waxyung:
At least you have a job.

You don't want to hear how the country's treating unemployed ones like us

MikeofKd:


How do have time to gym when your work takes almost all your time ? I wake by 4 am hit the road by 5 am , except Sunday , there's really no time tbh.
If only I had a high paying job with lot of time for myself I would be visiting the gym often.

Themainboy22:
Hi mr. kaymart,
just seeing your mention..

Does it has solution?

phemray:


I rather see it as maturity. It doesn't mean you will take her back but allowing her to say whatever she wanted to say will rather increase your personality because she will keep thinking about it even as you did not accept her back.

Themainboy22:
The issue for me is the quality. Whenever I drank peak milk, it always gives me side effect (like I took some hard drugs or something...)


please how can one identify original the one?.

Amotolongbo:
If your mother taught you respect, you would respect me. Cos your mother can’t be older than me.

Amotolongbo:
No, like the beast did your mother

Amotolongbo:
Congrats lill brainy.
Please stay focus and do not let those beasts truncate your bright future with fleshy rods

BJanta:


Marrying the woman I married. An innocent girl turned out to be all ache and pain.

Lukmanraji:
My gf of seven years has been giving me attitude recently which I noticed sometimes last year. I observed that she always check my phone to look for something to hold against me. Yes, she suspected that I'm having something with someone. So, every time she's around me, she always find one or two thing that will lead to argument and all that. Aside that, the respect, love and intimacy between us reduced drastically.

Fast forward to this year, She successfully read a chat on my phone where I was talking dirty with someone. That's the genesis of the whole mess I'm in right now. She just walked out quietly and decided to end it all. Since then, I've not been myself because this is the person I have planned to live the rest of my life with. So, I started begging her but she's not giving me any green light. I called, messaged her but no response. I asked my Junior brother to beg on my behalf but she didn't succumb to that not until my dad intervened to apologize on my behalf.

So, she call me that we need to see. I rushed to visit her and apologize again and again. She agreed to continue with the relationship but she hasn't forgiven me. After few weeks of the whole issue. I suspected that she's hiding something from me. Then one fateful night, I spy on her phone when she was unlocking her phone. That night, I was able to access her phone while she was asleep.

I checked her WhatsApp, I discovered that she has been clearing her chat with one particular guy who happens to be her friend from NYSC since 2021. They became close as they both work in the same financial institution but in a different branch. Then I went further to her Instagram page to see what's going there.

To my greatest surprise, I discovered that they have been having an affair since 2023. My gf has been throwing herself to this guy, they have been going to the cinema together and other places. On her birthday, my babe and this guy went out together without my knowledge, they both book uber to somewhere without my knowledge, they were both sharing their feelings online, talking about marriage, how to raise their kids irrespective of their religion differences and my babe even throwing herself to the guy for sex. Everything thing I found in their chat especially how my babe has been treating this guy with love and respect is the opposite of how my babe has been treating me lately.

So, I screenshoted all the evidence and save on my phone. I then challenged her that she's cheating on me with that guy but she blatantly denied it. Not until I showed her all the evidences with me before she began to cry fowl and started debunking all I saw. She claimed that they are not true, they were just playing and not into any thing serious. They are friends and that's how they banter each other online. All her excuses were not genuine but I still forgive her on one condition that I don't want to see her with the guy again and she should cut off any form of friendship or relationship between them because I had done something more than that to her just recently and she forgive me.

Meanwhile, during the cause of this issue, I proposed to my gf that we should take this relationship to the next level by seeing her parents this year and maybe by the end of the year, we do the whole thing. The shock response I got from her was that she's not in a rush to settle down with me. Not even this year as she's just healing from the heartbreak I caused her and I can't use marriage to tie her down then I continue breaking her heart. There's no how I tried convincing her that I am a changed man now as I am ready to take responsibility and be a responsible person.

After few weeks, I logged into her whatsapp on my system and then again I found out that she's still talking to this guy and they were even planning on going out again. I got angry and send proof to her but guess what, my babe para for me for cloning her whatsapp on my system. Hell almost let lose that evening. This time around, she felt unapologetic about the primary issue that I warned her to desist from. Funny enough, after close observation, I learnt that they move their chats from whatsapp to Snapchat where their chat is just "view once". Then I knew that this lady is not ready to stop talking to this guy. I have shouted over and over this matter but this time around, my babe is now feeling lackadaisical about this issue.

Right now, my babe is now comfortable with the guy and she's now sitting on defense about this matter. In our last conversation, my GF literarily told me that she doesn't love me anymore. And then she started rewinding all my past during the cause of the relation and using it as an excuse for not been able to love me like she used to. In our conversation, the only thing she didn't mention is that we should go on our separate ways (break up) but everything she said to me indirectly simply means that she is done with me.

I felt unloved as this is the woman I never placed anyone above, this is the woman I've nurtured when we were in school and outside school. I respected her and love her so much that she has become part of me. My parents, family and friends are expecting us to tie the knot soon but here is my babe telling me she's not in love with me anymore. I felt unloved about this whole thing and I'm heartbroken.

I am lost and crying inside silently as I never expected someone I have sacrificed something huge for before to be acting like this to me. I'm depressed. I need mature advise from you guys. Thank you.

Light78:
Some people are abnormal nowadays.

I was on my own, then I got a call from my friend that he's at an event center. I should come so we go flex. I reminded him that I don't drink alcohol. I can only take bottle water or malt drink. He said I should come that he's feeling bored.

Before I left, I took 1k with me in case something goes out of the ordinary, I will pay for my drink and off I go. But I like paying for what I order.

Immediately I reached the place, I saw him with three more guys. They have started drink and on their second bottles. I grabbed a chair, but as I was about to have a seat, he told me to bring 2k so he can add his and pay for drinks.

I immediately left without uttering a world.


I was like, don't people think?

immortalcrown:
How much was wasted in the futile mission?

Prevention is better than cure.

Medicine after death is useless.

Many people downloaded the video. The internet never forgets.

brain54:
Is this the first time he is hearing of food fermentation...

How is cheese made?

Because it's Africa now it's primitive and rotten!

Racoon:
Yes the Christian folk have some bad eggs too.

onatisi:
Tinubu is very lucky to be the president at a time Dangote refinery is fully starting operation . The fx used for fuel importation and the funds used for subsidy payment ,if those 2 are removed , automatically the economy will improve . I think we should thank Buhari for given Dangote the much needed encouragement to start that refinery .

iampeterben:
I nor dey use diesel so this news isn't relevant to me. Thank you. Diesel users over to you.

SmartProf:

Role models in what exactly...are they higher humans?

Jennyclay:
You earn 200k monthly and in your mind you’re earning much Mtcheww!!

If you carry me for shopping with that money I can’t even pick up to 4 clothes and the money will be exhausted not to talk of bag and shoes

Biko, just stay away from a relationship in order not to put someone’s daughter in abject poverty.

tochez24:



first of all.... Nobody on earth can steal your money through bank app or ussd without your password, unless they got it from you in one way or the other without your consent⚠️

Secondly, to strengthen your protection... You can simply lock your phone and alert sim card. That way, when you loose your phone nobody can break into your phone, talkless of performing any transaction...absolutely nobody♂️

santaclaws:
99% of you thinking Ngannou will beat AJ don't know anything about boxing. I doubt you lot follow any combat sport for that matter! 😂😂😂Just because Ngannou had a knock down against Fury, you all conclude he'll beat AJ. Well, a man is never respected in his own home, so I ain't surprised.

Come March 8, AJ will show Ngannou that boxing is different from MMA.

Quelme:
Joshua no go see draw for this one.

This is a fight of two Africans, why didn't the promoters deem it fit to move the fight down to Africa?

Why that head slamming country of all places.

KingLennon:
Let's call a spade a spade and not a big spoon. Koko zaria is totally wrong and naive for sleeping with Portable's baby mama in the presence of his baby
How did you know it was in his son's presence?
Were you there?

Nackzy:
55 billion or more will be looted

Edusouls:
As if they are better people , country with perverted people full everywhere , LGBTQ’s , maniacs, dead walking people, mass murderers, animals in human form, vampire police, blacks since 400 years of migration have not yet being fuller integrated into the mainstream society they are still on the peripheral, the tax system is designed to keep u slaving the system till u get old, blacks are hunted like animals by police forces, drug scourge, there is no happiness, depression and suicide everywhere upon all the money and advancement, USA is a living HELL

Herkim:
It's buy and drive .

Everything have been fixed

Shalommy:
Congrats...to them. Chaii... Hardly see pretty girls as virgins..... Why??

Abalado:
Letting go of the person am to marry

Puss360:

......just take your share and leave it for the next man...
Lol... After taking your share, then time to marry, u go to village and carry one holier than thou woman... Wahala..
So who will marry the ones you left after taking your share??
Coz to you they are not "Wife material" but you are?
Okay o...

BlaqFaze:
Simp wan lecture us