₦airaland Forum

zboyd:
I beg to differ.

And I'm not sensitive - just perceptive.

You can call it what you want, I still say you are very sensitive.

Truckpusher:
In that case 80% of our modern women are prostitutes.

You said it and not me.
Because we all are well aware that no average girl would want to marry a man with no money,no future and no ambition and all these things that I have mentioned are different forms of security for any woman and they are as good as having money in cash.

The question that was asked of me is......... What do I think of women who marry men JUST for money, and my answer is still a prostitute.

Women want to marry a man they love, one who can protect and provide for them and their children, one they can have a loving and happy marriage with.
Prostitutes marry JUST for money, do you see the difference?

zboyd:
Oh yes...I did. I forgot about assuming you were Nigerian. Not good!

What's with the veiled hostility?

Whatever burr is up your butt - out with it.

Why hide behind petty remarks?

I'm not being hostile, not intentionally, I'm just stating my opinions, I'm not being petty or hiding behind anything, I have been very open and clear with you, on the other hand why are you so sensitive?

lefulefu:
me is learnin some american slangs to use to toast american girls when i check in into yankee .dis pigeon english don tire me to dey use

You can practice your American slang on me.
Let me hear some!

zboyd:
What do you call women who marry men JUST for their money?

Prostitutes!!! Because they are still selling their bodies and souls for money.

zboyd:
Some American women ARE shallow just like some American men. Shallowness is just another piece of the jigsaw puzzle called human. Do you deny it? And...isn't poor judgment one of the reasons that causes some women to drop their panties, on either side of the pond?

Btw...why are you telling me I can't use the Nigerian government for the lack of morals of some people?

And why are you telling me you're not Nigerian?

What fly is up your tail?

Did you or did you not say that you assumed I was Nigerian in one of your quotes to me, well I am letting you know that I am not.

Yes people are shallow all over the world not only in America like you made it sound in your original post.
My point to you is to clean up your own backyard.

zboyd:
Yep...some women would sleep with Godzilla, if he had the cash.

No cash - no snatch!

Those are called pros.titutes.

Truckpusher:
Pishure of you rejecting the offer or.........fill in the blanks

She is only fantasizing, don't take her seriously.
The person(darkonesun) that the op quoted from is a very, very attractive African American man who has a deep dislike for African women so much untill it has become an obsession with him for years, so you know what that means.
People become obsessive with what they think they can't have. What's up with you today?

zboyd:
Very true!

Sometimes I had to really 'go ghetto' on their azzes before they left me alone.

Yeah you are right, some men will hit on anything in a skirt.

zboyd:
As a Nigerian (I'm assuming), I doubt you are ignorant of the reasons some Nigerian women fall by the wayside. Some of those reasons are not too different from those of American women...e.g... immaturity, poor judgment, lack of sex education and/or birth control, lack of parental involvement, peer pressure, poverty, victim of a sex predator, past molestation, broken home, etc. There's misery on both sides of the pond, among some Nigerian and American women.

Unlike Nigeria, the US has myriads of programs that serve to alleviate the 'deplorable conditions' some American women find themselves in - free of charge. However, you will still find some American living on the edge. Why? Either they're lazy and trifling or previously messed up, when enrolled in one of these programs. The administrators of these programs can be strict. Mess up and you're kicked out - sometimes permanently.

So...you ask why some Nigerian/African women in the US who will not date/marry Nigerian/African men.

My observations ...

SOME Nigerian/African women in the US say they will not date/marry SOME Nigerian/African men because...

...they're not as good-looking as American men
...they consider Nigerian men inferior to American men
...they want beautiful children
...they consider them too arrogant, pompous, jealous, possessive, abusive and deceitful
...they want to experience different dating options, just like Nigerian/African men
...they don't trust them, due to bad relationships, in the past
...they lie too much
...they openly express their dislike of Nigerian women and like for non-Nigerian women
...they aren't romantic
...they refuse to deal with Nigerian men's "Woman you must submit!" attitudes
...they've found that the average American man is 'house-trained'...e.g...he finds no problem pitching in to do housework, cook and help out with the kids
...they've found American men to be better lovers

LMAO
Yet you call American women shallow, and you can't use the Nigerian government for the lack of morals of some people.
Just as simply as some people can say American women should learn to keep their legs closed, this advice applies to Nigerian/African aswell.
No I am not Nigerian.

Gudiza:
Yankee tinx

These breed of blacks suffer an acute form of what I would call, the meningitismal kparakpoism of the bloedsy.

If you are African you are included in that survey. LMAO

I know who Darkonesun is, he has an attitude with African women and their snobbery (according to him) And he is very attractive. I think he is insecure with himself because he has a speach impairment.

lefulefu:
As long as ur wallet handsome nothin do u .A chimpanzee with a handsome wallet can marry the beautiful nigerian woman

LMAO So true.

zboyd:
Over here, some women will not give an "aesthetically challenged" man the time of day, no matter how fat his bank account is or who he is. And you can forget it, if it's an old geezer.

As a woman, in my dating years, I was approached numerous times by such men, thinking that I would just drop my panties because they drove a snazzy car, dressed well and flashed money. NOPE!!!

Hmmm...looking back...some of these men rained all kinds of nasty names down on my head, because I didn't fall for their bait.

Ahhh...memories!!!

Ahhhh....... fantasies!!!

zboyd:
No...I've never been called ugly.

However, I do know that most of the women I've known pre-marriage and post-marriage refuse/d to date Nigerian/African men because they deem them too black and ugly.

Also, there is a saying over here: "Think about how your kids are going to come out!" when deciding who to date and mate with.

Shallow?

Absolutely!

Looks trump character in some women's minds over here.

And that's why you see some of them in the deplorable conditions they're in.

So what are the reason that some Nigerian women are in the deplorable conditions they are in, (single unwed mothers, multiple abortions, greed)?

There are some Nigerian/African women in the US who will not date/marry Nigerian/African men, why is that?

Bunchersstab:
Honey am making plans to bring you over to Nigeria...
This is your home, we would raise our kids here, they need 2 learn/know our culture/traditions.

I have a good man who luvs me.
It would be so wonderful to be wrapped in your strong arms. You would be a loving husband and father.

GoodFaith:
I want to be hopeful
but the facts are the facts
The biggest challenges facing black America
Lot and lot of black men in jail
Teenage pregnancy-----kids having kids
number of black men graduating high school/
Going to colleges or having trades are just too low

And that concerns you how? You are just jealous of the ops opinion on black American men, hence your rants against them, you should be concern with your African brothers living in squalor in the US, put your concern and attention on them, they need your help not AAM.
How are African American women your problem/concern?


PS...... Did you really abort your own child?

KingTom:
Fixed!!!!!

How dare you!!!
How have you been Mr. Kingtom?

LMAO
Just because he hasn't had sex with a woman doesn't mean he's a virgin. Ladies beware of the down-lows because Nigeria has many many many of them. lol

Truckpusher:
.....Honestly, I have suffered in your hands today.
Someone should help and yank me off from here before I'd be totally dehumanized.

Aaaaah!!! Come here Truckpusher, a little bit closer.... right there. *gives him a great big bear hug* You will be ok, I will leave you alone, for now.
Goodnite.

Truckpusher:
So you're aware and at the same time attributing that bittersweet tittle to me.
Why do you want to destroy this poor boy's good reputation?


You owe me an apology.

Ok Truckpusher, I AM SORRY .........that you are a womanizer.

Truckpusher:

That tittle doesn't go down well with chicks these days.

When a woman calls you a ladies man she is indirectly calling you a womanizer.

lol EXACTLY!!!

Truckpusher:
I'm blushing

I forgot to add that you are a ladies man also.

GoodFaith:
Look at ten African America family
Look at the member of girls in your family and the number of boys
If there are 10 girls and 10 boys
6 of the girls might likely have a university /trade education
why likely JUST ONE OF THE BOY have a college/trade education
If you are an African American look an your family
Tell us the number of boy with education and girls with education
I Repeat LOT OF black girls with college /trade cannot find black men with equal level
There are a BIG shortage of black men WITH EDUCATION /TRADE
Stop playing

I'm done with you and your ignorant opinions, besides what do all of your jibber jabber has to do with the topic?

Truckpusher:
You dont get it,do you?

I'm an enigma.
The harder you try to figure me out the harder it becomes for you.FACT.

You are not as hard as you pretend to be, you like to call yourself a typical African male, which you are not the typical, you are alot more opened mineeeeneded. lol I have seen alot of closed minded stubborn typical/proper African men on this web-site and you are not one of them, if you were you and I could not have a decent conversation.
That's how I see you.

Truckpusher:
So, tell me .Am I so easy to figure out?

You already answered your own question when you said I would make a good psychologist.

Truckpusher:
Hiaan! You'd make one hell of a psychologist.

Well some people are easy to figure out.

Truckpusher:
I dont know ,after all we always appear dumb in your eyes until we change it for you.

Well you called me a liar so you must have known the reason why.
I don't think you are dumb at all.

dre11:
She is using words to twist what I did see.. ..
Hope am not breaking the line of communication sha

What do you think you saw?

Wait, who are you talking about?

Truckpusher:
Women, always one step ahead with intelligent lies... smh

So what do you think I'm lying about?

dre11:
I can feel some love in the air btw khiaa and.......

Hello Dre, what's up? There is nothing between me and........
We were in a deep conversation and I was letting him know that we were still cool, thats all.

Truckpusher:
Khiaa ,those adjectives,gullible and lazy wasn't for you.It was solely for my so-called Nigerian brothers and sisters that will shoot and ask questions later.

You still wuv me?....Your wuv would kill me o and I dont want die young yet.
At least if I die let it be for a worthy cause and not for puccy. ......You would be so angry at this,right?

LMAO I'm not angry at all, you are a funny guy.
When I say that I WUV you I mean no hard feelings we are still cool.
I don't WUV my honey, I LOVE him, so don't worry he won't harm you.