Deen112:
Firstly how old are you by the way and spending that kind of money on a lady you are not married or have kids with is unbelievable stupid. You dont sound like someone who works for a living. She almost broke your work laptop according to you. Mr man you are into fraud, come clean and good things of life would surely come to you.

LOOOOOL if he's earning enough I dont think spending 500k to get his girl an apartment is alot boss...
My child support a month is $700, and na legit work man dey do...

Give the gold digger one hot slap jare and put her outside all those girls sef....

Oh wow, guy u don overdo am ooo
Just call it off, it's enough, date within ur level na, better babes plenty for area guun, they will appreciate you guun, you sef go get peace of mind, I sure this babe neva spend her hard earned money on you sef, guy man up and call it off stay away from such girls oooo.
My guy here dey even pity u, ur matter reach to call NCDC on you oo

Stacyomolola:

I'll like to meet u for sth real

AskProf:


Pls, I need just 40,000naira. It would be a huge relief to me.

For those liking this comment, I'm very serious about it.

oxiide22:
I'll like to meet u for sth real

Dont wanna sound insultive but please stop mailing me and keep me off ur mentions, continue living in your fantasy world.

Oga leave that bitch. She Dey use u as maga

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you...look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.
From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of...Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. my spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......she even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her.....She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.


The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k....Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me.. ....would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k.....she even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user...my only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...please help!

RealEzee:
Oh wow, guy u don overdo am ooo
Just call it off, it's enough, date within ur level na, better babes plenty for area guun, they will appreciate you guun, you sef go get peace of mind, I sure this babe neva spend her hard earned money on you sef, guy man up and call it off stay away from such girls oooo.
My guy here dey even pity u, ur matter reach to call NCDC on you oo

Bro, your comment has truly touched a nerve in me. I'll listen to you bro..even though today she has been calling, even as I am writing.

I just have to move on.

Stacyomolola:

Dont wanna sound insultive but please stop mailing me and keep me off ur mentions, continue living in your fantasy world.

shalom!

Yuneehk:

Put yourself in their shoes. Would you go for a guy with good character but doesn't slay and do bling bling? Let him enjoy his trophy pretty babe.


See question o,i don't need slaying and bling bling o....Good character is everything,once you don't have body odour and you smell nice,i am okay. Wetin i wan use slay and bling bling do. Some people don't slay but they dress well and look good. Infact sometimes some guys are not all that facially but when you get to talk to them or hear them speak,they exude class.

He's even asking if to buy the rest of what she's demanding. I don't believe love can make anyone be this stvpid.

Hahaha my dear you are funny o

Yuneehk:

Put yourself in their shoes. Would you go for a guy with good character but doesn't slay and do bling bling? Let him enjoy his trophy pretty babe.

He's even asking if to buy the rest of what she's demanding. I don't believe love can make anyone be this stvpid.

See question o,i don't need slaying and bling bling o....Good character is everything,once you don't have body odour and you smell nice,i am okay. Wetin i wan use slay and bling bling do. Some people don't slay but they dress well and look good. Infact sometimes some guys are not all that facially but when you get to talk to them or hear them speak,they exude class.

Maybe cos u are ugly

Sixfeetbelle:
Seriously, which kain life be this?

Everyday on this forum is stories upon stories of men who spent excessively on their girlfriends and they weren't appreciative, while no one has spent #100 on me even with the huge appreciation gown I wear all the time. Like the Igbos say: breadfruit always falls for those who don't know how to enjoy it. This life sef

echibuogwu:
Maybe cos u are ugly

It's like you're correct ooh. Thank you, boss man

Lol. That was meant to b a joke.

Sixfeetbelle:


It's like you're correct ooh. Thank you, boss man

echibuogwu:
Lol. That was meant to b a joke.

I guess I missed the memo

Lol I won’t blame u for that... msgs don’t carry emotions but will u b kind enof to reply my PM

Sixfeetbelle:


I guess I missed the memo

echibuogwu:
Lol I won’t blame u for that... msgs don’t carry emotions but will u b kind enof to reply my PM

I would rather not, if you don't mind. Thank you

ken711:


Jesus!! my brother, I'm from awka ooo...wow...I know say I done Bleep up...this morning she is calling me asking for the bed and gas money...nawa oo.....even though it seems like I just threw my money away, in quieter moments in the relationship, we truly shared love...and understanding....I really needed someone to rely on, as I'm not a womaniser...I can only be with one woman at a time...I have a demanding job that requires total focus....I have never truly felt so much love for a woman before...even though I have dated girls from Lagos to London.....hmmm nawa

Guy end this stupid relationship bro, all this thing people are advising you yet you are falling deeper, this isn’t about love here but ask yourself what you have gained from the relationship, don’t make a grave mistake.

... ok. Have a nice day ahead

Sixfeetbelle:


I would rather not, if you don't mind. Thank you

ken711:




Bro, your comment has truly touched a nerve in me. I'll listen to you bro..even though today she has been calling, even as I am writing.

I just have to move on.

please do bro, you deserve to be happy na, which kind babe be that way go dey tax pass Sanwo-Olu yet she's not bringing anything to the table kwa?in her mind she think say you can't move on, by the time of go offline for months she go cry werhn
, I get one nice babe way be say if I call for 5 minutes it means alot to her imagine I carry 40k buy her gift omo she go write worship song for me be that na, babes way dey earn their own money are the best Abeg no let anyone deceive, some of them yeah fit get attitude ish but all na approach.

God bless chocolate for me ooo, lol
Tha babe too make sense.
Don't get it twisted we aren't in a relationship sef lol

I no know say some guys still dey jonz like this, seems this guy left his brain Abroad

Honestly, I don't like commenting on this kind of post. You're a big foil

Honestly, I don't like commenting on this kind of post but guy you're a big fool.

Don't you have a friend or anyone you confide in?

So, you should become a fool because you schooled in abroad or what are you insinuating about schooling abroad.


You better brace up, grow up & be a man

Let her know the kind of stuff you're made of, next time she try such stupid act with you

Cindy222:


See question o,i don't need slaying and bling bling o....Good character is everything,once you don't have body odour and you smell nice,i am okay. Wetin i wan use slay and bling bling do. Some people don't slay but they dress well and look good. Infact sometimes some guys are not all that facially but when you get to talk to them or hear them speak,they exude class.

You've said it all. Nothing else to add, babe.
You're asking what you'll use bling for? Once some people see you pack chain for neck like dog, they'll start being on your matter oh.

babyfaceafrica:
my only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...please help!


If you pay for any other thing.... I will tell amadioha, Sango and Thor to deal with you.. You never learn your lesson.. This type of gals that ritualist are looking for.. Nansense and ingredient

Pls complete what you have started being your fiancé, òdè. You're yet to wake up from your slumber

Tilèkün àsedànù dìndìnrìn òshì( shut the door of your wastage towards her)

chai why I no be woman to meet this kind guy
chai

babyfaceafrica:
my only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...please help!


If you pay for any other thing.... I will tell amadioha, Sango and Thor to deal with you.. You never learn your lesson.. This type of gals that ritualist are looking for.. Nansense and ingredient

Those people you are calling are too small!
Send the while gods after him maybe then he will have sense!

ken711:




"That was one smart decision I made, I did it in my name"

Finally you did something sensible (I must say the only sensible thing you did). Get her out of the apartment and sublet the apartment to another person.

You did not try at all I must say, she has opened office on your head. LEAVE the girl, count your loss and sublet the apartment.

MODIFIED: Don't say you want to keep her and use her I can assure you she will be the one to CONTINUE using you.

I just don’t know why some girls can’t know or appreciate good guys why they meet them.

xxxtedyxxx:
I swear I for like to insult you , but lemme just chill.

Haven't you heard about the term "investment"?

The one who invests less is the one who is in control of the relationship.

You are investing too much, financially, assenting to every requests of hers, while she does nothing- hence, giving her full control of the relationship.

Don't ever venture into a relationship where you will be the one doing everything, putting all the effort just to make things work, while the other person, just sits down and watch.


You be Confirm Maga

Wake up Man.

E go too pain you when she eventually dump you.


Ditch the girl.

But the guy dey port hole na

ken711:


...my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user...my only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...please help!

Transfer the balance to me. I need to change some household appliances.

ken711:


Jesus!! my brother, I'm from awka ooo...wow...I know say I done Bleep up...this morning she is calling me asking for the bed and gas money...nawa oo.....even though it seems like I just threw my money away, in quieter moments in the relationship, we truly shared love...and understanding....I really needed someone to rely on, as I'm not a womaniser...I can only be with one woman at a time...I have a demanding job that requires total focus....I have never truly felt so much love for a woman before...even though I have dated girls from Lagos to London.....hmmm nawa

You are not serious. This is the rubbish that happens when you focus on beauty, to the detriment of good character