₦airaland Forum

nkemmu: eyaah see aspiring made man.bushman.wealthy men dont talk like this woman

lol sorry I can't rant words with u cos am more than that but from the way u talk u definitely lack so real home training...was reading ur other thread abt how I've been dumped by ever man who I've dated, I can clearly tell why now...all u need is some counseling cos if u need 2 settle down u need 2 learn how 2 be in a relationship cos ur mouth doesn't do u any good. A word is a enough for the wise, the earlier the better.

dasparrow: What have you done to positively impact your immediate environment and the world at large order than to secure a screw partner by signing the dotted lines and make babies that tomorrow will probably grow up to become 419 scammers, looting politicians, pedophiles, .pros/titutes in Italy, aristo babes, .rap.ists and whatever else many Nigerians are known for globally?

I have told you amebo Nigerians to stop minding other people's darn business. When the good Lord created the institution known as marraige, He did not need to consult Nigerians. When God created marraige, it was not meant for you people to force people into it. There is no happiness in a forced relationship. There are many women who did marry but are alone now because the average life expectancy of a Nigerian is 52 years. Many Nigerian women don't even get to enjoy their husbands because most Nigerian men don't live long.

Stop acting as if marraige is the solver of all problems. Nigerian men like you make so much noise about marraige and then once you are married you become heartless, insensitive, lazy, abusive husbands to these ladies. Go to the family section and see some 9 months pregnant married Nigerian woman complaining bitterly about how her husband does not help her around the house and how her husband has forsaken her emotional needs as a woman.

As far as I am concerned, unless a Nigerian lady chooses to marry an oyibo man or a man from another culture where women are respected, she misses absolutely nothing not being married to a Nigerin bred male. The way you Nigerian bred males treat your women is pathetic. You people throw the woman out of her matrimonial home if she cannot conceive. Many of you marry a second wife if the first wife keeps birthing female babies. When you die, your wicked family members come and take everything you and your wife ever worked for throwing your surving wife and children into a state of sudden abject poverty.

Many Nigerian bred males like you are chuvinists and Nigerian women are gradually becoming wise and realizing that it is more of a curse rather than a blessing marrying the average Nigerian bred male. This is why Nigerin bred men like you result to emotional blackmail with your stupid annonymous letter to Nigerian ladies. Why don't you also write an annonymous letter to the many married Nigerian big men who carry ashawos and university girls all over the place and then come back and infect their wives with all sorts of STDs/STIs? Why don't you write a letter to all the Nigerian bred males who are married yet .ra.pe and .sexuall.y abuse toddlers and underage young teenagers living under their roofs or in their neighborhoods?

Stop being a bloody hypocrite and go and focus on your family and marraige and stop telling people how to live their lives. Typical obnoxious chuvinist Nigerian!

Wow ur in the wrong section.... I don't know were ur from but seriously Nigerians have more successful marriages than any western country....so if u couldn't keep ur marriage due 2 u weren't good enough I don't know who's 2 blame than coming here and venting ur anger on us

Kingsleyinfo: Really?
If u think this is a nice write up, then Nigeria must be the most developed country in the world.....
If ladies are to take a cue from this write up I wonder where guys would be taking a cue from...

Why do we like blaming others for our own incompetence...?

The worst part is I don't just get ur point of argument cos that's an open letter, it never said ladies should marry poor guys.

Hahaha nkemumu.....for ur info me don marry ooo but the letter na for babes like u always feeling funky like say dem don arrive....talking abt making money, am made already

Well if plan A no work plan B worked for those 7 lol

nkemmu: Men sef una don see ladies finish.wetin?must every lady marry?nah una dey picture des marriage like say nah heaven.now even ten year old gal won marry because of the way men dem dey yap spinters wey nova marry.the ones wey marry sm just won fulfil righteousness no be say dem happy for der.wetin?make una see life outside marriage nah!aaah!! See how ladies dey trow derselvs on men cos dey won marry.desperation everywere.children pregnancy everywer no be adult again.haba e don do abeg.we get oda aspects to in life aside marriage nah.our children no dey read now.primary one piki won get boyfriend same to the small boys.none won invent new tins or theories for life.una no dey see inteligent oyibo children?even if dem don spoil but dem get sometin for their brain. relationship everywere...we get technology,fashion,entreprenuer,carreer etc to improve on.no be only marriage nw aby dey go carry the husband go heaven?i don dey vex seffff.mcheeew!lazy marriage obsessed nigerians.

Dey there dey deceive urself...abeg if u wanna die a spinster die alone and don't involve ur friends cos ppl like u can influence friends negatively

AmBeautiful: agreed! but you guys self no dey try!

how the guys no dey try??

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Letter To Nigerian Ladies

Dear ladies, Firstly, if you are still struggling to find a husband at an old age it's simply because you are looking for a perfect man. Something might be wrong with you. Now, check your propaganda

Magazine tells you that 'All men are liars, cheats and useless, but let’s be honest here, which is more likely? Is it that there’s something wrong with about 70million African men OR there is something wrong with one African Woman? You Ladies certainly will not get into a blissful matrimony if u re always hanging out with your so call girlfriends every night at a beer palour or bar waiting for a guy to buy you a drink & take you home afterwards. Drinking yourself to stupor every Friday & Saturday night does not exactly make you look like a marriage material. You want a man?...invest in a good wardrobe & dress responsibly not like a mad person.

When a man comes to you, smile & be polite, even if he does not fit your mental image of ur kind of man. Ladies, stop coming to relationship with a chip on your shoulder. If you believe all men are bad & all men are Dogs, then it will become a self fulfilling prophesy. No man is perfect! You say you can't marry a blue collar guy like a mechanic or carpenter, Now if a carpenter was good enough to marry Mary mother of the Jesus Christ, why isn't one good enough for you?

Do not focus on where a man is now, but look and see where he has the potentials to be. Wat’s the point of being beaten to a pulp every night by some rich, good looking and non caring man? Do u want a future where you will sit in a traffic in your BMW X6, GUCCI sunglasses covering your swollen eyes and u look out of d window and see a happy couple in a keke napep holding hands and laughing like newly wedded couple even after 12 years of marriage.

Please don’t fake pregnancy or get pregnant to trap him, e no dey work again joor! Ur perfect man is out there, believe, work ƞ pray and you will get him.

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3rd world war go start from 9ja

Still the world fastest man

Hmmm.mmm.

Caracta: And the moral lesson is...?

fu ck and run lwkmd

Well @ op, u were just a stage in her life....guess she don pass ur level lol time 2 move on boy..

Lwkmd....weda I propose or she propose as long as someone is kneeling down, wedding don happen

chucky234: This is miracle,a blessing in disguise if you ask me.
Those guys were been groomed to manage our resources and that would been a nemesis,imagine militants in control of oil and gas sector.
Thank God the T & T govt realised on time the grave danger Nigeria would have been in the hands of the dreaded militants,this call for celebration.

I dey tell u ooo....imagine giving fish 2 rat 2 manage.
Real blessing in disguse

27naira: who is more stu[i]p[/i]id, the poster or the moderator that brought this to frontpage ?

I think the moderator is

So finally afghan leftovers have found its way into tue north.....make Dem no carry this thing near east abeg, boko kill urself by una self

LOL MTN gives nothing free

Ndi igbo kwenu....abum nwafor igbo

lmao....well all dem girls wanna look prettyfake so they can get the dudes attention but when the dude comes she starts forming hard 2 get. at the end of the day na dem go still lose

well the guy found a woman he loves weda old or young all that matters is the love and all dem girls haters are here killing themselves

i just wonder why our christian brodas in the north dont heed 2 warnings

manu was danm lucky, guess they came for a draw