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Is this God Abeg?? Or God Forbid?

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Kinikini:
No issues. Just a little stuff I wanted to inquire about.

Ok. What could that be please?

Kinikini:
We know how it rolls. In 8yrs, we will queue behind a president of Nigeria of Northern extraction. Agreement is agreement. No shaking.

Boss. I saw your mail. Hope all is good?

I feel so sad and devastated. Why are ladies treating good men like this

Today, I had to borrow money from 3 different loan app because im meeting a new girl today.

Luckily, we met and had our date and I spent roughly 45k I borrowed from loan app and still gave her 5k for pocket money and yet, she refused to follow me home.

Im home now, lying in bed alone and sad.

Hook up 7k, but I spent 50k today because i wanted to build soul connection. yet I gained nothing. Absolutely nothing. Not even sex and im now in debt, broke like a church rat and no woman to console me. I feel scammed.

Im in a dilemma. help please.

I was the one that did it not someone.
I just had to borrow money from 3 different loan app because im meeting a new girl today.

Luckily, we met and I spent the whole 50k I borrowed from loan app and yet, she refused to follow me home.

Im lying in bed now alone and sad. Hook up 7k, but I spent 50k today yet no sex and im broke now like a church rat now

Omo

I haven’t been feeling fine cos of malaria and typhoid since on Wednesday so I took Thursday and today off from work. Being sick and a bachelor, I’ve been craving things especially goat meat pepper soup but I have no one to prepare it for me amidst my sickness. So, I had to take the bull by the horn.

I wrote down a list and went to the market to buy things for goat meat pepper soup. Before leaving the house, I realized my female neighbor was at home, so I thought it was a good time to reciprocate her generosity so, I went to the market having her in mind.

Im done cooking now so i want to surprise her with my delicacy. I have dished her own share and im taking it to her now. Im thinking of adding malt too. Well, I hope she likes it.

I understand your concerns. And I’ll love to tell you that, sorry Oga.

Men don’t get or receive love or gifts unconditionally only Children, Women and Dogs (Pets in general) receive such luxury.

Toughen up and stop hoping or praying to be weak. You already said its a tough time for you.
So,

FIX UP!

Just this morning, my female neighbor brought this Oha Soup for me after I apologized to her yesterday over our last fracas. (I brought a girl home, and we had an issue.).

Please note, I have no entanglements with this my neighbor as im not sexually attracted to her even though she’s single and I am too.

I have started eating already, as this is my breakfast to work this morning.

Stupid lies

garriAndsugar:
My guy still dey collect free food🤣

I don’t know how to tell her to stop because she’s my next door neighbor and she can access me almost at will and she knows im single and been hinting marriage even to her hearing.

But, im not sexually attracted to her even when she wear skimpy dresses and I have never made any advances.

Please help. Im in a big Dilemma.

The single spinster who is my neighbor brought food for me again last night, but left angrily with the food after knocking and noticing there was a girl in the room with me.

I just greeted her this Sunday Morning, and she ignored my greeting.

Do you think i owe her an apology? What do I do? Does she have any rights to be angry with me cos she overheard another woman in my room? Please help

Im in a dilemma. help please.
OAM4J Mynd44 Rocktation Nlfpmod Seun Dominique lalasticlala help for wider opinion please

Nothing like that.
Stop putting fear in people”s mind. It’s our biological obligation to have plenty sex as much as we can

From my past posts, you can see that I have been welcoming of different ladies with different interests. Im a young man still in his prime.
Lately, the thoughts of marriage has beclouded my thoughts and reasonings. So, I decided to be entertaining of different girls. Luckily, I found a virgin.

A 19 yrs old 300L student in a federal university studying Micro Biology. A very modest girl with a strict dad.
Talking about her virginity, I have confirmed it both from her words of mouth and while trying to do the do. she is a first class virgin (Done nothing in the past except kissing). We got talking months ago and I can firmly say she loves me and wants to have a serious relationship with me.

But, I have few concerns.

Should I commit to her? Being a young man looking to settle down in a year or two.

Being a virgin, do I have to agree she has a bright future? And won’t be a burden to me both financially and otherwise? As im not yet too financially buoyant.

Do I have any reasons to be scared in the near future that she might cheat? And want to taste what’s outside?

Should I invest in her? Both financially and otherwise as I have just been playing safe with her but she’s been showing me love and sacrifices.

Do I have anything to be scared of if her strict dad finds about my frolicking with his daughter?

Im in a dilemma. help please.
OAM4J Mynd44 Rocktation Nlfpmod Seun Dominique lalasticlala help for wider opinion please

For two weeks now, my next door neighbor who is a young single lady has been constantly bringing different meals for me after cooking.
Please note: I have never asked her for food before, as I cook at home and enjoy doing my things myself.

The second time she brought me a meal she wore a skimpy dress. I didn’t mind tho, I just told her she is a very good cook and I enjoyed the first meal. Since then, she’s been bringing different dishes to me now. Sometimes she even calls to know if im back from work that she’s cooking something.

Also note, I have never given her any money for this meals she’s been giving me.

My question now is, should I continue eating? do I have anything to be scared of? Could there be another motives behind this her kindness? Or maybe im over thinking?

Advise please.

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Yes. I have. Was at my place of work. And I didn’t have access then to get funds for petrol as it was running really late. So I parked the car there at the office only to come back the next morning to realize my battery has been stolen. (I was told to remove my battery before going home, but I refused).

The thief even slacked my booth. It pops open whenever I climb a bump now.

I will try to be brief as possible.

I met this girl earlier this year, and I asked her out but she declined ( first of the two girls that has declined my advances this year). Well, her reason for declining is cos she has a bf. But she still comes to visit and we make out and i also support her financially whenever she comes around or calls.

About a week or two, I’ve been noticing a slight change in her attitude, whenever she comes around, she tries to be homely. She now sweeps, tidy the restroom and even keep the kitchen in order. Now, these things, she doesn’t do before. Before now, when she visits, we get food outside, watch TV and just have sex and she leaves.
She’s now saying im a Handsome guy and 3 days ago, she asked, IF I NOW HAVE A GF?
But I told her my dating life is complicated….. I didn’t bother asking about her BF.

Now the issue is, she’s trying to limit the sex and replace it with home duties. But, I prefer the sex. She came around yesterday and I made advances and she rejected saying if its everytime she comes we’ll have sex. Can’t she just visit me. I got vexed.

I need advice.
What can i do? Is it wrong to always have sex whenever she comes to visit?
Should I accept her as my GF? Or ask her to stop visiting?

Help for wider opinion please

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I thought they were in prison?

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If you use that type of plate and serve me, I will never eat it!! If you like cook heaven. I’ll use the pepper and swear for you.

Foolish girl.

Sad

waynetee:
What else do you want after sex?

Serious committed relationship that can lead to marriage.

Im sincerely confused and will go straight to the point.

I met this girl about a year back, fair, pretty and hardworking. I could tell from where i met her. We got talking and all that, but then we just stopped talking along the line but still having each other number and viewing status. This went on for about 8 months.

Just about 3 weeks back, the thoughts of her occupied my mind, so i texted and ask us to hangout. And we did..  I wanted to do it the traditional way, so I asked her out that day, that I wanted her to be my girlfriend.

She was surprised cos we was not talking for months and now all of a sudden, I want her to be my GF. So, she said she would think about it and it's been 2 weeks now and she hasn't given me an official YES or NO.


Just few days ago, I invited her over to my crib and she came, spent the night... Wow. And we had a hot night... sěx inclusive...


So, I'm confused, is the sèx an indirect yes? And i can start my boyfriend duties? Or i should keep waiting for an official yes?


Mynd44  OAM4J Mynd44 Rocktation Nlfpmod Seun Dominique lalasticlala help for wider opinion please

Suckling my diick every morning, afternoon and night.

To be sincere. I do alot with it. Sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night to observe which part of her body I’ll explore first before I make moves.

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