₦airaland Forum

TimiofAbuja:
You be simp...... teenage girls

What makes him a simp?? Do you guys even know the words you throw around.

If you are concerned about the old cargoes, hes leaving them for you and your likes.

Famous606:
you are a paedophile but you don't know yet , honestly change such mentality

You people like throwing words around.

As long as hes with ladies within the age of consent as stipulated by the law.

He is no pedophile. In Nigeria , the legal consent age is 18.

A 30 or 40 years old man being with an 18 or 19 years old lady is no pedophile.

Stop throwing words around you know nothing about.

The game might be brutal but its fair still.

Enough of this dumbness

spiceadole:
Weak man= Peace of Mind.
I'm really lucky, you are right.
It's not easy to be married to a Nigerian man for years and be happy.
Keep shaking your head while I'm enjoying my weak husband whose weakness gives me peace.
We have 3 children.. I have fulfilled my obligation.
Sex is not food

A blind husband is a good husband. Enjoy your beta

kiddaz:
I would say he probably deserves the suffering cos no way he didn't see the signs from the onset but some guys would still go ahead for whatever reasons only to suffer the consequences later

When I bumped into this thread and stumbled on her comment and how proud she was displaying she married a weak man. I shook my head in disappointment.



Women naturally are highly sexual beings. A woman in her pure state that loves a man, will Fvck the shit out of him. Only his presence makes her wet.

But here you can see this married woman as she said she is, weaponizing sex to a so called husband. Lol. I don’t pity the man. Shes lucky she married a pushover.

NO WIFE OF MINE WILL TRY SUCH WITH ME.

Imagine your wife coming out to say such trash and boldly for that matter.

Puke

This is so vogue really. List of medicines? For real? Do you know how many medicines there is?

What of Agbo Jedi and Dogoyaro? Abi those ones no be medicine?

Solofresh2:
You guys are funny actually 😅
The fact that a lady is a virgin does not mean she is faithful and chasty by default.You can only be faithful and chasty on condition but that is another topic on it's own.A virgin lady might not be exposed to life early.Which might increase the chances of her virginity but,it doesn't mean she is chasty and faithful by default.
By the way, the lady who is not a virgin now was once a virgin too.If you marry and disvirgined a lady with bad character, her bad character remains but her virginity is gone.So tell me,if you can't withstand her character anymore and you left each other, will she have sex with another man or not 😏
She may even cheat in the marriage with you sef.
See,I support marrying a virgin 💯 but not a lady with a bad character

Read the post you quoted to digest before replying. I dislike people that read to respond instead of to understand.


I even made it easier for you, yet understanding is oblivious of you.

I will come briefly again,

A VIRGIN WITH BAD ATTITUDE IS STILL A BETTER CHOICE THAN A NON VIRGIN WITH BAD ATTITUDE.

same way,

A VIRGIN WITH GOOD ATTITUDE IS A BETTER CHOICE THAN A NON VIRGIN WITH GOOD ATTITUDE.

I hope this is easier to understand now?

emperor4love:
Stop been rational and double standard, the ones you messed up, you leaving it for who, last how about girl who lost there virginity to rape , or should you guy go around asking ladies are you a virgin I want to marry a virgin lol

I will school you further. It’s high time we start seeing ladies as grown up adults and not some kids that are oblivious of their acts.

When you say “the ones you messed up, you leaving it for who”. What do you mean?

If a virgin 18+ decides to lose her virginity on account of love or relationship, she made her decision and should be held responsible for it.
Nobody “messed” her up…. Dead that mentality.

Aside rape, any lady that loses her virginity willingly has herself to blame. Stop making excuses for grown up adult ladies. They are not kids.

I will add this as a bonus.

Same way a POOR LADY has the right to set a standard to get married to rich men only (When she is obviously poor). That’s normal in the society. And guys like you will applaud them. I doubt you will give excuses for the men such ladies might have deceived or even scammed of their hard end money all in the name of a relationship.


But, a fellow man like you can’t set a standard to get married to a virgin lady only.
To you, he dare not. After all, is he a virgin?

But, is the poor girl wanting only a rich man rich too??

Now you see your folly?

Solofresh2:
He is wrong.Virginity does not make a good woman.Those ladies who are rude, jealous has anger issues or aggressive her even hard to deceive before disvirgining them

Virginity amongst other criteria makes a good wife. For a lady to keep herself as a virgin, that shows faithfulness and chastity.


I don’t know why you guys always make virginity synonymous to bad character.

Same way a virgin can be rude, toxic, its same way a non virgin can be.

Bringing a virgin with bad character and a non virgin with bad character, THE VIRGIN IS STILL THE BETTER CHOICE.

So, don’t compare a virgin with bad character to a non virgin with “good” character according to you.

The right comparison is a virgin with good character and a non virgin with good character who would you rather pick??


Another better comparison.

A virgin with bad character and a non virgin with bad character who would you pick?

The mic is urs

gammarays:
It takes character, manners to remain a virgin in our generation

Thank you for schooling him.

To tell you how messed up the country is.
Imagine marking 8 years in captivity as if na wedding anniversary

This calls for concerns.
Are there not more qualified personnels?

All of una no serious.

Nobody gives a fůck about this dude in Nigeria.
If him like make the hair turn to Sambisa Forest. Even Boko Haram no go send him papa. Na Borno them sabi

Pacyrus:
Lucky you, dear. 😢

How is she lucky? Na she build am?

illicit:
Do you go for girls that kind of have advantages over u?

Like richer than u

Then i will advise you to date lower than yoirself

If the richer girls are rejecting my advances cos they feel im “less”. Why are you advising me to settle for less then?

Hello my Nairaland Folks and Pals. Im writing this with so much hurt and pain in my heart. Another girl I just met says she prefers we just be friends because she has a guy in her life but she wouldn’t mind coming around still.

Even the ones that says they don’t have a man, still rejects my advances of a relationship, rather still come to give me the cookie jar.

If I was younger, would be fun. But, at this age, I want real connection. Im not rich, but Im trying. I have some good days and bad. But, I believe I can take care of a serious partner. Its sad always getting tossed aside when you feel you have what it takes to be the main boyfriend.

Is there anyone else going through this? Is there anyway to change my status? I need help and advice pls
Pansophist


help for wider opinion please

Daniel058:
What does she do for a living that she needed a service of a JuJu man ?

We both know what she does. But, lets all form ignorant

Dogalmighty17:
Haba! I can imagine the Nigerian police doing any other dastardly thing but to be in boxers as an officer on duty? What is this? Do they select for madness before employing into the NPF?

You need a touch of madness to be able to police a country like Nigeria

What was the “L” for? Quite confused

Mariangeles:
How Lagos people enjoy their roast plantain, aka boli.

Egghnhnnnnmkkkkkkkkkuttttrt

38 years old this year. I still never understand Nigeria till date

800? Thats quite a small number giving the fact that most Electricity company workers are highly mediocre and nothing to write home about. Thank goodness they are finally sent home

I no day spend shi shi. Even when I manage go church, Im not moved to put offering or Tithe. I still get poor family members

Day play.
Them say 14 characters needed

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Na so Nebuchadnezzar think say he was favored by his god until he start to chop grass

Lol
This is child abuse. Nothing you want tell me again

How can a young man find a good woman to marry in the midst of such rots??


OAM4J Mynd44 Rocktation Nlfpmod Seun Dominique lalasticlala help for wider opinion please

Somebody that is not ashamed to show your wife what God has blessed him with in your presence will certainly do worse in your absence


If you wife gets pregnant 4 months after farming there, your guess is as good as mine

Dzzzz:
Gbola size does not matter to a virgin but you see those oil well ladies na them go Dey find T-Rex gbola to fit for drilling..A lady wey done get 25body count go still Dey tell you what to do and how to behave,Abeg make una Dey play..I’ll take a virgin over them oil well..

“A lady wey done get 25body count go still Dey tell you what to do and how to behave”. Na this one day wound me pass bro.

For real Men day suffer. Government, women, society everybody day kick us around. Its crazy being a man out here bro

SpencerForbes:
September is still far. Anything can happen. HML in advance.

😂😂😂. For real bro. Anything can happen from now till September. I will advise him not to be overtly happy and loud from what Im seeing.