₦airaland Forum

Have you benefited from the resources?

A lot of Nigerians are willing to trade the resources for peace and sanity.

In Urhobo land and as much as I know, there is this saying that goes thus " The closest an individual is, depends on how the individual partakes in inheritance". There is another sayings I have come across as well- " E children ( referring to the children of the deceased) burial am take". E children burial am take means the children made the final decision on how to burial their deceased parent. This is allowed, and can be done peacefully by the children settling who needs to be settled at the family level, and community level. This can also be done in the absence of peace between the deceased's children and the family of the deceased. In the latter, the children tells the family to go"
'f*ck yourself", and they bury their parent the way they deem it fit.
However, there could be some repercussions depending on the situation. You need to find out why your Dad gave such instruction, not to be buried in Ugono, and why the Family insist on having him buried at Ugono. In considering this, I think an individual has the right to choose his/her final resting place, and it would be wise to honor your father with his request, regardless if this instruction was given verbally or in written form. Your father could be running away from something which his village people wants to see fulfilled, hence the suggestion to find out what this is all about.

I think the children of a deceased person in Urhobo land have a lot to say over where their deceased parents lies. The case is different if the deceased person has no children, and the decision falls back on the family. If you choose to go with your father's instruction, its not against the tradition, but be Godly strong spiritually to wedge off spiritually wicked miscreants from the family, who often see it as an opportunity to fight the children for standing up to them. Standing with the family and against your father, you may be diving into what you don't know. I don't know what the case is with you, but it does appear the battle line is drawn and you need to take your stances.

No cause for alarm, you've made the mistake.
It's solution time. You should try a check up at the hospital. If things get worst, move straight to Nsppd.

Forgive my curiosity if you think am being negative. I'm only being forward in exploring possible outcome.

This is the scenario I have being brooding over, since the lastest happening in Nigeria.

If Nigerian gets divided as a country, and someone's money is in or stuck in a bank? How can one get it back?

What happens to the naira? Could the newly form countries equate their currency to the naira? Or every existing monetary possession in Naira could be lost, if new countries are form.

Don't judge me for thinking in this line, not after seeing a video where some civilian were chasing a military vehicle. It's getting heated.

IT BETTER TO RESTRUCTURE THAN DIVIDE

naija4life247:
You should be flogged mercilessly for saying demeaning things about your friend's wife. Your friend should be beheaded for watching you miscreant say demeaning things about the woman he swore to love and to protect. In short, you too should be beheaded at the market square

If you have heard what i said, i guess you would materialize from the screen of my device to tell me my wrong.
it was in one of those lambasting session of lambasting the woman that he open up, my mouth was just open and i was staring at him as he spoke. Am not proud of my actions, partly the reason i created this tread.

meanwhile, what've you got to contribute? or you did not read the few lines at the beginning of the tread?

Flexherbal-

You made mention of treatment, do yopu know any the couple could take?

Before you continue on this tread, kindly observe and note the following:

a) I know say una get mouth for this forum, please keep your bad mouth shut for a while, particularly on this topic.
b) Professors of English and human grammar checkers, kindly overlook grammatical errors.
c) please do not derail this tread, and let those who got meaningful contribution say something.

To the topic;

Within the past few years, i have observed that lots of marriages goes through the challenge of child bearing. This often time is pin and blame on the woman. They are either called barren or accused of living a wayward life before getting married. unknow to many that the result could be from the man having a LOW COUNT. These women wont come out publicly to say the issue is with the man, but rather endured and bear every insult thrown at them. They protect their man's pride and suffer in silences.

Of recent, a friend confided in me about the child bearing issue in his marriage as his fault. He has a low count. Believe me, i have said demeaning words about the wife. I thank God my friend is true enough that the wife never got any of those words. He has been married for seven (7) years.
I know he is not only, and there are many out there with similar issue. if you have a practical solution to this issue, you would be saving much more marriages than you think, and putting a smile on someone face.

bukatyne:
Take her to the hospital for general body checkup as per her age.

Tell the doctor forehand and then take it from there.

I suggest you go this route.

Modupetemmy1:
I'll suggest you rather tell non of them. since you claimed you weren't interested in having the child stays with you, it would be better if you keep it a secret.
as for your brother ; he might still forgive you been his bro but can never regain your trust.
he's been through a lot already and revealing this to him might destabilize and get him depress which is worse.
its easy to forgive but not forget.
i have a similar issue sometime a go despite how much I love the person
he didn't even know that I was already aware of the stuff
but for peace to reign and for the family not to scatter I just hold my peace by keeping mute
it remains a top secret between both of them
non of them knew i was aware i just pretended as if nothing happened though both parties later retrace their steps.
if not for the fact that I was able to keep mute and pretend as if nothing happened family go don' scatter
it will now be;if I had known I would have kept it a secret
later on people would blame you that why did you say it despite knowing his present condition

some things are rather left unsaid. that's my precious advice.
you want to put him in more pains all because you want to be conscience free.
its not as easy as you think.
you just have to live with it
bro
pls try and take care of him
don't let him go into depression

My guy sincerely, listen to what this woman has said above.
Reasons:
1. Your relationship with your brother will never remain the same even if he forgives you. You stand the chance of losing your only brother who is around you, the other is in dubai.
2. You do not want your daughter back, so! let sleeping dogs lie
3. With the present state your brother is, he most likely will kill himself
4. You spoke of Conscience; take it as a punishment for what you did and find peace with God.
5. Your wife accepted your daughter as your brother's child, your wife might not be so nice to her knowing she is your daughter. The attitude of an average Nigerian woman.
6. What you did might not be the cause of your wife miscarriage. like someone suggested on the trend, go to the hospital, it could be the issue of Rhesus.

Know that the overall decision lies with you, but how will you feel if, all I have listed above happens after confessing to your brother? You chances of been forgiven are very slim, and chances of worsen your brothers condition are high.

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MKO4ever:
GEJ will soon be taken to Ekwulobia prison in Anambra, that is where he belongs. He must be jailed

Another brain washed boko member. Watch out ppl. He might want to detonate sometine.

ogazi007:
They will be defeated.They are just trying to put fear in people's mind and weaken our resolute to stand up to these evil people.

PMB should stay focuse and not get distracted with all the unnecessary social media niose.I want him to take responsibility of all that had happened and never blame opposition for Bokoharam activities.

several days in office and there is no clear picture of what he wants or even intend doing. And u r saying he should remain focus! Focus on what?

ogazi007:
They will be defeated.They are just trying to put fear in people's mind and weaken our resolute to stand up to these evil people.

PMB should stay focuse and not get distracted with all the unnecessary social media niose.I want him to take responsibility of all that had happened and never blame opposition for Bokoharam activities.

several days in office and there is no clear picture of what he wants or even intend doing. And u r saying he should remain focus! Focus on what?

barcanista:
I'm more concerned about the safety of innocent people. Let's join hands to pray for the North

. Good idea. But u cant pray away nemesis.

DeeTus:
She should take a teaspoon of honey for 7 days before going to bed provided that she's not diabetic.

Have u or any one u know tried this?

UrennaNkoli:
PDP and Jonathan forever clueless.... Turning a tricycle into a helicopter... We seriously need change in this country.

[size=15pt]Sai Buhari[/size]

[size=15pt]Pls Vote Wisely[/size]

u dey really dey kolo. Its no small feat turning a tricycle into a helicopter. U calling others clueless. Which one u don fit make? I hope dis ur kolo no be generational one ooh.

franciskaine:
and who told you the minting company was started by GEJ? All this Gejites no go let person hear word. Be ready to cry by March 30th.

Odiodi for u. Infact u dive rock. Come march 30th, Jona will march into April and onward.

DAMAYYOR:
. Mumu

u dat can nt use ur head in simple thinking dey call another mumu. Ur mumu don old, get grey hair and close to the grave like GMB. E no get cure.

ifeelgood:
Both corruption and the corrupt trembles at the mention of GMB. Buhari/Osinbajo till Goodluck stop getting confused while addressing crowd at rallies.

your Buhari is more corrupt than Jonathan. Let him clear the air on his certificate, the affidiavat he swore to, 52 abi na 54 brief case of money and whole lot of others before u open ur mouth to say GeJ is corrupt.

danjumakolo:
Even DSS and AIG have have not said anything rgds this.I wonder the type of security officers we have in this country.

the very type that would not arrest the northerns that promise that the country will be ungovernable shld a southern become president. The very type that would not arrest those drumming support for bokom haram and calling for implementation of sharia in all Nigeria states ( against the unity of Nigeria ppl). The very type that have not arrested those that lie under oath (abt certificate). The very type that promise Nigerians jobs when all their children study and work abroad on the expense of Nigeria stolen wealth. What is good for the goose, is good for the gander.

[quote author=lalasticlala post=30216393][/quote]A prophet dat cannot see beyond his nose. God did nt tell u anytine. Its obvious from ur statements. Hw did Tinibu benefit Edo, Delta and Eastern state? Hw is it Gej fault dat bokom haram tried to disrupt his daughter's marriage and he refuse to bow? The so called Buhari promised dat Nigeria is going to be ungovernable, he is making good his promise; he lied and is still lying abt his certificate and you dont see anytine bad in it, or did God not show u nor reminded you of Buhari past statements? God is not a confuse God, and u will not dicate what he is going to do. You even use bible verse in trying to cook up u thoughts as prophecies. Be warn!! For i know T.B Joshua, Suleiman, Primate Ayodele, who r you? Again be warned!

PassingShot:
It's obvious that our military has been politicized by GEJ/PDP and it is very very dangerous for our democrazy.

No level of politicking should make GEJ involve and compromise the military IF HE ACTUALLY MEANS WELL FOR NIGERIA.

He needs to be reminded of what befell those leaders who did similar in the past. They didn't end well.

GEJ did nt politicize any institution. Before GEJ came to power, the military has been operating on quota system; is this not politics? Who brought it? Was it GEJ? Who had been enjoying it? Now that their so much corrupt practises in the miliatery want to be exposed, IBB is calling for caution. In my opinion, Buhari shld provide his certificate. And if he cant, he shld face the music and the military shld come out and tell nigerian hw they allowed him to rise to the level of a general.

babadee1:
The original 1961 certificate was lost. Many people who finished school decades after Buhari have lost their original certificates.
When you lose your original certificate you can apply to your school for a statement of results which will be issued on current letterhead paper according to current guidelines. The photo on the statement of results is recent because it is required by the school for a new statement of result to be issued. This statement of result was issued yesterday January 21, 2015 not in 1961.

I hope this has helped those people still confused by this recent development.

i know of someone who lost his WAEC certificate, he applied to WAEC for a new one and was given. Has WAEC lost its database? Y cant Mr. Anti-corruption just do sometine to clear this whole saga. I mean sometine convincing. Ppl have been asking hw did he get to the level of a general if he did not go to school. The answer is simple. Mr. Anti corruption is corrupt.

Mendo007:
what do think about this guy who looks like president GEJ

shuuuuuiiiioooo. Na e younger brother na.

Doublyu:
This might sound untrue or Fictional but it is so True. My name is Kelvin. I stay in Port Harcourt. On a faithful thursday evenin, I went to SPAR (the new PH Mall) to buy somethings. I was in d the company of my then secondary school classmate who is now a doctor. After we did our shopping and we went to pay, I saw dis pwetty lady. She was d cashier. After I paid I gve ha compliments and she blushed soo hard I could evn see ha make ups falling off her face. So I gve ha my card and She promised to call. Later dat evenin she did call.. I askd ha to cme and visit me. And She did. Looking @ dis lady in my room I felt I shld start Ravaging her! After a while, we strted kissing and in a less dan a minute she was unclad. Then I noticed a ring on her hand. I tot it was all dese fancy ladies ring. So I asked, and she was so plain to say she was married. I tot she ws kidn until she brought out her daughters pix from ha bag and showed me to proove it. I lost the urge immediately. I wondered why a married woman would want to cheat on her husband. I asked ha to leave and ofcourse she did.
Note: I would stil have done wateva but I don't sleep with married women! Hell NO!!!
Please guys, I hope I did the right thing..*winks*...

Adonbilivit. Is she a robot? Na everytine u tell her she dey do?

[quote author=spiritfada post=29862456][/quote]if u live in rivers state, denounce APC, join PDP and u be safe. (my thoughts)

Holyviktor:
GEJ's visit to Maiduguri was hallmark of deceit - Oby Ezekwesili

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Mrs Oby Ezekwesili comes for the president in a series of tweets this morning. See more after the cut

http://www.lindaikeji..in/2015/01/gejs-visit-to-maiduguri-was-hallmark-of.html?m=1

make e tell u say e want go there so dat u and ur bokom boys go wait am? I dey suspect u.

angelcj:
You guys have been ruling us since 1960, we
never complained. Obasanjo gave back the power to you guys, we
never complained. Goodluck accidently becomes the President, you
guys started throwing bomb and killing people. You guys are just bunch of clowns! Illiterates! Whether competent or not, Goodluck will be our
president again! You guys can go and bomb the whole North if he
wins, thats none of my fucking business!

i love u for this

nnafather:
Osinbajo is just a professor without brain....he can't read the handwriting on the wall. Desperate old men.

his greed is ruling the skills he acquired in school.

Samchelsea:
http://www.nigerianbulletin.com/threads/apc-using-osinbajo-to-mask-buharis-religious-bias-rccg-pastor.106594/

good one. A cattle religious bigot can not and will not decieve my pastor.