muymacho:
Ken711 OP what is the update? Have you given her the money?

Hmmm bro, I haven't oo..but the girl came to my house with uber...Couldn't chase her away....It's been about 3 days now.......Still figuring out what to do...even If i give her the money, na break up straight.........No happiness can come out of it.

Moogurisar:
This whole thing sounds just awful. I'm really sorry you had to go through all this. Unfortunately, there are such cruel people in the world who want to use you. It's better for you if you learn to recognize them and their motives at once. Because that's the kind of people you'll meet in your life. So take care of yourself before you meet another girl like that.

Amen bro.

RealEzee:
Oh wow, guy u don overdo am ooo
Just call it off, it's enough, date within ur level na, better babes plenty for area guun, they will appreciate you guun, you sef go get peace of mind, I sure this babe neva spend her hard earned money on you sef, guy man up and call it off stay away from such girls oooo.
My guy here dey even pity u, ur matter reach to call NCDC on you oo

Bro, your comment has truly touched a nerve in me. I'll listen to you bro..even though today she has been calling, even as I am writing.

I just have to move on.

Kingsteve:
Somebody hold me before I blast pellets into this OP's cranium, with my locally made Awka made gun.

Jesus!! my brother, I'm from awka ooo...wow...I know say I done Bleep up...this morning she is calling me asking for the bed and gas money...nawa oo.....even though it seems like I just threw my money away, in quieter moments in the relationship, we truly shared love...and understanding....I really needed someone to rely on, as I'm not a womaniser...I can only be with one woman at a time...I have a demanding job that requires total focus....I have never truly felt so much love for a woman before...even though I have dated girls from Lagos to London.....hmmm nawa

horlarwereleh:
You are still asking questions.
Seems you never understand what's going on.
Better break up with that Delilah and move on before you lose your life.
She is from the streets and she is definitely going back to the streets.

One last question, Did you rent the place in her name or yours?

"That was one smart decision I made, I did it in my name"

I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!