jdluv:
fact. U sit n wait 4 d guy to buy takeway dat u wil eat togeda. Taaa.

davdandam:
amebo ones will respond like this. ....
You:good morning
Reply ;good morning oga, how are you, how was your night, how's family, how's your wife and your kids, we thank God, this weather cold o, wait are you hearing from that your sister? That one that got married,oh thank God. ...mummy and daddy nko, greet them for me o. You are going to work abi? That's great. Till you come, bring something o. .........haba mallam

angelsing:
..As its stand u are cheating but u just have to take a leap of faith if u are to leave him...Ask ur self this, do u see ur self being happy when iu guys get married considering the way he behaves right now?..if no, u just have to take a leap of faith and go with the new guy..I presume u and ur Boyfriend are not in the same state cos if he is u are definitely doing a good job dating 2 pple at a time.

chimerase2:
u re previldged to meet with the man of god
Is a once in a life opportunity
Join ma mins3 and I will make u the fishers of gals

chimerase2:
Leave both of them and come and settle with the man of God kia kia

angelsing:
The first question am going to ask u is if u are dating both of them right now?...if yes, u actually put ur self in this dilemma and confused state. Am sure ur feelings for the guy u have dated for 5yrs is still there but u shud know at list from the little things u said abt him he looks like some1 who will make u unhappy with his temper and attitude if u eventually get married to him. That said, I know u are concern about missing out on getting married or been left out for u to search for a new suitor considering the tribal difference of the other guy..You have to understand that ur happiness is paramount in marriage so getting married to him will be at the detriment of ur happiness. Regarding the other guy with the tribal difference, if u truly believe he loves u and makes u happy, try convincing ur parent to let u marry him but if that does not work u will have to look for someone else.

2goodbobo:
Tribe should not be your yardstick for chosing life partner. You jutapox between them and you said the second guy
makes you happy, so ignore the tribe thing and go all out for the second guy.Even if you marry your tribe, is not a
guarantee for a blissful marriage. #Talkingfromexperience

Sunkyphil:
the decision is urs to make,u shld be able to define what kind of person he is since u guys av been together for long.So the choice is urs whether to back out or continue.
LAST BULLET ANGER CAN DESTROY WHAT U BUILD IN TEN YEARS UNDER FIVE MINUTES

waywardpikin:
When the topic said 'CONFUSED' I did not have to click it before knowing that it was a woman.

Women... E get when una no dey confuse? Ride on biko

waywardpikin:
When the topic said 'CONFUSED' I did not have to click it before knowing that it was a woman.

Women... E get when una no dey confuse? Ride on biko

Drdaps:

well dear, i don't think he gat an iota of ego coz ego is just an act of showing one that you'r a better man.
I think you should let go of him for a while and if he doesn't change then move ahead. You are better off him.

clevvermind:
what about finding you.

clevvermind:
i have what it takes.

Lacomus:
Do you have what it takes to attract a girl with such qualities ?

andromida:
My sweet lady if you ever planned a bright and happy future for yourself drop that verbally abusive man, i mean the guy you've been with for the last 5 years. Raining insults on you, throwing you out makes me feel this man is immature and ill please drop him immediately in fact i will advise that before the day is over he is no longer part of your life. Who cares if he wants to settle? He should look for an ill woman like himself and settle or whatever. HE DOES NOT DESERVE YOU. As per the second guy no rushing please humans unfold let him show his true colors you have the power of choice and there is more where he came from. Go and be happy .

All the best.

Cholls:
my sister if the two is not working try other. Pls stop this confused life of your.

KingTom:
Amen. Where have you been hiding?

Gloria3389:

Yes.... getting a boyfriend's heart is not by cooking bro....anyway, we have different pple with different principles....the adage myt apply to u but not everyone.......may I ask if u are married??

DonaldGenes: Op, You literally forgot to add "Your fellow girls asking us for our joystick indirectly on BBM?
Some goes like this " Can I see what you're carrying about?
So blisteringly awkward