₦airaland Forum

diddydiva:
did you see the way he attacked me?

huh?

is it rage or what? Anyway I don park well.

diddydiva:
not only Nigerian guys are not romantic but they are aggressive and daft too


it's a pity

That's too much. Do u really mean it?

Whatever you choose, text driving or not be ready for the consequence. Whatever u think is best for you, you are good to go.

[/quote]I didn't know this thread still exist.

banjicom:
IMAGINE...

The GUY lives in abuja,LADY stays in lagos, the lady complained that the relationship could not work because of distance and she broke up.

Now same GUY now travel to LAS VEGAS(the states) the lady is now trying to hook up again,she said distance does not matter now that she really cares. If you are the guy what will u do?

its high time run.

DiamonJ:
I dnt like Ibo tribe too, their mother's are wicked, they control their sons a lot, even @ 40,50 years old men, their mum still live their lives for them, tribalism

Are u dreaming? I have seen a lot of similar things here several times not associated with Ibos. Wives wish for their mother-in-law demise in silence, why? Because they see them has wicked.

glimpse33:
there is this girl named Anita that I was dating for two months, in may 2014. immediately she found out I was ibo, she said she hates my tribe with passion, that all we care about is money..money & said it was over. I begged her, that I 'm not like that, besides I was born in Edo state to Ibo parents. eventually she left

l began working hard, got employed at Hi tech construction company, worked there for six months and I finally hammered... got a new apartment, new car & I became the talk of the town.. *not proud*

One Saturday morning, I went to buy airtime, I saw Anita's parent crying and begging their landlord, I went closer , saw some boys throwing out their properties, I asked the landlord why, he said they can't pay their two years rent which was 160k, I rushed home signed a check gave it to the landlord, they returned back their loads and everybody was looking at me. since that day, Anita parents have been calling me their son, and Anita won't let me be. its either she's the one calling, knocking at the door begging me. I was like okay fine, I forgive you. But, she wants us to be together AGAIN...

All I want from you nairalanders is your Advice.. cos I am planning on getting married this year. I need the right woman. THANKS

She see u hammer, she find that u get what she needs,. I think she will still hate u with passion but nonetheless play her like futbal pretend things aren't well financially and see were it ends. I beg don't be desperate to get marry to her without confirming her heart

Burger01:
The government loot money with impunity. They steal without compunction. They couldn't rebuild police barracks nationwide.. What a government of thieves we have

Time for change is here.

Let's chose and vote wisely.

Vote for the future yet unborn.

Vote for integrity.

Decide to vote Buhari/Osinbajo.

I have decided.

#iHaveDecided.

Are you telling us now that GEJ is responsible for the poor condition of barracks in every state. Have you forgotten that each state govt are given the power to take care of her internal affairs while residual and international are left with the FG.

Mubarack44:
Pdp government are to blame they found these barracks builds by military regime but to renovates became a big problem. chai daris God ooo

I think there is need for you to reason very well before blaming a political party, it is the duty of the state govt in power to take care of issues like that. You can't expect a building to remain new. There is need for maintenance and renovation

An2elect2:
Inspite of the insults nig women receive from their men, they are still submissive. How much more they will reciprocate when they are showered love and respect.
No need treating us like queens, treat us as women first.

Only a few of them are submissive. To make a man treat them has woman they need to give him a reason to. When a woman earn a mans love and trust she becomes a queen. There is a slang nothing goes for nothing.

An2elect2:
Nah. Am in no competition with anyone, so defeat is pointless. I simply don't care what this kind of men say.

gd morning.

where is ur honesty, u should either oppose or support.

An2elect2:
Start by respecting Nigerian women. We are your mothers, aunties, sisters, friends, wives, fiancees, etc my dear Nigerian men

what if we start respecting Nigerian women as mothers, aunties, sisters, friends, wives, fiancees and they become cold, disrespect us, authoritative and unromantic?

An2elect2:
I wouldn't even care, trust me i wouldn't.

since u have accepted defeat on that, that makes us even. 50-50.A guy just said u are not romantic and u accepted unknowingly gud work.

An2elect2:
no you are not.

So how can one convince a damsel like you.

An2elect2:
LOL this post is sooo funny. You seem to know where every nairaland guy lives and how they live! even where they work and school! all they say here is contrary to what they say in 'reality'! you know so much! i think you should go join them there on the discovery Chanel. LOL.

what's so funny about it. I think if there is a post that says Nigerian girls and women are helplessly not romantic. I guess u won't find it funny. Will you?

diddydiva:
leave him now


let him praise himself

who dey praise himself. I guess its high time I parked well lol.

An2elect2:
yea facts on Jupiter. Is that an innate trait that cannot be expressed by nig men on earth? Pls dear be honest. k?

lol I am being honest.

kallmemrB:
yeah but dating a virgin is harder than Gmat

yes it is. But if her bfriend understands her gud but if nt she might be tempted to let it go.

diddydiva:
hmmmmmmm interesting. I will really like to get to know them

They are everywhere. You just have to understand them, show them love, and treat them like someone special. I think 90 percent won't let you down. Only the few ,,,,, will.

An2elect2:
tell her another lie. #rolls eyes# romantic ko nomadic ni

you might not believe me but that's the fact.

kallmemrB:
nothing new...have a friend whos 25 and still a virgin

its better she remain a v the moment she loses it. There is no going back.

diddydiva:
hmmmmmmmm. with what have seen in this supposed romance section to far I don't think you are right.

and as for your guess u are right. several times and it made me wonder what part of Nigeria you are from

people are here because of different reasons so u can't judge with whatever u have seen here most of them are loving, caring and affectionate if u get to know them. Whetever they might have spit out doesn't make them bad.

diddydiva:
if they actually know how to treat woman nicely.

why not

The possibility of treating you nicely is low. Nigerian guys are one of the most romantic in d world. I guess u had a bad experience and was unfortunate those u have met .

diddydiva:
a day will come when wooing a lady would become a course to study in Nigeria.

Nigerian men and guys are helplessly not romantic.

I guess if Nigerian guys are helplessly not romantic I think Ghana and senegal guys are, I hope u can date one of them. .

UchihaMadara:
Decorous articulation of the cognitive undertaking shouldn't be disparaged.

It's not an exposition of ostentation, neither is it an endeavour at erecting a scintillating facade.

On the contrary, it's ascribable to the fidelity in all things no matter how infinitesimal .

Meaning

Fhemmmy:
I know a dude that was single, went back to Nigeria married a lady, they came back to USA and they are happy, they still have not much, God forbids things goes wrong, and the court told the guy to carry the couch while the woman carry the computer and the kids, who lost? Jokes apart, my guy, it is not about loss, if the couple so much in love, they could while apart work at their relationship and be happy and be back together . .

lol see wetin u use answer me. Just an assumption . God dey oooo

Fhemmmy:
No one lost anything, the court only help you guys to settle the property and money to be fair to both parties, women MOST times lose out more when a divorce happens . . . .

enlighten me more using Nigerians in usa as an example

Fhemmmy:
Not true, all depends on who makes more money . . as of May 27, 2014 – When a female celebrity making big money paid out spousal support, it made headlines: Jennifer Lopez, Jane Fonda, Janet Jackson, Jessica Simpson. Now the trend is trickling down . . . so it is case by case.....By the way, if you know you cant handle a woman coming here and now changed, marry the one you see here . . . easy and no need for wahala

you have got a point.

Fhemmmy:
And the woman not losing all she has worked for?

I hope u went through what I wrote. The truth is when a relationship doesn't work as one want after a lot of efforts divorce is the easiest and best way out. So when the settlement is made husbands loose much to their wife both financially and on child care . I know ur thought is about a woman loosing her marriage she has been keeping for long lol.

carefreewannabe:
You don't know what you are talking about?

Even if they have to split everything to 50/50 ("at worst" ), how do they lose everything?

They here means men . Also divorce has always been unfavorable to men in the USA and other western states. You take a woman to usa, married her, she later got a good Job nursing precisely and because she thinks she is on top of the world, makes ur life unbearable, u think u can't cope and seek for divorce, half of ur property goes to ur wife, ur wife becomes the children guardian and you still foot ur childrens bill tell me what else does he have. In real sense that's a blow.