's old friend?
Always have it at the back of your
mind that, its a small world
The lies are not worth it ladies, a
true man would love you for you
whether you are a Virgin or not
Your own real husband will pay
that bride price whether you are
a Virgin or not
And for the men looking for
Virgin wives to marry, make sure
you preserve your own virginity,if
you are not a virgin, you have no
right whatsoever to
complain,some women want
Virgin husbands too

Seun:
Actually, a woman's brain is her best asset.

ibroauthen:
LADIES! LADIES!! LADIES!!!
What do they really want:
If you give her sex, she will say
you are after her
body; if you don't give her sex
she will say you are
not man enough.
If you give her money she will call
you a mugu; if
you don't give her money she
will say that you are
stingy and greedy.
If you are very caring she will
take you for granted;
if you are not caring she will say
that you don't love
her.
If you always call her she will say
that you are
disturbing her; if you don't call
her she will say that
you are cheating on her.
If you dress very well she will call
you a player; if
you don't dress
well she will call you a dirty guy.
If you are quiet she will say that
you are too boring.
If you are not, she will say that
you are too
lousy.
Help her in the kitchen she will
say that this man is
a woman wrapper; if u don't
help her in the kitchen
she will say that this man is
using her as a slave.
A guy told me that when he
dated his first girlfriend,
she quit the relationship because
he was demanding
for sex. when he dated the
second girlfriend, she
quit the
relationship because he was not
demanding for sex.
SO LADIES WHAT DO YOU
ACTUALLY WANT?

Teempakguy:
a beg, manage this one small.

bobolizim:
Nigerians are always portraying in all ramifications that life is all together a struggle. They do this in almost every aspect of life but I was thinking that this particular aspect will be exempted. The issue of love and romance is one that should be associated with much passion and tenderness. It is no manual or hard labour. But Nigerians totally disagree with me in this – “they prefer to do their thing with all their might”. This has landed us to the common believe that Nigerians are bad at kissing. You may believe or doubt it. However, you can’t help but laugh away your day by the time you take a look at these photos of 7 “fantastic” kissing episodes below:
Cc: Lalasticlala

misssclassy:
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Mouth123:
I am one of the few that believe there is no real /true love... it only exist in the movies....

i will like to tell you about the story, from the beginning (i swear)... but right now i need your honest advice.....

Yeah... i loved her, that's what we thought. now she is getting married to someone else and i cant do anything about it. Yea i wish its not like that.

i need your advice.....

My ex, called me telling me about her marriage and i felt i have no business going there...
Now her friend told me 4 days to the wedding that she is looking forward to see me at the most important day of her life...

4 days and i have not bought the Aso Ebi, i have not called her to tell her i cant make it to her wedding and and u don't want to disappoint her... she invited me.

should i call her telling her i wont be able to make it, not call her and don't go or borrow money from anywhere but the cloth and go to the wedding..

3 things are important here...

i don't have a job

and i am not sure i wont break down into tears if i see her walking away with another man.

she and her friends (my friends too) might not forgive me.

i think i can use your words of advice.

then i will tell you about my story after this saga ends.

MEGGATRON:
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sweetorgasm:
This is a very serious question that i was asked by my uncle and i was speechless. "ladies and gents are you all 100% certain that you will get married to your current lover?