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nairalandposter:
I'm not a dictionary.

Savage

nairalandposter:
People make Nigerians appear so animalistic and primitive, I wonder why.

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EdwardRandy:
My brother I'm equally passing through same thing, my babe is Edo and I'm Igbo. In my own case na my family wey no gree make I marry her o even as she don born one for me, while her own family already accepted me and took me as their own child.. My parents even went as far as advising me to abandon her and the baby, and guess what I no longer talk to my parents, atleast for the mean time. Never believed they would say a thing like that to me. Tribe is not enough reason why they shouldn't give their consent to a marriage.. What if you were dangote's son? Or my babe be dangote pikin? My parents (don't know about yours) would never have advised me to leave my woman and new born baby.. If you know what you want bro, go for it. As long as the woman u want to marry is a good person who gives u peace of mind. All the best.

Have already quitted, she ain't going against her mum according to what she said to me.
Thanks for the advice

OlawaleBammie:
did dey knw why u were doin father xmas??

You are not serious

OlawaleBammie:
Did u tell dem from d onset as well??

it would b a wrong accusation if dey just tell u "hey! u cant marry our daughter' wen u hav nt even told dem ur intention.

Anyways, sorry my bro, God wil provide the best for u. just keep searching and keep praying.

But I can be spending money on their daughter?

erico2k2:
I will say this with no apolgy, its ONLY POOR PEOPLE WHO DRAG THIS TRIBE THING IN NIGERIA RICH PEOPLE DO NOT*** If not Davido wont be marrying chioma!Young Men hustle hard

Hahaha
If for say I be celebrity now, the woman for no drag my TRIBE

venus4cupid:
Since you have broken up with her, why creating this post?

To seek people's opinions and advice.

Xisnin:
The mother is the most foolish woman on earth.
We all know the real reason why she objected.
Don't tell me you fell for the scam reason.

I thought as much, maybe her mum thinks I dont have enough Money.
Chai
Chai

mechanics:
Don't give up bro, God has a reason for what happened, cheer up and move on.

Thanks

Stefenijoan002:
If her mother has told you to step back i advice you do cuz no Mata how u try you can never have a peaceful home as long as she's ur mother in-law .that's what happened to one of my aunty she lived in hell until she got a divorced !point is mother in-laws hold d keys to every home .

Thank God I have to quit the relationship immediately.

TOPCRUISE:
Getting to know each other. Not an intention to propose to each other

What if is someone you like to spend the rest of your life with.

Chai
Chai
Chai
Run away from that guy

LiftedMan:
Move on, don't marry a lady against the wish of her mother.

Thanks, done that already.

Enemyofpeace:
that's the spirit. If you force yourself on the babe and marry her, the mother will make life very miserable for you. There are lots of girls out there, pray to God to send you the bone if your bones and the flesh of your flesh that is truly yours from heaven, moreover Edo girls no sabi fok sef

Hahaha
Bad man killer, it be like say na true oh.

OlawaleBammie:
A bn dey tink say na only me reason am,

leave d guy jare, ordinary 6months den tym is wasted, wetin people wey dey go five years go talk oo?

Why didn't they tell me from the onset?

TOPCRUISE:
They didn't waste your time. Did they know you wanted to propose to her

Really?
What does dating mean to you?

Enemyofpeace:
Abeg move on and stop wasting our time here with your just 6 months old relationship

Have done that already.
Moved on with my life.

Peng12345:
Forget aboit those bla bla you don't have enough money, simple

Lol, I do have enough money biko.

Sonnobax15:
Dear op,with all due respect,i think you should see that hinderance as a blessing in disguise...edo women aren't considered as wife materials if you really want to live long...as an urhobo man,that'd be the last thing i'd do,to marry an edo witch!

Thanks, have already seen it as a blessing

LUGBE:
You gather mind to go Edo. Edo men are running away, you are running in.

You are seeing the handwriting on the wall but you want to be blind, run away as fast as your leg can carry

Na love Carry me go naa

Stevecovey:
@ the bolded. Your girlfriends mother is WISE. Your girlfriend better listens to her mother.

That one is not even a problem to me. I can rent an apartment for my sister, my annoyance is the TRIBE.
It hurts me so much.

Obason22:
Guy, take rest and look for wife, Igbo girls last longer in marriage than Edo girls, since the mum have warned u pls stay off, We have most beautiful lady out there with gud characters that u can take as wife instead of Edo.

Thanks bro.

mercyviv:
I don't believe you're in love with the lady either ... listen to yourself; " why didnt they tell me this before instead..." It simply means you would have walked even in the face of a simple challenge that may have been resolved with dialogue, or do you imagine marriage to be a bed of roses all through and through?! I doubt if you'll be a better husband sir!!
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I have meet the woman in question visited them on some occasions.
Why didn't they tell me on time , why waste my time they dont like igbo.

Pettyprincess:
Wow!!! Seriously?
I think that is the best for both of you since she can't go against her mum.

Yeah the best decision.

Pettyprincess:
I have modified my comment
Ask her what is her decision.i do not think you marrying her mother,your gf should have the final decision.

She said she can't go against her mum decision.
I have broken up with her

Pettyprincess:
I still do not believe parent still dictate who their children should get married to in this 21st century,bt anyways your mom told you not to marry someone because of an utterance with an igbo person,like seriously?
At this point i really do not know what to say because i believe if you were capable enough of determining who you want to marry you wnt be here seeking advice.

She is EDO and I am IGBO. HER mum an igbo lady divorced her brother and took their children away, so because of that her daughter will not marry me and also because my younger sister is living with me.

I have been dating her for about 6 months now, last month on her birthday I proposed to her and she said yes. Ever since then the mum have been angry, she invited me to come over to have discussions with me. She is EDO and I am IGBO, the mum said she doesn't want her daughter to marry IGBO because of what an Igbo lady did to her brother.
I was shocked and dumbfounded, while didn't they tell me all this while instead of wasting my time.

My girlfriend broke up with me because of my tribe and my younger sister living with me.

I have to start moving to the USA for my post graduate studies.
B.eng Civil Engineering, 2.1.
Prospective Masters in Structural engineering

Hello guys Good afternoon.
I will like to apply for my post graduate studies in Finland, how do I go about that.
Am a Civil Engineer