₦airaland Forum

hkidola00:
ur last statement, OK so u plan to marry a girl, so just cos ur not married yet means she can hoe around or flirt as she likes, what if she contracts something bad in d process now and later passes it to d guy later in marriage,i feel u have to lord over a girl also in dating oo, so wot can u say to this?

TonyeBarcanista:
The suit will be thrown out.

The Constitution says a public/civil servants should resign at least 30 days to the day of election - Note: Election processes begin with Primary incase you don't know the process of electioneering. Fayemi's resignation was before June 14 (election is July 14). It didn't say "30 Days before party primary election".

Secondly, the issue of "APC Guidelines" there is a Committee that was setup by the party to clear the aspirants and there is something called "waiver" in party politics. The Committee clearance report has taken care of that, however, the party could again come out and say Fayemi was granted waiver.

Why did Izunazo and others members of APC NWC recontest their positions without resigning as written in the constitution? - Is NWC public/civil servants? NWC are duly elected, that is why a Governor/senator can contest for a position even while still in office

On the judicial panel indictment, unfortunately, the Supreme Court has held that only a court can convict not a panel.

Ooops, my position is actually to contribute my own little olodo knowledge to the forum and not to speak for party. Who dem EPP?

CASTOSVILLA:
A blogger with this kind of grammatical blunder is not fit to be one. check your title please.

buske:
I have been dating this girl, since after my graduation from the university three years ago. Prior to that we've were very close friends.

Our relationship has been the type where we know very much about each other. we talk about everything. We practically know each other in and out.

She's the very soft time, in the sense that she finds it hard to say no or shout at people irrespective of what they've done. To give you a picture of what I'm talking about, with a very confusing episode...a man once collected her phone and practically walked away with it in broad daylight without any form of resistance. Another episode; The other day, after waiting for about 5 months to get the complete amount to purchase a phone, she took the whole sum and gave it to a person she hardly knows and we've been looking for him ever since.

While I'm the analytical type of person. This has its own downsides too as atimes, I tend not to know when to just let things go.

Okay..Let me give you the main gist of what transpired so you can tell me if I could have reacted or done things better or it wasn't my fault.

So yesterday, she called me and was like "emmh..baby, can you give me Rev. David's number, I want to pass it to a friend who needs spiritual counseling" (Rev
David is my bossom friend who just got out of the Seminary, They two are hardly acquainted due to obvious reasons.) "aaah... I should give you Rev. David's number??...Wait who is the person?...doesn't he/she have a church/pastor he/she can go to?" I was perplexed by the request. Since we share a lot, I was expecting at least an overview of the reason for the request. My girlfriend became defensive instead," Are you giving me the number or not? ".. At this point, my interest is hightened. So I ask her to at least give me minor details about the person or the situation at hand. It became a drag and led to a slight argument. She got angry and for the first time in many years..cut the call on me.

"aaaah....what is the problem, what is making this girl get all worked up like this?" I called and called back but she didn't pick up. I was mad and confused.
Now, like I said at the beginning, besides the fact that we talked about everything...she is also the type that can easily be defrauded. So this made me put up guard and she is ignited my interest in the case by her dodgy attitude.

So I sent her a text, giving her one last chance to pick my call and threatened to never call again if she failed to. So she called!

After dragging the issue for long and lying(something she's never done) here and there. I got to find out that it was about a guy whom I was suspecting she was having an affair with. (she never knew I was suspecting her though because I never showed it. I was looking for the perfect time to make a case)

I was mad!

After dropping the call. She texted me. Disclaiming having an affair with him, telling me that he had made her promise that it should be just between them.

See...This is a girl that tells me everything about her friends...from the friend who just had an abortion, to the one who almost had her womb removed, to the one whose parents are quarreling, to the one cheating on her boyfriend and so on. Why was this case so special that I couldn't even get a hint??.

I replied, telling her that I never believed her and told her I wasn't going to call her again and that she shouldn't bother calling me. Next thing I know, she turns it on me, accusing me of breaking up with her over the phone. She had repeated this accusation in the past. So I told her that since she's so 'eager' about us breaking up over the phone, her prayers had finally been answered today..I didn't reply any messages henceforth.

Now I'm confused, I don't know what to make out of this episode.