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My husband visited UCH in Ibadan this morning and his doctor friend told him more than 50 people are down with covid-19. Seems the government is trying to downplay the number

Nawaoooo
And this is beginning to look like zombie apocalypse

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And you don’t kill snakes......

Iamrespected1:
Sorry about the picture quality, I did not want to get close to it so that I will not hear story that hurts

bukatyne:
You don't want out of the marriage, just financial freedom?

Do you think he is abusive because you lack resources?

I want out.
Already planning my exit. I’m just worried for my kids.
I don’t have the finances to cater for them yet. Don’t know if their dad would still be up to his responsibilities when I separate from him

Tonyfx:
Does he have anyone he respects or looks up to that you can talk to, to help you advice him?

We’ve done all that.
They are even tired of all our shits

bukatyne:
What do you really want?

Let's forget Pastors and Imams here.

Financial freedom

Financial freedom

bukatyne:
What do you really want?

Let's forget Pastors and Imams here.

rain21:
How come you have not furthered your education. Is he against it?

Something happened and my admission was terminated in my third year

had to create a new account to table out my troubles.
I’m married with two kids and a step son. The summary of my problem is DOMESTIC VIOLENCE/ABUSE.
Even after giving him more chances to chance, he beat me up few days ago and still blamed me for his actions.
I wanted to leave but he informed our pastor and he begged me to manage my home. That there’s no better person outside. He’s not even addressing the violence issues.
I really want to leave but I’m a full house wife and I depend on him financially cause I’m an SSCE holder.
There’s no help whatsoever from my parents. I’m confused cause he’s processing a Canadian visa for us which would take twelve weeks to complete.
Should I just count my blessings and loss and move on now, or wait until we get to Canada?

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rain21:
how terrible is the abuse and how extreme is his anger?
it depends on you to decide if you can wait till 12weeks or leave now as you know the severity of your situation.
if you leave now, you can decide to get him to pay child support through the welfare office while you also look for something doing either a biz or a job .
if you wait till you get to Canada it will be better off since he won't lay his hands on you again.

He abuses my family and I almost every day.
He slaps, punch, kicks anytime he feels like

I had to create a new account to table out my troubles.
I’m married with two kids and a step son. The summary of my problem is DOMESTIC VIOLENCE/ABUSE.
Even after giving him more chances to chance, he beat me up few days ago and still blamed me for his actions.
I wanted to leave but he informed our pastor and he begged me to manage my home. That there’s no better person outside. He’s not even addressing the violence issues.
I really want to leave but I’m a full house wife and I depend on him financially cause I’m an SSCE holder.
There’s no help whatsoever from my parents. I’m confused cause he’s processing a Canadian visa for us which would take twelve weeks to complete.
Should I just count my blessings and loss and move on now, or wait until we get to Canada?