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Why is the Op not completing the list! I guess he has been busted

signor11:
hahahah
money and sex have too much air of evil around them but pure love

goes beyond what words can say
i pray you find it

you are completely right. No comment.

This isn't the first time those Bastards will be assaulting a Nigerian. 400k for wetin?, I bet if she get a competent lawyer she should be payed not less than 1.5m naira ummmm or the culprit face jail term.

At Op. I wish you success in ur search for a gentle lady

sexynabila:
let me open d show

Are u an hybrid? You kept me thinking

Gud people great nation- silverha ikon. http://www.datafilehost.com/d/416f644f

I will try and make her feel on top of the world by treating her like a new born baby or a brown new car(giving her everything within my power). I am sure I will get it unless she is one of those with low sex libido

emusmith:
Change they say, is constant.

I assure you, I have heard the saying, " You can't change anyone"...I used to believe that until I had a reason to doubt it... They also say stuff like "Once a cheat always a cheat" etc.

I do believe Love changes people.

Turning him to a Husband material is all about touching certain spots in him so much so that IF something happens and you're no longer together, he never forgets you- You Left An Indelible Mark In His Heart.


NB: These points can also be followed in a PLATONIC relationship, not only in a LOVE relationship.

How Can You Turn Him To A Husband Material?



1. Keep Your Standards Genuinely High



Most ladies think that "giving up your standards for him is one of those things love will should cost you...No! In fact, giving up your standards shows that all ladies are the same and both of you (you and him) are just the same meaning- you can't positively affect him and fix his challenge. If your stand is no sex, don't lower it to touchings...Keep it high- WE WILL HATE YOU AT FIRST BUT THEN YOU WILL JUST BE ONE SHINING DIAMOND in the sky . If you're doing it with some other guy, it won't be long, he'll find out.



2. Be Real With Him At All Times- Express Emotions Sometimes.


Don't be too firm and resolute. Be emotional occasionally. Trying to impress him isn't the key. I had a lady then who shed tears just because some folks she was leading were so recalcitrant- As she wept, I loved her more- I can't explain it but I saw reality in her.

Being real with him means you have to always open up when you're not comfortable with something but in a mature/ mild way.



3. Lead Him To Believe In The Supernatural.


Especially, if he doesn't believe in God...
The Supernatural is inexplicable using the human mind. There is just something when a girl invites a guy to her Church. He may be a whizz in natural life and work but he feels inept in this area...How do you feel when you see him turning to Genesis when the pastor told them to open to Hebrews?
He can't forget you...



4. Don't Put Money As Top Priority


Putting money as top priority makes you like the rest of 'em...If he asks you to cook for him, try as much as possible to do so much with just little- hard right? Try to...You may not have a second chance to make a first impression. Some girls even give...You love him, you see his potentials, isn't it wise to sow a seed or two? Don't say, he'll leave you when things get better, not when put all the 7 points to practice.



5. Be Committed In Checking Up On His Goals In Life.


Find out what matters most to him- his vision, goals, purpose etc. Ask him about it and once in a while remind him... Insist that he go look for a job, sends his CV to so and so... Every guy still have baby tendencies- being like a mother to them energizes them.


6. Teach Him And Make Him Look Like The Teacher.


Mothers are life mentors. So are Real Ladies. Teaching a guy, you need to be wise, especially when you're not trying to be selfish. I do this a lot to girls. In teaching, ask questions, suggest...It's not inferiority, it's courtesy, respect and regard.


7. If You Don't Agree With A Certain Behavior Of His, Create An Avenue For Him To Correct It.



He didn't call you on your birthday. Call him and insist that he calls you immediately. Don't take it too personal. He still loves you nonetheless. By doing so, you're standing out as a Big Girl and not a Spoilt Brat.



This thread does not promise you that he will change but ...You will change...

Love changes people in amazing ways. You haven't experienced it doesn't falsify these points... Maybe you have to put these to practice thus enhancing your chances of even finding the guy who won't be a tough but to crack.


Good morning.

You are 91 percent right

cronsberg:
The U.S showed up in Philippines and today they are a developed nation, they showed up in South Korea and they too are developed, showed up in Germany and guess what? developed it, what of Pueterico, Guam, Hawai, Panama e.t.c all developed. so whats your point again?

look at their history while comparing them to Nigeria you find out ur answer.

What's going on here? Is this a war thread!

immediately I get the chance.

ivyT:
*tears d fu*king CURTAINS immediately

Beautiful pics.

sunwa:
I walked out of a relationship of several years as a result of consistent lifestyle of infidelity of my Ex.

She was my first love and i did all a man could do to ensure she was happy at all times but she constantly cheats on me and at a point she eloped with another guy while we were planning for our traditional wedding and when she came back to her senses she thought she could find her way back to my heart but i shut it permanently against her.

This was after series of sexual escapades she has had with other guys which i later got to know.

Though i loved her and still do but because i could no longer trust her, which is incidentally one of the bedrock of any relationship i had to call of the relationship even after series attempt and appeal by friends and family for her comeback.

This was in 2012, with time the wound got partially healed and somehow we became friends against but this time around on a casual level.

In January 2015, she got married and i decided to respect her new status by cutting off completely from her to avoid any chances of having any immoral act with her.

Just last week she sent me a lady's picture on whassap whom she introduced as her friend and she informed me that she has discussed with about me and that the lady is interested in me and she is highly recommending her for marriage.

The said lady is cool, i have checked her out on her Facebook page and she got my pass mark but i have my reservations, I don't trust my EX, i fear she may have an ulterior motive, till date she regrets that we didn't get married even when she was engaged to her husband she went to confront a girl I was seeing and really messed up things.

Please i need your honest advice, I'm not seeing anyone for now and the lady she recommended looks good, do i go ahead and key in or should i decline "the offer", as they say " birds of a feather flock together". Is she planning to play a fast one on me ( a revenge mission).

Please, what do I do?

Thank you.

My guy looking good doesn't mean being good. Being beautiful doesn't mean being pretty. They are all different. I think she got a motive because of what she is doing. I think its better to look for a girl on ur own rather than dating her friend. She might later keep intruding into your life till u discover its late. Nonetheless if u are to go for her friend be careful and try to know her well before during anything stupid remember that everyone has a past, a secret we are afraid to divulge. But also remember to deal with ur ex because she will somehow be a threat to ur affair

lastpage:
Well since they are "backing Jonathan" with their eyes closed, l hope he wins...... and appoint more of the likes of "Stealer" Oduah into his Government.

But if Jonathan looses, l dont want to hear them whinning and moaning about how they were marginalised o!
They are the ones spreading very bad rumours about Buhari now, they are also the ones, with their "inept Otuoke Master", insulting Yorubas.

"If" and when APC/Buhari wins, where are they going to hide their face?
We might even have to consider "Residence Card" for them to live, work or trade in Yorubaland; ..they got it coming!
I want to see the MIRACLE that would make the number of Igbos in Nigeria, GREATER THAN the number of Yorubas and Hausas, COMBINED!

Small time now, they will be begging for Vice President and asking us to "zone" Presidency to them!

Why Alaigbos dont "learn" or refuse to learn, is beyond me?
How can you continue to insult and harass your "HOST", everywhere you are found? Whether it is in the North or in the WEST?
Small time now, you will say they hate you and are killing you? Most of these hatreds, you "self-impose them" on yourselves.

If not that Yorubas are generally peace-loving, where will these Igbo people hide...... since their own Village is an anathema to them?

Lastpage!

I hope u can answer this questions with yes or no. Can you be called a bastard without firing back? Can u see ur right being violated without fighting for it?. Do u know the exact number of igbo in govt. Is GMB a saint? The truth is u are sadist who hate the igbo people. ______"If" and when APC/Buhari wins[/b], where are they going to hide their face?
We might even have to consider "Residence Card" for them to live, work or trade in Yorubaland; ..they got it coming! [/quote]. I beg use ur brain what do u think will happen?

viczing:
Like actions in Hollywood blockbusters, gunmen, which number could not be easily ascertained, on Friday morning raided a printing press in Shomolu area of Lagos State, carting away copies of a book on the administration of President Goodluck Jonathan.

Our correspondent gathered that the gunmen harassed the printers and took away copies of the book, entitled Two-Faced Jonathan: 100 Reasons Why Jonathan Must Go, authored by Blessing Agbomhere.

Workers in the printing press who were too  frightened, could not ask questions or confront the gun-wielding men suspected to be security operatives.

Speaking to journalists on the development, Agbomhere said the book was scheduled for launch at the Nigerian Union of Journalists (NUJ) Secretariat in Lagos, before the incident.

Agbomhere, who is also the initiator of Change Ambassador of Nigeria (CAN), said, “This book was being printed in Shomolu and I was told that the book that was to be launched today (Saturday) was taken away after someone within the printing press, who has sympathy for the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP), alerted security operatives about it.

“They came and confiscated all the printed copies of the book.  They came in mufti.

“We don’t know the arm of security agency that they belong to, or whether they are private individuals or not.

“The printers had to immediately release the books to them, because, they were heavily armed. I am not owing them. I have already paid them.”

Agbomhere added that the book mirrors Jonathan as a “President of the cabal, Tompolo, Asari-Dokubo and a few other corrupt elements, who are sponsoring Boko Haram to destroy Nigeria’s unity.

“The book says President Jonathan has failed to defend the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria and as such should not seek re-election or ask for a job he know he doesn’t have the capacity to do,” he said.

The author dared Jonathan to act on the Nigeria National Petroleum Corporation (NNPC) forensic audit report and bring those indicted by the report to book.

Also speaking, Ibilola Essien, a social entrepreneur with Act Now Nigeria, a non-governmental organisation, said the present administration has not done enough to salvage the country from the many problems besieging it.

According to her, poverty and corruption have continued to soar, while insecurity in the North East has claimed over 15,000 lives since 2009.


http://dailyindependentnig.com/2015/02/gunmen-storm-lagos-press-confiscate-book-jonathan/

The writer is a jackass full of party loyalty why can't he/she write about the other contestant to show us their picture by being honest in order to prevent the electorate from drifting from the right part.

jaelz:
yes i am o

no comment then.

Its good to be jealous, but when it becomes excess it becomes bad.

habbey143:
GOOD DAY
Please have been dating this girl for 3 years now and i never planned to disflower her but from the beginning of this year she no longer has respect for me she gives guys her number and tell me she cant stop talking to them and each time we fight she doesnt bother calling cos her mind will be like she has nothing to lose....have planned to marry her thats why i didnt disflower her not that i dont have the chance but with this her new character am planning to bang the hell out of her and move on but i love her so much, each time i want to talk to her about it she wont bother to listen and she only comes to my place when cash is involve or gift when shes not olosho mind you shes just 19 now and you should imagine the time and energy have invested in this relationship..her parent knows me well but wont talk fact into her head so please if disflower her and break up have i done anything wrong cos shes ready to do the same too without looking back cos i didnt disflower her

your age will determine my advice.

prettythicksme:
we broke up cos i cheated on him despite that he still want me till date but its too late!

Most honest of all

vivaciouzz:
I just dunno y..hez very Ok,cute,got nice body,got a bright future,hez intelligent n hardworking, hez a good cook..hez got all I ever wanted in a man..yet I broke up with him

sorry

Are u joking! That's nemesis. You got two options (1) keep the pregnancy and face the disgrace, after giving birth do a DNA test for the child to know the father. (2) abortn

Are u serious?

Watch korean season films

madjune:
GEJ is easy crap my feet.
Can you list jonathan's achievements in 6yrs in office?
Next thing you will do is to show me trains.

Is your life any better than it was 6yrs ago?

Be frank and don't politicize your answer.

Are u an alien! Where have u been? So u think he didn't achieve anything. Hope u are gud at mathematics lol . What's the probability that your life will be better during GMB reign than GEJ reign. Apart from those progress u have made on ur own. keep dreaming.

Talk to her about it. If there isn't a solution,u either run or face the consequence