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[quote author=ubunja post=63845287]since we established the woman also is to blame,then the woman has to work to fix her part of the problem. the man can only go if the wife pays the man for wasting his time.she must give the guy alimony and part ways.[/quot

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Alimony for what, he didn't do damn thing. I'm sure he didn't clean the house or wash the clothes, or cook the food. He should be made to pay her alimony for all the years that he leached off of her. She has already fixed the problem by getting rid of the lazy bum. Let him get a job or find another desperate lady to leach on. LMAO at wasting his time. She took care of his lazy azz for many years with no contribution from him, it's time that he grow up and take care of himself and contribute to the care of their children. UGGGGH I can't stand a SORRY man.

ubunja:
like women diont make threats and are perfect creatures...get out of here.
u seem to have gotten it all twisted coz i seen women in abusive relationships with men who actuallly beat them up and threaten to kill them return to these men until the man really does them in.
the issue here is the guy is broke.if the guy had money it would be a diferent story

Well the issue is the guy was a lazy azz from the start, who leached off of his wife, yes she is part of the blame because she married the guy knowing what kind of person he was. Your comment about women leaving their abusive husbands then returning to them only to be murdered by them should be an eye opener to you to why this guy needed to go. The guy is broke because he chose to be that way simply because he didn't want to work. If the guy would try to contribute to the finances they would be building together.

ubunja:
while we shout Equal Rights we still expect men to be the sole provider.and if the man fails to deliver he is driven out.
smh.no wonder feminism is never going places.
if tha guy did the equivalent ; by discovering the wife cant give birth and chased her out he would be called lucifer himself. but since its a woman, its all sympathy for her.coz men really cant be victims.
take your equal rights and shove them where the sun dont shine.

Stop making excuses for him because he is a boy, if someone threatens to kill you he has to go.

Martin0:
Oh really,have a goodite!

I thought u were wishing me that!

Goodnyt

Well it really isn't nite here it's 7:30 am, I have been up all nite simply because I'm on vacation and I don't have to be to work until next Monday.

Martin0:
What? goodnite!

No am still here! Chating with friends

Ok, but I'm going to bed now.

Martin0:
I mean enjoy the fun on NL.

ok Goodnite.

Martin0:
Ok oo abeg easy ooo!
Enjoy ur stay here

My stay here?

Martin0:
Waow he said u are wicked!
Damm! That Audacious!

This kinda situation is Quagmire not all ladies can handle it!

But honestly maybe he later found out you re Sui Generis,and by then I guess it already late for him.

From the brief story,I noticed dude sound Ferocious!

Anyway sha! Am sure everything has ended and you know have your peace now!

Happy new year!

Yeah, to me he's just an annoying clown. Happy New Year to you also.

[quote author=Martin0 post=63828279]Hmmmm from what u said as a lady to me! Honestly it Indubitable.

Hmmm dude got Alacrit!

Hmmm but anyway so what have been your answer's to him over these year's[/quot
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What did I say?

I have been saying the same thing to him as you see me saying to him now. He's a lunatic.

Cladez:
Just hold this when you see him just blow off his legs while i come bundle him to a rehab.

You in?

lmao You're funny.

Martin0:
Three year's

Am just weak!

A whole 3year's that guy is so inlove,or isn't that love!

3year's without achieving nothing! Hmmmm that Insalubrious! A whole 3year's na wa ooo
I need to see this guy!

No he's not in-love he's insane.

Martin0:
I see your comment and sometimes ur expression is kinda Bugaboo! Even when u don't know him! I know you might feel that but atleast u don't know him,so there should be no need to feel Bugaboo!

I have no fear of him after all we are a continent away, but he is so freaking annoying. This is how it went down. There was this guy on Nairaland, I don't know if he is still here but we were friendly. The guy was gay, and I had no problem with that, hey I didn't want him.

Every time we would post to each other the lunatic would jump on my mentions and call me evil, wicked and all sorts of names because I was communicating with a confessed gay man.

He called me names because he thought that I was a lesbian simply because I was talking to my friend. When I told him that I love men his whole attitude changed, he became all sweet and interested.

He started posting crazier stuff like, "I love you" " I won't you to come to Nigeria and be my wife" "You can't talk to those evil gay people, if I come home from work and catch you in bed with one I will cut your head off with a machete ".

Of course I told him where he can go, and that I would never marry a nut like him, and in his nutty little mind he thinks that I rejected him because I am really a gay man and that is why he calls me evil. This dude need some serious mental help.

Martin0:
Hmmmmm this story is Gargantuan! A whole year's!

Three years.

Martin0:
This is serious!
Who is this guy

I don't know who he is but I know that he is mentally and emotionally disturbed.

lefulefu:
hmm for real he said dat?

Yes he did, ask him he won't deny it.

Cladez:
LOL its a pity he couldn't deal with the rejection for years.But how on earth do you marry someone you don't know.

mention me when next he attacks you.

Ok, it won't be long, he can't resit the urge to attack me. I am like a drug to him, he's addicted.

Martin0:
What? for year's

I need to go and read this convoy again and again!

I never knew this is as serious as this!

Reread that post, I added more to it.

Cladez:
This is getting extreme.Do you guys know each other outside nairaland?

No, the psychotic nutcase has been stalking and threatening me for years because I turned down his marriage proposal, and I don't hate gay people, can you believe that? I'm in America and he's in Nigeria, he has sent me messages but I never responded.

Klinee:
I don't kill innocent one but it won't take me a second to murder evil like you.

Like I said, you are a demonic ritual killer who should be pushed off the face of the earth.

Klinee:
Why do you girls find it difficult to reply a message sent to you by a man?

They don't reply to you because they know that you are a nutcase and potential murderer.

They probably read the thread where you threatened to cut off my head with a machete and cursed my family.

Ladies continue to do the safe and right thing and stay far far far away from this lunatic.

Icon79:
Hello khiaa! Wishing you and your family a most blessed 2018!!



O pari

Right back at cha!! . Wishing you a happy, blessed and prosperous new year

Icon79:
Coming to chill with my ex

Cool beans .... maybe we can meet up


O pari

Have you been here before? Are you in Nigeria?

Icon79:
Khiaa, are you really in Cali? I will be in LA in February next year. I will chilling in the Santa Monica area .... if you act nice, I can stop by and really take care of ya


O pari

I'm in Palm Springs, what's bringing you to Southern California?

Icon79:
Hey, watch your language young lady! Or else, one of my boys would hand you over to Fulani herdsmen. You will learn to fear men once the Fulani herdsmen finish relieving stress on you

I dunno why y'all fugly gurls are usually the ones with the biggest mouth



O pari

Well, they would have to come all the way to America to relieve stress on me. Fugly? Where on Nairaland have you seen my picture Mr. Intelligence?

If you want to see my pictures you would have to check the American Sites because I don't post them on this site.

Icon79:
Haha!! See this mugu! I was actually calling you the H-word but took out the "r" so I can get it thru.



O pari

Mr. intelligence why didn't you just write whor.e, I can't read your mind. But seriously don't put yourself down like that, I wouldn't call you a whor.e, maybe a sensitive little punk, but never a whor.e.

Martin0:
Oya oya make una fight my see

He asked for it.

Icon79:
Look at this airhead who'e talking about intelligence. There's nothing you can't see on the world wide web!
An airhead who can't even compose a full English sentence to save her life


O pari

Lmao It looks like I struck several nerves. Mr. Intelligence, it's who's not who'e
Why are you so sensitive, are you a female?

Icon79:
And by the way, are you sure that it wasn't you who posted the RIP photo sef?



O pari

Please try to be more intelligent than your comment.

HauteReel:
Well, I bet you never had it so good you sang the national anthem?

Singing the national anthem doesn't equate to a good time to me, you have to be much more creative than that.

OkoAnike:
Man sees beyond the painting... Hence either a woman paint or not, man will see...

I totally agree with the guy view

Now you are being a hypocrite, that's all you men do is complain about the amount of makeup the women put on their faces and how ugly they must be under all of that junk. So keep it real.
And when do men see beyond all of that caked on makeup.

A truly beautiful woman (inside as well as outside) has confidence in herself and knows that she will shine with little to no makeup at all.

Mariangeles:
SHE'S GORGEOUS!

We are both entitled to our opinion.