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Lawlahdey:
Do not forgive. She didn't confess guiltily.
Perhaps someone close to you has found her out and she doesn't want the person to rat her out first.

THATS A NICE ANGLE TO LOOK THE SITUATION FROM O

SHE WAS REALLY LUCKY O

like the slogan says "SELL IT" thats what i did o, i had an old black berry phone and decided to sell, after posting i got a call from a buyer and we agreed to meet at a place abit far from my location the next day.
next day i got there before him and called his number he said he is close by that i should wait a little cos of rain, i waited for 1h 30mins no sign of him i called his number switched off, my mind was like "am dead today" i tried till it was back on and he begged me to meet another place that he will pay the tfare, i was relunctant but i need the money so i went under d rain reaching there i paid the bikeman wit my last cash i called the guy bt number was off for like 20mins, i was thinking how to trek frm d village bck 2 d lst place then back to my place, omo my body vibrated due to cold & anger, i called again and it went, d guy came out and was pleading, i just took d money and my sim including my tfare "very important o" i took bike back to 1st place den bus to my hux under rain.
share urs

My bro just try and think very well, cos when she enters the school it may not be as you plan o, you will do lot of payment hope you know what i mean. next thing is can you wait for her? will she later cook up stories like "you are too old for me" when she is through.

It has really been stormy in my relationship with this lady, but always believe things will be good someday. But just about a year after leaving for kaduna for a military training, i got the shock of my live. I came back recently , only for me to hear that she has delivered a baby girl. I called her to know wetin sup, but she was telling me its over between us. But after due calculation of input and output before leaving last year october, the child was suppose to be mine, but she is saying am not the father, but i called the sister who told me that the father is nowhere to be found.
Please am shouting out, how do i go about this situation?

johnjay4u2u:
zero naira as long as you have real friends who truly know you have nothing genuinely

But seriously, i was broke to 20 naira around 2010 Managed the 20 naira for that day. (Garri plus sugar as brunch) i hate borrowing

nobody loves to borrow but sometimes we have no choice

phantom02:
with foodstuffs and provision/cosmetics,,5k cn b enough 4 a week

did you really mean 5k a week, please can we be friends

Omotayor123:
Not when he become chicken, walking from one friend to another to do oshofree and Genie- give me!

thats the issue o, friends that understands you is the solution

Teletexter:
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Your lying prowess will take you places.
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do you mind exchanging shoes with me

oneda:
Naija... Imagine the sacrifices only to come out and be vieing for 30k npower job which will likely be in 2019 as campaign promise.

Nigerian students your future had been eaten/is still being eaten by your leaders. Arise and protest your tomorrow now.

If the 800+ billion being owed ASUU was to the National Assembly it would have been paid since with jara sef.

Unite today and fight this evil leaders together.

fighting the government wont solve anything, its still same promise they will give you. I think learning a skill to your credentials is the best.

Histrings08:
I don't know

i pray you dont lack in life

dammieco:
Perhaps he studied in the university during the era of Awolowo

i studied at Delta State, its just by grace

DRPAIT123:
1000 for months.....outrightly impossible

thats why i said its hard to believe, but knowing the family am from, i just gat to comply.

Being an average student in the higher institution in nigeria is really worrysome. Taking about finance, most times we are promised by parents, relations, friends and others that they will try to send some funds to you to enable you stay well at school, but most times we never receive any alert, we just have to over adjust to what we have, or most times start making unplanned visits to fellow coursemates to see if anything can come out, sometimes just to eat, go back home and sleep. My own experience is really devastating as sometimes i had to live on one thousand for 4months, some people will say its impossible sha, but its true.
Lets share our experience as a student.

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lolz, abi the police man dey try power

My fellow country pipo, Wetin concern agbero with overload?
Wetin concern Police and Danfo driver, to the extent of shaking hands?

sinaj:
Jesus pikin

I be virgin o

sinaj:
Jesus pikin

I be virgin o

AggressiveFucker:
bros wetin be dis na ...becos i advice u u wan con dy call me aggressive

am an aggressive fvcker not an aggressive abeg

able bro, nor vex for me na, to add the fucker join the aggressive dey hard me.

Yuneehk:
You could ask her to tell you stuffs about herself. If she's not the boring type, she'll throw the question back at you after answering hers of course. One thing will lead to another and more topics will come up. Don't forget to leave a lasting impression. Keep sexual topics out of the conversation so you don't come across as a pervert, feel relaxed and don't be shy.
Lastly, Keep the date as short as possible so you don't bore her if not she won't agree to a second one.

what if she is those type that talk in monosyllables.
examples
Me: how are u bae
She: Fine
Me: tell me more about urself
She: just ask

Opakan2:
Be yourself, don't be too naive and don't ask silly questions..

That was how one guy and his date sat close to me at a fast food joint in the mall.. They were flowing well initially till she showed him a picture of her friend or so on her phone..

Guess what the guy said next.. Are you a lesbian.
Oh boy! I shock.. The girl mood changed instantly.Naso that one ruin the date

Talk about movies, places, schooling if you're students or work. you'll be fine

can we also talk about the money in her bank account

AggressiveFucker:
bro basically just ask things about her and if shes an extrovert she'd talk and talk and talk and talk....na u go con dey bored by then sef

oh and ermm never forget to ask her breast and bra size.....and always keep ur eyes on her boobz....stare at it like its urs

works like magic

na wah o, u really dey aggressive o, I guess u don't mind to grab it. pple like u 9 like the oza room xo

Amarabae:
Ok. Feel relaxed and be creative in discussion.
1. Don't make it too much question and answer session.
2. You as the man should do most of the talking, don't talk about the future.
3. Talk a bit about the past and focus more on the present.
Discussion that is based on the "present" is psychologically more lively.
4. Crack some jokes to add humor to it.(not a boring joke).
5. Be time conscious!

I think you should go for dating counseling to youth o, u re good. thanks

Yuneehk:
You could ask her to tell you stuffs about herself. If she's not the boring type, she'll throw the question back at you after answering hers of course. One thing will lead to another and more topics will come up. Don't forget to leave a lasting impression. Keep sexual topics out of the conversation so you don't come across as a pervert, feel relaxed and don't be shy.
Lastly, Keep the date as short as possible so you don't bore her if not she won't agree to a second one.

thanks a lot, xo whats the time limit for a first date

cloudyskygrind:
They no longer talk on dates just go straight to The Oza Room

The Oza Room abi, lolz
wetin dey happen for there

Hello to all the mature minds that's shares ideas.
to all who has gone out on a date, please what do u guys tend to discuss for the period of time.

Am planning on one, but the topics of discussion are not coming 2geda.

thanks

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4 months training, one major problem is that I need accommodation in the place. tanks
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the thoughts of starting alone for me gives me a great headache, about starting and coping with the environment.

Student stereotypes are all well and good. But what should you really expect when it comes to your first term at university? Last year's freshers reveal what their first-term experience was like…

There are lots of expectations when you start university – that your student days will be the best of your life, that you’ll meet lots of friends – but the reality is that the experience is different for every person. That said, this should hopefully help you work out what's in store, along with our top 10 tips on preparing to go to university.

2. Moving out and settling in
Encouragingly, just over half of the students we spoke to had found living away from home easier than expected. That figure falls to 41% for students aged 21 or over. Similarly, 54% said making new friends was easier than they thought it would be.

If you're moving to a new place, there are lots of opportunities to meet people when you first move in – as you’re unpacking, at social events organised by your accommodation reps, even just by knocking on a flatmate’s door. It’s natural to feel shy or a bit silly introducing yourself but everyone's in the same boat - and it's normal to have moments of homesickness, too.

Tip: make the most of freshers’ week – there’s no other time in the university calendar when people will be so keen to get chatting.

3. Social pressures..?

Four in 10 students told us they can't go out as much as they'd like to because of money – but about a third of students had also felt pressurised at some stage during their freshers’ term to go out socialising. And with the pressure to go out, there can often be the pressure to drink.
Tip: having a great social life at university doesn't have to mean being out every night, or centre around alcohol. How about a night cooking with flatmates, gigs, watching films or a new sport..?

4. Joining a uni society, club or sports team...
...For the first week at least. More than half of freshers said that they'd joined an interest group – although 11% of everyone we spoke to said they'd dropped out of at least one club or team. And 28% said they'd struggled to find any extra-curricular or social activity that appealed to them at all.

University freshers' fairs will bring you face-to-face with all the weird and wonderful clubs and societies you can sign up to, from the extreme ironing society to the medieval re-enactment club. If there isn’t one that appeals to you, start your own! It's a good way of trying something new, meeting people with similar interests and picking up skills to boost your employment prospects.

Tip: you don’t have to get involved in clubs right from the start. You can always join a club at a later stage once you’ve settled into uni life, or become a member of a society where you can turn up as and when you’ve got the time.
5. Budgeting bugbears

Your first student loan instalment might seem like a windfall, but chances are it won’t go as far as you’d hoped. 39% of those surveyed said that managing their day-to-day costs was more difficult than expected, a fifth had already gone into their overdraft and 19% had got a part-time job.

Remember you'll need to factor in all those extra upfront costs such as course materials, books, trips and equipment, too. 45% of the first years we spoke to told us they ended up shelling out more than expected.

Tip: if you’re really struggling, there is always support on hand at your university. One in 10 of the first-termers we spoke to had already visited student services to talk about financial support. Plus, get budget planning with our student money top 10.

6. A pleasant surprise from your course?

44% of the students we spoke to said they're finding lectures more interesting than expected – and more than half said they’re enjoying the course more than they thought they would.

To make the most of your course, you should always try to turn up to lectures and seminars, even if it’s at 9am and you’ve had a heavy night (6% of the students we spoke to had missed at least half their lectures!).

Tip: get the most out of face-to-face sessions with tutors by prepping beforehand, completing any pre-work and jotting down questions to raise.

7. It's never too late (or too early)...

A fifth of those we spoke to said they’d considered switching courses (18%) – and 2% had switched. Hopefully, you’ll find that you’ve made the right choice and will enjoy your academic life at uni – but if not, it is possible to switch courses – it’s just not always straightforward.

And it’s never too early to head to start thinking about life after university, either. 17% of the freshers we spoke to had been to the careers office, rising to one in four for law students.

Tip: Make the most of your careers department – it's there to help you think about what you want to go on to do once you’ve graduated and can help you to secure work experience placements and graduate roles.

God is really saying something,
My people right now am in a confused state, not knowing what to do.
There is this girl am having deep feelings for, when am with her i feel my whole world is complete, cos all her voice, words, advice, gifts and others makes me wanna get married to her that instant.
But the worst happended the day my brother came home, and said God has showed him his future wife, with full doze of joy i asked who the girl was, the iota of shock hit me when he said, the Lord said his future wife is my prefound girlfriend.
Now should still continue wooing the girl or just back down for my brother.
God is saying something!

chigoizie7:
U have to sow a seed 1st so that we can make normal consultations and then get back to u

baddoo

stelcramento:
Delsu school fees has been increased and no one seems to be taking the protest by the students serious.

thep sug shld start up sumtin fast o