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kalufelix:
Mine was that mum always suspects me of having something with the maid we were about the same age or I'll give her 2yrs max...She will discreetly tell my kid sister (5yrs younger) to monitor movements when she is away thereby poisoning the little girls mind towards me when i have no such history whatsoever (i never know woman then sef even the usual primary school mama and papa things sef i no try am for once) ...I hate my mum forever cos of that...YES! The maid on her own part always wondered what sort of emotionless young boy i was not to have made the slightest mistake after some years of living together she was looking for a gap but it never came...lol I was very young and intelligent so i knew everything that was happening... So fast forward one day the maid got in trouble and as she was being beaten she lied that i once had sex with her forcefully just to confirm my mum's 'fake' suspicion and destroy the family... Gbam! I talk am it has been happening.. according to mum..lol..a million words couldn't prove my innocence when i came back... I got the beating and punishment of my life that lasted days only my senior bro believed me .. But he was also young and without a say then...This affected my general perspective of women and girls till today i see them as evil and avoid them like ebola was even accused of being a gay in sec. School days...lol ... If i ever set my eyes on you Ndidi i will murder you straight without thinking twice.. As for mum.. I've always wondered what would make a woman suspect an innocent young boy without the tiniest provocation...please how do you describe someone that is always fixated on negative aspect of things...that's what she is and she must apologize to me at the right time no matter how long it takes...

let go so that you can have peace of mind

God will help us but the truth remains that the virus is not spreading as anticipated. Let people go about there normal activities with their face masks and social distancing

merahki:
My friend’s only child is in arguably the best school in the SEast (going by the crazy fees they pay at least )
He said some other (senior)boys used to touch his privates parts in the shower. He didn’t want them reported because he is not a snitch (his words). But he seemed in control of the situation shaa.
I just wanted to point out that boarding schools are no escape . Personally I feel parents caring for their children is better.
Two kids are relatively easier to manage without than 4/5. If you must, enlist the services of those daily paid helps that would work in the morning and afternoon when you are away. By the time you and the kids are back at home they leave.

This advice is not from experience though

I went to all girls boarding school too, yes I am aware of something like that but that can be call youthful exuberance, children trying to explore their bodies out of ignorance but for a help, forcing an erection on your son at a tender age of 8 or making your child suck her breast or private part is unforgiving and unimaginable. My work go into the night, 8 or 9 making it a bit difficult for me to be home all the time and leaving them without an adult supervision

This is a very enlighten topic that needs to be moved to the front page. I am planning to hire a 23 year old female for my 8 and 11 year old sons but I most say, this is really really scary. I can't even imagine this. I will rather enroll them both in a boarding school. This is disheartening, how can this be.

Long throat, don't scatter somebody's marriage

When the health workers are affected, who will do the job. O good God help us

FeliciaOja:
She is no longer HOT as Before
Old age is hitting her badly

you are a woman o

Is kano sleeping? O I just remembered, no testing kits, all the health workers tested positive and their Governor has close down their center. May God help us in this country

Break it down by state, let's see today's magic

Teach your child how to persevere for the right reason

Teach your child how to cook and do house chores

Teach your child how be independent, it helps when they grow up

Teach them financial discipline and saving culture. Get them piggy bank to save a penny

Test again after 3 days, maybe it is too soon. Are you on any fertility drugs? Sometimes it messes your circle .I pray it comes out positive. Plenty baby dust to you. Our coro baby. May God use this period of lockdown to visit as many couple looking for a fruit

Front page lala, let's teach the indomie generation some history

Interesting. Lala move to front page let's teach the indomie generation some history

Naso my brother, people will think that there is a tree where you pluck money. Na only them get problem

Visit what? You are not serious

Please no more cases, may the dead rest in peace

This death occurred on Sunday I think

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pmoye:
Me too! And I was wondering when Op started talking about pouring the kunu somewhere other than the place men pour their naturally made kunu...

crazy minds I swear, op pour water as you sieve

fearless247:
Baba, take it easy, age is not on your side. You don't need to practice everything you see in TV, some ain't real.

he has a young pretty wife that is below 30 to impress at least 5 times per week

Bauchi has 6 cases.

Babapyro:
My post was not aimed at ridiculing or attacking the female gender, I respect women and it is out of the respect and love I have for the female gender that made me poor out my heart. And most of all knows that this issue is predominant with the females,I mean just look at the sheer number of slay queen/prostitutes on Instagram alone.
Moreover I have a daughter and I can't imagine seeing my daughter like that.
As I speak I have a boy close to my compound ,the boy is like a son to me his girlfriend has been with him till the start of this corona issue till date and the girl is only 16,how does a 16year old leave her father's house for more than a month.

you don't get my point sir, I agree with you on this but you have to look both ways to see these things exist. It may be more pronounced with the women because they are always on social media but the boy child is going towards that trend too on the fastest lane. The questions in our lips should be, why is it so? Look at the early leaders of our country, most of them got to the corridor of power before 35. My late Dad got married at 25 years but now the only thing in the mind of most under 30 is how to become sugar boy to one sugar mummy or Daddy. What about yahoo yahoo the order of the day, they don't want to hustle yet want quick money. Are we teaching our children how to be lazy mined or to have a low esteem . where is this problem coming from and possibly solution to it.

In as much as I condemn the act of begging and sell one's body for money, it is sad to note that the likes of op only see women engaging in such disturbing act. Nowadays men beg more and are ready to to prostitute because of money. It is embarrassing and disgusting to see a man selling his birth right for a bowl of porridge. Just this year alone about five guys I called for job interview wanted to have personal relationship, one even sent me his nudes with the caption, "I know how to bring in the best in you both professionally and in your bedroom. The bottom line is that youth of today, has got it all wrong and we the parents are not getting it right, we allow our children to be so dependent on us that they can't stand on their own. In my list of those begging for airtime, the guy folks top. So it is not not the women, our society is sick

Say what you know

We share in the same pain, may God heal our Land

Emioga:
What I regret most is my marriage. Wish I married someone who made me a better person. Now I'm a shadow of my former self and my family can't even come to my house to say hello. Please family should treat their daughters/sons intended spouse good even if you don't want them to get married to the supposed spouse. If my sisters had treated my ex well I wouldn't have been so secretive with my present spouse

if you can't find yourself please leave your spouse but first make sure you are not the cause of your martial problems. Don't blame your sisters for your present predicament because we are always presented with more than one choice at every given time. You are in this because you choose to
I won't say I regretted getting married because I have two beautiful souls from that union but getting married at 19 and to the guy I did to was my greatest mistake. I will never forgive myself for stooping so low and throwing my already bright future to be with a man that treated me like trash.
I can't share the pains and setbacks but at least the best decision I ever took was to walk out of that marriage at the time I did, enrolled into a degree program, got a job, took full responsibility of my boys and in an amazing relationship. It has not been easy but life gave me a second chance to rewrite my story and I have been developing myself ever since, taking up the new challenges as it comes everyday. So if it not working for you then it is time to step up. Don't live a life of regrets because it is all on you. You always have a choice. Rise above your present situation. One last thing don't trade your body for money because God has given us women a favourable environment to suceed all you need to do is to develop yourself, be good at what you do and you will rise, we always do.

What is happening in kano

You want to break up with your woman because of a line of words? Two years of being in a relationship and you are considering break up because of this? Ok let me tell you something, get a paper and pen, outline what you like and dislike about your girlfriend and then weigh your options and take your decision. Another thing, couple fight and say some annoying stuff to each other but that doesn't call for break up just talk to her and tell her how you feel. Get use to these things and turn blind eyes where you can because some days will be like these, when there will be fighting and quarrel but the good news is, love conquers all so whatever rocks your boat

This is our peak people, there is light at the end. Where is jigawa, thought they recorded their first case

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Cut off every communication for two months then let's see how her useful head will carter for the child

I still remembered o, that time they said the boy was autistic because the first Lady was over forty five. I was in primary 1 then, I don't even know what that meant at that time

lebete3000:
Sweet mouth, make I chook prick insayid.

corona catch you there