₦airaland Forum

Beverlypie:
im not in the state, but those white folks are everywhere. I give them my change when I have any. I can’t really blame them. It takes true sickness to understand the value of health and true hardship to understand opportunity when u see one.
Some of urs had the opportunity to experience hardship before comfort so we will never abuse it.

Some of those guys don’t really understand what life is all about.

I don't give a damn what happens to white people, all they have shown is wickedness in this country to all people who are not white throughout the history of the United States and still today.

I could careless if they fell of the face of the Earth, the planet would be so much better without them on it. I wonder how many Nigerians you showed the same compassion for when you were there.

PS..If you don't blame them for their behavior who is responsible for it?Doing drugs was a choice that they made. You brought up my people, well they have always had hardship in this country due to the injustice of the people you chose to lay down with and show unreturned compassion for.

abuyus:
Hi every1,i was in my tailors shop 2collect my cloth bt un4tunately i met her absence so i decided 2 wait 4 her,during d cos of waiting i noticed a woman in that house cooking because d house was built 2geder wit d shop.U knw it's a face me i slap u where u cook behind ur door step.After d woman is done cooking d children brought d plates,she then asked d son 2 bring a warmer 4 dia dad d boy was like give me my own 1st dad is nt around.D mother said no ur dad comes 1st because he is d head of d family so she dished d food & put 2 big meats,gave d children food and she had to eat d last portion in d pot wit 1 meat.As i was looking at her dish her own food i had to ask her y she had 2 serve her husband 1st& give him d best meat.She replied saying;he is d head and deserved 2be treated as one.she said he comes first in everything she does &seeks his opinion on every matter.i was amazed & couldn't say a word more until my tailor came& told me dat is her way of life.d hubby also resiprocate d gesture.dey ar married4 14ys

Feed those babies first, his grown ass can wait.

2buffagain:
It is, isn't it?

This is why I don't even give change to akata/white-people begging in the streets.
You have a blue passport/citizenship. That's all you need to be successful in this yankee....if you want to be.

To add to the fact that this hobo citizen also likely voted for Trump and blames me for his condition instead of his own laziness...Nigga isn't getting a dime of my compassion pennies. It's as dumb as some idiot from the north voting for Buhari, and then coming to beg me for money on my street. The nerve.

When I see those meth head white junkies begging on the street I just laugh and think "What a waste of white privilege." Those sorry homeless opioid son of a Bytches have moved on the mountain in my neighborhood.

They are living under cardboard boxes with so much junk surrounding them and are stinking up the neighborhood.

I called Code Enforcement to get them out but because they are white they have the complection for the protection and nothing is being done about it.

We are holding a community meeting in our park next month to discuss solutions to get rid of those foul demons. They should not be around our children. It is illegal for them to squat on that beautiful mountain, but you know the rest.

kneehighbootz:
flyca, you're a god. You're my WCE ( Woman Crush Everyday). I like the way you said the truth, no bullshit.
God bless you and continue to bless you forever.
As for OP, Beverlypie, you're a scammer and you only initiated that marriage for the green card or passport just like your other scamming black brethren.

Its black men like you that hawk yourselves for passports to countries that men like you built and established and then you turn around to abuse black women.

For passports, men like you are ready to sleep with even a white corpse just to stay in a foreign country. My sincere wish is that that white woman deals severely with you. By the time she's through with you, you will forget your own name.

Scammer!!!!

LMAO "Sleep with a white corpse". That's GOLDEN.

Beverlypie:
Hi N’landers.

This is a new moniker for privacy reasons. Pls I would really appreciate some mature advise, well I know it won’t come without criticism or abuse either.

I’ve been in an interracial marriage for a few yrs now(actually less than 5yrs). I won’t give exact figures just to remain anonymous. It’s started as a long distance relationship which lasted for about 3-4 yrs before we finally met and got married. She’s been everything in the world to me ever since our relationship started.
She believed in me and trusted me despite the stereotype about Naija people, peoples comments and what comes up in the news daily about us.

We got married in Naija and few months after our marriage, I migrated to live with her and we’ve been living together ever since then.

But things haven’t been too rosy since we’ve gotten together, it’s always been ups and downs just like every other relationship. Our culture clashed several times.

We are a few years apart with her being on the high side even though u can’t really guess the difference. And that caused a bit of insecurities and false accusations towards me even though there was not tangible evidence against me, as I have always been faithful to her..

Then came in a little bit of jealousy when I got my first job, it escalated into financial disputes and family feud as I don’t really have the best relationship with her kids... but they have a good relationship with their father and they spend time with him always. I never get into any arguments with them or treat them badly.I just don’t have a deep connection with them because in my own word, I find them disrespectful and abit lazy. But still do the necessity for them.

After I got a job, I wanted to save up to repay my loans, to have another qualification and also to establish myself in a foreign land. But with that being said, my priority was my share of the house bills which I was paying about 50% for the 4 of us in the house as the kids are still in school.

The arguments never seems to end, from money issue, to personal issues. Even to the extent that she would call me different names. Called me scammer and all sorts even though she knew I can never scam anybody. She became really abusive and maybe toxic that I went into mild depression and anxiety as she was all I had here when I came. I wanted to end the relationship and move on but I really love her and she’s gone through a lot with me. I didn’t want to give up on her so fast because I know deep down she loves me and wanted our Marriage to work.

My conscience won’t just let me walk out, but there was no progress.... one minute we’re sweet lovers the next minute we might be yelling at each other.

She knows my pay rate but still tell people I was not honest because she doesn’t see my payslips, I felt like most of the time she’s playing the victims card.
She doesn’t support the idea of me having a side savings to pursue my careers or whatever. But she wasn’t against it 100% either

We don’t have any kid together even though we both dreamt about it but unfortunately our chances of having kids is gently fading away....but she never see it as a big deal, even though I explained what having own kids means to us in Africa.

She always tell me to leave the house at every provocation then turn around and say she didn’t mean it for me to leave. I’ve recently moved out just to be happy again, I still miss her and she’s regret her actions and been begging to come back. All the sweet memories of us still plays in my head. But I really don’t know if going back into that house is a wise decision.
She’s got a very beautiful heart but unfortunately her emotions gets hold of her most of the time.

Please people who have gone through separation or divorce, how did u handle living without someone who has been a big part of your life for so long.

Have you gotten your Green card yet? That's the most important thing right, otherwise those years you spent with her would have been in vain. If you have received your Green card you are on the right track, stay where you are don't go back, and for goodness sake don't get that girl pregnant.

I think it is so hypocritical that Nigerian men wont marry or even date single mothers in Nigeria but will jump for joy to marry an older foreign hoodrat with multiple children still living in the home who he helps support.

That Green Card is a hell of a motivator.

yeyeosoronga:
No rapist deserves happiness. Infact, they shall end their lives in misery. Poverty shall follow them, and they shall be despised by all those around them. They will seek mercy but will never find it. They shall die in shame, and their corpse eaten by dogs. Infact, after their death, they will continue their punishment in hell.
For now, till their miserable deaths, we the world people are happy to deal with them here on earth

To Yah ears, AMEN.

WorWorBoy2:
Better to worship white jesus than to worship black devil.
We are Nigerians, we don't care what you think about us.

The white Jesus is the devil created by white European men.

Bigcowhorn:
Tell the guy I'm willing to bet 100 bucks and my love for Khiaa that his father cheated like a motherfucker. All his mother needs is to goggle private investigation firms and make an appointment somewhere.

LMAO You need a few wacks on your butt with my leather belt.

OiOi:
I know you hate yourself, I know you hate being a rapist. self-aknowledgment is the first step to solving problems.
I know you crave joy, which is OK. But you can only get joy when you give up your sinful ways of raping young boys and girls. Give your life to Christ and repent of your evil ways. Restitution is necessary.
I am sorry for calling you Aunty khia khiaa which is an acronym for Sapele water. I know you have a regretful childhood but Jesus loves you.
You just need to forgive and forget about about the past. Let christ take control of your life

Like I said prior, your atempt at reverse psychology is a failure, you have to be much cleaver than this when dealing with me. TRY HARDER.
PS. I don't worship your white Jesus, that's the reason most of you Nigerians are so docile to white people.

OiOi:
I don't want to be going back and forth with you, trying to destroy you verbally. You started with the insult so I will be the bigger man and forgive you.
I just want you to be a better person. You are seeing the world through a KEYHOLE, why not open the door and get a better view of life ?? see the world as it really is.
I hope one day you will remember this post. I pray you find joy someday.

Your atempt at psychology is a failure. My life is joyful, I just hate rapist and rapist sympathizers.

chidiebereuzoma:
I would never hit you khiaa, even if I do, it's only gonna be with the feather of a dove.

...still hopeful of getting your reply.
Happy Nobraday

You are so sweet. Happy no bra day, I don't think so.

OiOi:
if I am weak, how will I have strength to rape like you ehen? Mad woman like you.

You are mentally weak, which means your soul is seriously damaged.

OiOi:
you are a wretched excuse for an animal.
Am 100% sure your fada will be rolling in his grave right now

Rolling in his grave and wanting to choke your sorry rapist ass.

OiOi:
we should be asking you, a blackmailing machine
How many boys u used to call "my love'' and buy sweet for have u raped? How many primary school boys have you molested ehen! Aunty Khia khiaa!
Blackmailing and Harassing people sexually no be work oo. Go find better job
Your children will taste out of every evil you sow oo
All your life you stereotype all men as rapist. I put it to you, you are a mad and lonely dejected soul. Am sure your fada must be rolling in his grave right now for calling him a rapist. Ode girl

I see I struck a nerve that made you go on a long rant. You are a weak pathetic little rapist.

OiOi:
me I will hit you with a 2 by 4.
Crooked ignorant thing with a bad set of teeth

LMAO You would hit me wit a 2x4 and rape me like the Savage beast that you are. With your hideous face raping a girl is the only way you would get the puna.

OiOi:
you are an unintelligent dolt. So you couldn't sleep because of what I said?? Regardless, this beast is old enough to be your father..

How do you figure that I couldn't sleep because of the stupidity that comes out of your brain? So you are a male, that explains it, a rapist defending another rapist. How many children/girls have you raped?

OiOi:
your father is dead because of the way he thinks... And I an afraid you tolling his path too
Unlike you, I don't go around trying to bring other women's weddings to a stop because I am unable to get a man for to want me

My father is dead and no longer has a brain just as yourself, you are brain dead. Where in your warped brain did you come to the conclusion that the op of the story or myself couldn't get a man or don't have a man?

That's what's wrong with idiots like you, so desperate to get married you will marry any man, even a sorry ass rapist beast just to say you have a husband. You are a SAD excuse for a woman.

OiOi:
I think like your father. The only difference is "I am not a blackmailer" and I don't disrupt other women's weddings''.
And don't bother to quote me Again.
DON'T BE UNFORTUNATE

My father is dead so that explains your lack of common sense. You don't even have the common sense to differentiate blackmailing from an honest warning of the nature of the beast she is planning to marry.

You sympathize with this beast because you are one and the same. This beast will rape his on wife. Once she marries him she will see the true nature of the beast.

sheggsliveth:
Make your research... They brought it when colonising Africa

They did not bring it from colonising it was already in Africa. They learned it, changed it to make the ignorant of it submissive and brought it to the Africans who didn't know of it.

Young03:
The stories in the Bible are all scams

After Abraham and Co married there half sisters without any genetic effect, the same people that put up the story twisted it and made it look like nobody should marry his sister to avoid a generational curse, my grandpa married one of his father's wife and begoth sons and daughters with her. And nothing happened

Lastly My book of Bible stories are fictions

Your Grandpa was not related to his father's wife therefore it would not have affected the bloodline.

sheggsliveth:
Take it or leave it, RELIGION IS A BIG SCAM BY WHITE PEOPLE..., Black people pray for every thing while white people make research

White people did not create Christianity, Africans did. Whites added, took away from the bible and changed the word, which is an abomination. RESEARCH.

OiOi:
There is a fine line between being a hater/destroyer and seeking justice .
If this truly happened when the two of them were kids according to the text the lady shared, she should have forgiven and moved on.
As a teenager, alot of us made decisions due to peer pressure. Given another chance, we wouldn't make such decisions because we are grown and matured now.
Just because of what she posted on Facebook doesn't mean the marriage won't still proceed. She will later realize she's trying to spoil another lady's joy
That was how one of my old time gf that I had a bad breakup with started messaging me on whatsapp and trying to bring up our past sexual escapedes... I just told her loud and clear that I never recall having anything to do with her like that talkless of being at my house before She felt bad and stopped messaging me. Men! use your brain when chatting... Even with your present gf... Women can be very funny atimes

Imagine having a girl come to your place without being invited, you both had sex without her being forced, after that you both talked and sh!t, she left your place and when you called her she responded fine that she loves you too. Only to come on whatsapp and be telling you you raped her!!...

"Forgive and move on" you think like an idiot. Was that Savage beast and his friends made accountable for their actions? All of them should go to jail. If that girl marry that Savage beast after hearing the truth she deserves every bad thing that happens to her. Who knows if rape is a pattern in his life.

Usually Savage rapist have more than one victim. A woman being raped is a horrific, terrifying experience even moreso for a virgin. She will be mentally scarred for life and you have the nerve to say "forgive and move on" when the Savage rapist hasn't asked for forgiveness.

He isn't remorseful. Being a teenager isn't an excuse for his Savage behavior. Imagine how you would feel if a man raped your A-hole, would you forgive and move on?

ibkayee:
You should probably leave him

Probably?

Hintona:
So I'm in a relationship with this really cute guy, tall, dark and handsome but he's always hitting me for the littlest things, it's getting too much we are course mates and he even hits me in front of our fellow course mates. But they usually take it as a joke, to me it's not, I hate it and I've talked to him several times but he always apologises and does it again the next second though he has never beaten me seriously, I hate the knocks on the head and the slaps on the back.

what do I do?

Every bad thing that he does to you is YOUR fault because YOU allow it. Stop being STUPID and dump him. Don't you have any brothers or male cousins to look after you? If you do, they should beat his ass.

My brothers would beat a guy down if he laid his hands on me, they always say, if a man hits me they better hit me with a feather.

compton11:
yeah,u know through Asian indented workers

My ancestors weren't connected with those workers.

0KNM:
What you think this is? Some jokes? I’m making some chess moves on you. You just a pawn

You are beneath my level of intelligence, you can't win. You aren't cunning enough.

compton11:
some are,like James Brown.

Same can be said of whites and other races but it is not the norm for black Americans.

0KNM:
I don’t have your time

You threaten to expose my info and I'm giving you the ok to do so. Stop punking out.

0KNM:
Boniface, you don’t tell me what to do. You’re trying to set me up for van. I’m way smarter. You can’t wait to hit the report button. Can you? Shame on you.

I don't report people I have more fun clowning them instead. So go ahead, I like to see what information you come up with.

0KNM:
Fucka

Keep true to your word and give my information, nobody will ban you Alice.

0KNM:
I don’t want to get banned. So I’ll just stop at this

Back to my question, How much?

Sucka!