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Let's make something clear, “students think".
In fact, students think a lot about money, drinks, parties, opposite s*x and so on but most importantly students think about their lives after school, which is good.

The bad thing however is that what they think about life after school are majorly unrealistic thoughts like, "hey, I am finally in 100 level studying economics in Kogi State University, and I'll graduate in 4 years’ time, then go for service and probably do some masters and PhD thingy then get a job and make money".
That's so unrealistic that its makes WWE wrestling more real. Its plain garbage thought you need to start getting out of your head. This life isn't Hollywood, and when you're born into one hell of a country like Nigeria you need to wise up and start
thinking with your "brain". If you can take your time and look outside your window to see millions of graduates roaming about
the streets you'll probably understand that it’s not as easy as you think it is, if it was that easy your parents and your friends parents and all parents in Nigeria will be multi billionaires and you may not even need to go to school. Life isn't easy, and Nigeria is making life even harder for Nigerians. The labour market is so choked up, it will take extra power for an angel to pass through. There is hardship in every corner of the country and the earlier you realize these things, the better for you. So instead partying and smiling all around school why don't you sit yourself down and not only think logically but also plan logically. These topics might
get you onto the right path: - First and foremost you need to realize you only have one life to live, every circumstance you find
yourself will most definitely come once, you don't go to primary school twice, well, except you're going there the second time to teach or something.

My point is, in every situation you find yourself you have to try hard in making the best outta that situation, if you don't succeed, it’s okay, at least you tried. - Ask yourself questions, like why are there few rich people in the country, what can I do to get there, what are my potentials, what are my weaknesses. You have tons of questions you
should start asking yourself. - You need to start tasking yourself. Are you too young to make money?? I mean, there are lots of
unemployed graduates out there who still depend on their parents. I know you don't want to belong in that category when you're done with school.

You need to know what you have to do to make that money so you do not have to depend on anybody. God has given you a talent, why don't you discover it and start using it to make money now. There are tons of things you can do as an undergraduate that can cough out money for you, you just need to think and plan on how to strike a balance between your academics and what you're doing. It's not how petty the job is or how little you're earning. It’s about knowing for a fact that you can do something to improve your situation. A lot of OND, HND, BSc, PhD holders are out there
(those certs are common these days), some even have all those certs with them at the moment but have nothing to show for it because they failed to realize that school is not about learning on how to work for a boss, it’s also about how to develop yourself to being your own boss. - You need to stop thinking about your future and know that the future you are thinking of is "NOW".
You have to start thinking and planning logically from now on. - You need to start encouraging yourself to do things that'll make you big.

Forget where you are now, it doesn't matter, its where you're going to be when it’s all said and done that matters. Forget the fact that you stay in Dagana or you stay in one shady place around KSU, and your fellow mates stay in billionaires lodge or exquisite lodge
(it’s probably not their money anyways), it doesn't matter. What matters is that you are formulating a plan that will change your situation when four years is done and dusted. - All in all you have to think of doing only what's necessary to get that money, not something people like or what they don't like, not what brings shame to you or doesn't bring shame to you, you don't have to care what people think about you, 'cause at
the end of it all it's you and only you that matters. Nobody remembers the disgusting or not disgusting things Dangote has done in the past, because it was necessary to get him to where he is now, “the richest man in Africa".

hey peeps, lets not be harsh on him, he is just saying his mind na, na waw oooo.

When oga op, although we dnt knw the lady's side of the story, but please better go look for sum1 else.

Since she is not looking ur lane, better keep ur money.

Hope i don pass small sense to you?
No hard feelings sha

cocaineaddict:
u get time

we miss him

any useful information is welcome

i did some findings on lalasticala
and i came up with this:
so far he has done 36 posts and has got 3901 views.
7:57am On Nov 08,2014
Time registered: November 06, 2014 Time spent online: 2 hours & 31 mins Last seen:9: 58am On Feb 10,2015 View Lalasticala's posts (7)
View Lalasticala's topics (4)

now the question, is he in coma, or banned, or worst?

Bro where ever you are, we miss you.

GoldenJAT:
no time is 2 long... as I believe everything plays out naturally!!!

in as much as am a guy like you, i dont think what u said is correct, cos guys like you can use ladies and dump them. It just shows u re nt ready to marry. No hard feelings sha

GoldenJAT:
no time is 2 long... as I believe everything plays out naturally!!!

in as much as am a guy like you, i dont think what u said is correct, cos guys like you can use ladies and dump them. It just shows u re nt ready to marry. No hard feels sha

alobright17:
God bless your hustle

amen oooooooooo #Baba answer my call

Yes is me, Kest, am looking for a girlfriend, that is honest, diligent, bold, caring and funny, one that can can share ideas and assist well. Just pm me, or call 08089933324; 07064771260

pagorino:
2 - 4 yrs z ok, n sometimes it might b lesser or more...but what really matters z understanding n trust of both parties.

i like that point

thatQuietgirl:
I think between 2-4yrs is okay.

correct, i like that. But who will initial the marriage move?

ksstroud:
6-8years

Olomaje, chai, na wetin u won use 6-8 years take knw about him or her. Na marriage u don enter o, frm inside courtship o.

Vinshu:
1 month.


There shouldn't be a time frame. All you have to do is follow your heart.

no na, one month is too too small, if ur boo approaches u under a month, will u agree? its too early

for me i think 2 to 3 years is enough, cos i cant be in a relatioship for too long, what the hell am i waiting for? Just imagine doing the things of marriage in courting, now when we get marriage what will be new thing?

2 to 3 years is enough

now last talk something serious.
We sometimes hear abt peoples relationship periods of 10 years and older, with some getting marriage and other breakingup after these long years.

Now how long should a relationship go before marriage?

Matured comments as this will help lots of persons.

wow, the power of konji, nice one

osesology:
Just be urself, dude, and dont be scared or nervous...Women are like children, tell them what they want to hear and they'll be jiggling like their daddy just bought their christmas clothes. Lol!

And also, learn to listen more and talk less...yep, women like guys that listen more than they talk...But in whatever you do, BE YOURSELF!

i just love ur last words more, Be Myself, thanks alot

Tobiee:
[email] I clicked 'cause I noticed the topic. It should be "advise" not "advice". [/email]

thanks very much, the thought of the date dey spark my head. One love

discoprophet:
believe me, if i give you some piece of advice, you not gonna be seeing a second date in the near future

bring it on, i guess u don wash plate after ur date once abi

I need the talk of matured minds here, mostly the females.

Now the thing is that am having a date tomorrow with a babe, but to the level of ladies bring their friends along is alarming, cos am just planning for the us both.

Now the serious part is, how do i go abt it, like the time to spend, what to talk about, the food and others, please share reasonable comment to make my date a fun filled one. Thanks,

keep the comments rolling.

pweetychyka:
From d comments posted, I can deduce d talkative in romanceland
And guess who it is

drop it like its hot

wetin cause the beefing here na, simple question 9 dey casue all this? SMH

SMH, The person wear swear for you don die, and the pikin to cure you, dem never burn am. Guy go get ur head checked, u need reworking.

MrCork:
...you dont hav shcool homework?(no ofeinse)

oga wait o, na jealousy be this one abi na wetin? get use to the game, hahahahaha, no post man, i do mention you.

pweetychyka:
lemme chill here n see who gets d highest pick

honey should i bring lipton and groundnut for you to chill well?

halfricanadian:
No its me o nobody go fit collect dis title from me

hahahahaha, i bet you re not the one. People full here remain self.

hehehehe, lets get here blooming, now the question is this, WHO IS THE TALKATIVE IN ROMANCELAND?
For me the person is SAINTSAMURIA, chai! That guy dey talk fire.

Donkaz:
Op that your number 12 get as e be.

some women use their teeth you know

hahahaha, my guess is as gud as Origin, cos its like ur bae is like the women dat uses teeth to open beer.

makydebbie:
i dey for mahama regime ooo...but you too want hug?

ohh, thats so sweet of you, but this ur hug shld be checked first, cos Mahama regime, hmmm. Thanks for the hug