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Opytim:
@Op, this is a great piece of letter. But where is the one for the females? Or are we not entitled to one also?.....

I already posted dat d link is on this thread since yesterday

Sagamite:
Moderators, please can you move this senseless, moronic junk to the Religion section on NL.

anoda demented being, religion extremist

Thanks fr all d appreciation towards my post God bless y'all

vivalavida:
Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and
Harry for sex.



The part of the write up above is so gay. How can you be calling tom dick and harry when your advising guys? What happend to Tina,dorathy and hannah?

it's just a phrase

kessco:
Wish I could have you speak in one of my Seminars in Empowering the future.

I'm attracted to very intelligent people.

I like this post, I like you and do keep this mindset up.

Thanks

veralu:
My dear, dis is a beautiful writeup, I would like u 2 advise a certain man, who is 34yrs old and still living with his mom and siblings, he is being fed by dem, 4 more info, dis is my email, veralucy8@gmail.com

Okay

April07:
Lol.. Nice one OP..




Okay.. This part I have a problem with.
I like to feel good about myself so I place emphasis on how I look before I step out of the house.
I think boys need to understand that most girls don't make up to attract men.. infact very few do. I wear make up cos it makes me feel prettier and more confident... has nothing to do with a guy..

So if my makeup has got me running into play boys then.... its safe to say that the "so called" good guys like to judge a book by its cover..Not so good if u ask me..




I couldn't agree more with this point.. this is soooo true.

The earlier a girl realizes this, the better for her.

Nicely written tho.. thumbs up.

Thank u very much we are all learning

abbey621:
Pointless posting, seriously you've not given any new information, just same old recycled stuff. In addition, what authority do you have to tell people how to live their lives? Print your autobiography and let's see if your life is perfect, my friend I think you are just bored and looking for attention. Like most Nigerians here on Nairaland, offering advice and making the mistake of believing that one size fits all. Not all single guys want to settle down, not all single guys treat women like trash, not all single guys believe in religious sentiments. So my friend in a nutshell, life is too short, let single guys live the way they want to, live and let live!

Pls to whom is dis referred to? I hope it's Nt me

kentozybee:
A Letter To Single Men
Hey guys, how are you doing? How has life fared
with you lately?


The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain't
an easy job, I must confess! But with God and
diligence in fulfilling purpose, we'll get there.


I write this letter to you to point out some things
which you ought to know before marriage or as
you continue in that relationship.


This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players.
First concerning how you treat ladies. I know
quite alright that ladies are emotional only few
are not. Please, don't take advantage of that and
inflict emotional pain on them.


If you know she's not going to be your wife,
there’s no point promising her heaven and earth
just to get her in bed.
If you think you're smart, your smartness cannot
prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that
would one day catch up with you.


It's better you avoid the consequences of an
action because of its few minutes pleasure than
to face its agony and regrets in the near future.
What are you doing about your life and future? I
know it's trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all
youthful exuberance. See, life doesn't go on a
stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be
recovered.


If at age 30 or close to it, you haven't define your
life or you're still depending on friends, family or
relatives, you need to work on yourself.


Where do you put God in your life? Consider God
in the time of your youth before it's too late.
Many of you who turned back on God will
someday run back to Him for help. If you cannot
dance to the devil's music, it's better you start
learning God's steps.
Hear this guys, love isn't sex! Don't tell a lady to
prove her love to you because you want to have a
'taste' of her. I know everyone is going haywire
with premarital sex but you can choose to
abstain.


Apart from it being sin against God, it will make
you vulnerable to STDs and some problems
'rubber' cannot prevent.
It doesn't matter if she calls you names if you
choose to abstain, or you become an object of
mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear
life.


Think about your future and life hereafter. Don't
give your strength to strange women, preserve it
for your wife.


Have you discovered your purpose in life? That
very reason why God has created you?
Jumping from one lady to another without
discovering your purpose on earth will make you
miserable and waste away in life.


Know your purpose in life and be on track to
attain it's fulfillment before you think of going
into a relationship. It's not difficult, it would
only prevent you from distraction.


Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they
contributing positively to your life or they are
emptying you of virtues and opportunities?
It's not a must you hang out with friends if you
do not benefit from them. You can stand alone
with God and make lasting impact than to keep
dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand
of time.


Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual,
mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man
beats a woman even if she pushed you to the
wall. There is a button of patience to press to
control your anger.
Work on your mental development. Read good
books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get
intimate with God so that your wife wouldn't
become a victim of false prophets or you become
a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the
homefront.


My guy, you're going to be a father someday.
Don't do the things you wouldn't be proud of
your son to emulate or would want anyone to do
to your daughter.


If you wouldn't want to leave a bad legacy for
your unborn children, don't tread the path now.
I'd have love to tell you more but I believe you
know the importance of life and time and I'm
constrained due to space.


Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and
Harry for sex. Conserve your energies and
channel it into a more productive cause in life.
I hope the few wise ones would treasure this
letter, share it or send it to a friend.


Thank you for your anticipated response as you
make amends in areas where necessary.

Thank God I made FP, Thanks to everyone who made this a reality

my letter to d single ladies is here now
www.nairaland.com/1954454/letter-single-ladies

After my letter to the single guys, people asked fr d female version it's here
A Letter To Single Ladies
Greetings to you the most adorable paragon of
God's creature. A rare jewel and the mother of
life.
I write this letter to you to understand some
important things that are of great importance to
your life and future in which negligence to these
would cause you more harm than good.
Please spare me some little time to read through.
I promise not to bore you through this piece. It
won't be lengthy, I promise!
My first major concern is about your dressing. I
know it's not all of you that has issue with this.
See, you don't need to show us your cleavage or
the details of your body by wearing that tight
fitted clothes. Your dressing will determine how
you're addressed and who will approach you.
Some men are 'weaker vessels', when they see
your revealing clothes, they commit fornication
and lust in their heart. Endeavor not to be a
reason for such men to commit sin.
We know beautiful ladies. It is not until you wear
that heavy make-up before you look good. Real
men don't place much emphasis on looks but we
are much concerned about what you can offer us
as a wife, a mother, a friend and a suitable help
meet.
Take time to build your 'content' (character,
strength, passion) rather than place so much
emphasis on your looks. Real men marry ladies
that have great contents but playboys and gold
diggers are so crazy about your looks. Being
moderate looks great with!
No man can love you better if you fail to love
yourself so well. This is not pride but self-esteem.
Raise your standards so that you can sieve out
'ordinary' men. It takes a strong man with vision
and purpose to approach a strong woman. Become
one! Don't be managed but be celebrated and
adored.
Someone of you don't understand the word called
love. Most of you are emotional. Easily aroused by
sweet lies and empty clatterings that some guys
use. Love is not only in word, frequent calls,
chatting, text messages or 'false' care so as to get
you in bed. It is practical - in sacrifice and
commitment.
Love isn't that butterfly feelings you have. Love is
all about making wise decision on who you'd
commit your heart to in love. This will determine
your peace of mind and happiness, now and in the
future. Look before you leap!
Don't let feelings drive you into a relationship
because it is temporal and would change
overtime. It is only when you are ready to make
that decision based on some carefully considered
factors that you should start a love relationship.
You may not accept this, but it's the truth. It is
not a must that you should be in a relationship
when you are not ready for marriage. Yes! Any
relationship that doesn't add value to you will
take away something valuable from you. Many of
you, due to loneliness, intimidation or desperation
entered into a relationship, only to bite your
finger in the long run. This would make you to say
all men are wicked. Not so my dear. Some of us
would treat you the way we'd treat our mothers
and sisters.
As a single lady, God has completely made you, if
you know this truth. No man, I repeat, no man
can make you complete. You have a brain and a
functioning mind. Your completeness lies in
getting a life and building it. Get a career -
pursue it! Or learn a trade - gain expertise!
It's somehow sad that most of you fall victim of
premarital sex because you attach sex to love. A
man can have sex with you without loving you,
tomorrow, he's gone with other ladies. He'd even
deny ever knowing you. Treasure your dignity. A
real man will not culture you for sex but would
bring out the best in you.
Rather than become a mother by circumstance,
take your time to become a mother by choice. You
will bear the consequences alone if you allow a
man to have sex with you without paying any
bridal price. Nursing the baby alone, delay in your
plans and progress in life and the pain of
motherhood which you didn't prepare for are the
things you won't want to bear.
I still have more to say, but I'll will sum up this
letter by quoting a Nigerian Proverb; "Many words
won't fill the gourd, only adhere to that which has
been said". I hope you'd consider all these points
I've listed. Do so and be wise!

MrCork:
[color=#000099e]...how? [/color]

crazy dude

damiperry:
i cant remember iv we've met b4..

OK no p about dat

MrCork:
...ok.. So u r impress by a man writtiin love letter to single men?...abi?...this r the kinda stuff that impress u people and u say u not really g@y?

. ..bro how long hav u been g@y and why sing le men?

silence is d best answer fr a foolish u

Khalessi:
#YAWNS.

Thanks

MrCork:
..bro...not sure if u where Nigeria made glasses but it doesn't make sense to nobody..... .i don't gerrit,we don't gerrrit. .nobody gerrrit!

y are u like this, bring up urs and let's see Wat pple will say abt it, NEVER DO WELL

Why nigerians dey go America when
America no pass Nigeria
Everything dem get, we get am times 2.
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Dem get T.I, we get M.I.
Dem get 2pac, we get 2face.
Dem get Beyonce, we get Omotola.
Dem get Lil wayne, we get Terry G.
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Dem get pirates of the carribean, we get
pirates of Aba.
Dem get beauty and the beast, we get bianca
and Ojukwu.
If you rep Naija abeg Add yours

damiperry:
frm wer?...i juz lyk ur topics

Thanks on a more serious note, u Look familiar

khukhi:
Amen! Women are very fragile. We are surrounded by possible danger at all times.

desperate too

damiperry:
Physics teacher(mr dennis)=mr p£ni$....,art teacher="dupist"....,music teacher=ewure(he has a goatee)...lol

u r all over my posts. seems I know u

damiperry:
rotfl at d comments..bt dy re reali painful

damiperry Wats up

A very young lady called me that she was
impregnated by a guy whose house or family
members she didn't know. She first met the guy
on facebook after which they began to meet at
restaurants and hotels. The guy promised to
marry her, gave her engagement ring and gave
her whatever she requested for.
When she discovered that she was pregnant, she
called the guy to share the good news with him
but the guy warned her very seriously never to
call his number again. That was the last time she
heard from the guy.
If all you have is his phone number, BB pin, his
brother's phone number, his facebook address,
his email address and you quickly change your
relationship status to "ENGAGED"  You even
went to your church and gave testimony for
divine connection, and all your friends are using
your relationship as a point of contact  my
dear, your relationship is as cheap as a SIM
CARD!!!!!!!!!!!
Because when he breaks his SIM, change his
brother's sim, change his email and facebook
address,for no just cause, Then your relationship
is automatically Over!
Be wise! Don't go into sex before marriage, you
may end up in shame & regret. And don't tie
your destiny with a stranger because a stranger
may be a danger! Know the person you are going
to commit yourself to very well, lest you later
blame yourself! Know his God, his mother, father,
brother, sister, friends, church, pastor, mentor,
past before announcing to the whole world that
you are engaged!
And if you and your life partner are not born
again, you are in trouble already!
May you not fall in love and fall into trouble in
Jesus name.

Exjoker:
Nice post op. Expectin the ladies version thou

coming up with dat very soon

@Mr cork I don't know y u will call me a g@y just because I was advising my fellow bros, I am just wondering abt d kind of being u r

Ladycloud:
....did u have to #hmmm....frownz

Lol It's Nothing Nw,Pls Smile Frowning Is Nt Good Fr U