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Akebulan:
I'd say thesame. It sounds to me more like a battlefield than a loving relationship. Please, it isnt that difficult. If you're having to decide which is the fool and which one rules, you're certainly not in a loving relationship.

In a loving relationship, you've got enough respect for each other to let the little things go,  to NOT stress the small stuff,  to let go of control,  and embrace your confidence within yourself and with your love.

I mean by all means, stand your ground when you have to but most times, you'll find that all there really is worth fighting for, is your love for that person, and nothing else.

doyin13:
You have to go into a relationship at your cynical best.

Always assume your partner is up to no good.

You have to train him or her to be on their toes. Sort of like puppy training

Never relent oo. . .

Frankly, if you examine your relationship and can't identify which one of you is
the mumu, then you are a mumu.

Hope this helps.

eina:
After all the years of keeping her virginity proudly, she never knew it was all for a rapist. Its a pity.