Humility017:


my parents don't even have such damn right to forbid me from marrying someone because of her tribe....

there are good and bad people in every tribe....
what makes people who they're is because of their family upbringing and values and not their tribes.....

I told my mom this some years ago with scriptures from the Bible and since then... she changed the tune she just pray for good wives for her children irrespective of the tribe and God make her children good husbands too

OlawaleBammie:


This guy ur craziness never leave u

Last tym u were inside a well searching for Glo network. nawa for u oo

MedicH:


So ur brother came home with his babe and ur aunt unleashed this wickedness on her ur bro no fit defend the girl? I wonder where girl meet this kind guys at. What if the supposed aunt killed the girl from the aggravated assault and battery?

Kassidy4luv:
I have been dating her for about 6 months now, last month on her birthday I proposed to her and she said yes. Ever since then the mum have been angry, she invited me to come over to have discussions with me. She is EDO and I am IGBO, the mum said she doesn't want her daughter to marry IGBO because of what an Igbo lady did to her brother.
I was shocked and dumbfounded, while didn't they tell me all this while instead of wasting my time.

Offpoint:
Doctors in the house, I don't know what's wrong with me for the past 5 days now.
Anything I take in I have this urge of vomiting, even water.
It all started when I drank garri with Merinda plus groundnuts+fried fish.

I was only trying to Jaye ori mi

sacramento1212:


Good to know that you clearly indicated that "your parents don't have such damn right" and wasn't referring to parents in general. Not all that claims to be parents are that in the real sense. Some, it's their children that controls them.

My own parents have a say because i cannot on my own go and marry a girl without their consent and it will be highly irresponsible of the parents of a girl to commence and complete marital rites if the parents of the Boy doesn't show up knowing that they are alive.

It's only if the reasons for rejection isn't justified, then i won't accept and even with that, i won't proceed without them but rather be diplomatic and continue to make them see reasons to accept.

Kassidy4luv:
I have been dating her for about 6 months now, last month on her birthday I proposed to her and she said yes. Ever since then the mum have been angry, she invited me to come over to have discussions with me. She is EDO and I am IGBO, the mum said she doesn't want her daughter to marry IGBO because of what an Igbo lady did to her brother.
I was shocked and dumbfounded, while didn't they tell me all this while instead of wasting my time.

Offpoint:
Doctors in the house, I don't know what's wrong with me for the past 5 days now.
Anything I take in I have this urge of vomiting, even water.
It all started when I drank garri with Merinda plus groundnuts+fried fish.

I was only trying to Jaye ori mi

Humility017:


Lol...where is your education and rational thinking.
if you parents could forbid you from marrying a lady all because of her tribe...

and relating with to one generalisation that' is not always true..because they're good and bad people in every tribe.


my parents can give me another season but definitely not tribe.

I can't be a Christian if I still judge people on the basis of their tribe

SLAP44:


Same thing happened in our compound, my elder bro brought back this girl to marry in Mbaise Imo state, my auntie was happy, but when she spoke to the girl and she was like, "Auntie doo, I no dey hear Ib,,,,, she couldn't complete the sentence and my auntie took the coke I brought for her and broke on the poor girl's head. See wahala that day

The poor Edo girl ran and my aunt chased her with a cane, flogging her all the way to the bus stop, my elder bro was helpless as it was my auntie who trained him in university.

The poor Edo girl was rejected because one wicked Edo woman who lived in my uncles house in Benin was using witchcraft to suck my auntie business.

SLAP44:


Same thing happened in our compound, my elder bro brought back this girl to marry in Mbaise Imo state, my auntie was happy, but when she spoke to the girl and she was like, "Auntie doo, I no dey hear Ib,,,,, she couldn't complete the sentence and my auntie took the coke I brought for her and broke on the poor girl's head. See wahala that day

The poor Edo girl ran and my aunt chased her with a cane, flogging her all the way to the bus stop, my elder bro was helpless as it was my auntie who trained him in university.

The poor Edo girl was rejected because one wicked Edo woman who lived in my uncles house in Benin was using witchcraft to suck my auntie business.

mercyviv:
I don't believe you're in love with the lady either ... listen to yourself; " why didnt they tell me this before instead..." It simply means you would have walked even in the face of a simple challenge that may have been resolved with dialogue, or do you imagine marriage to be a bed of roses all through and through?! I doubt if you'll be a better husband sir!!
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Obason22:
Guy, take rest and look for wife, Igbo girls last longer in marriage than Edo girls, since the mum have warned u pls stay off, We have most beautiful lady out there with gud characters that u can take as wife instead of Edo.

Stevecovey:


@ the bolded. Your girlfriends mother is WISE. Your girlfriend better listens to her mother.

LUGBE:
You gather mind to go Edo. Edo men are running away, you are running in.

You are seeing the handwriting on the wall but you want to be blind, run away as fast as your leg can carry

Kassidy4luv:

She is EDO and I am IGBO her mum an igbo lady divorced her brother and took their children away, so because of that her daughter will not marry me and also because my younger sister is living with me.

cyrilamx:
As if Urhobos are better. Lazy drunks fed by their wives. lest u forgot, Urhobos emigrated from Benin.

Pettyprincess:
I still do not believe parent still dictate who their children should get married to in this 21st century,bt anyways her mom told her not to marry someone because of an utterance with an igbo person,like seriously?
At this point i really do not know what to say bt you should hear her decision out first.
I can't imagine my mom telling me me i can't marry my bf because people from his race colonised Nigeria.

OgboAto:
LOL nobody wants the Ibo people anymore.

Not even Ibo people want to marry Ibo people.

hopexter:


LIES

Sonnobax15:
Dear op,with all due respect,i think you should see that hinderance as a blessing in disguise...edo women aren't considered as wife materials if you really want to live long...as an urhobo man,that'd be the last thing i'd do,to marry an edo witch!

SLAP44:


Same thing happened in our compound, my elder bro brought back this girl to marry in Mbaise Imo state, my auntie was happy, but when she spoke to the girl and she was like, "Auntie doo, I no dey hear Ib,,,,, she couldn't complete the sentence and my auntie took the coke I brought for her and broke on the poor girl's head. See wahala that day

The poor Edo girl ran and my aunt chased her with a cane, flogging her all the way to the bus stop, my elder bro was helpless as it was my auntie who trained him in university.

The poor Edo girl was rejected because one wicked Edo woman who lived in my uncles house in Benin was using witchcraft to suck my auntie business.

Noblefirstlady:

What!! Couldn't she send her out quietly? I swear if it was me, I would have gotten her arrested for assault. How dare she break bottle on her head just because of her language. Why not just say no, and your brother was just looking. What if she had killed her.

I can't believe this story.

Peng12345:


Forget aboit those bla bla you don't have enough money, simple

Enemyofpeace:
Abeg move on and stop wasting our time here with your just 6 months old relationship

SLAP44:


We are fabricating stories on the first page, did you believe the first story up there?

SLAP44:


I know, they wanted to bash igbos with lies, I had to help them with a fake story

TOPCRUISE:

They didn't waste your time. Did they know you wanted to propose to her

Kassidy4luv:

Have done that already.
Moved on with my life.