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Sister @Op.

Some days I wonder what ladies do with there head... OK so if you see another man that has better qualities than the new catch you would change your mind again.... Yoruba's have a name for your type its alainitelorun,okanjuwa,olojukokoro(if you dont understand look for translator).

The both of them you do not deserve them I swear, what gives you the assurance that the new guy would want to keep you when he knows you left a relationship to jump on this one... Build what you have and if you can't, if you wise enough to abandon your bird in hand for a demon you just met then my word can't be enough for your wise.

Dont stress yaself because if you leave the bird for the demon sister that relationship already has a faulty foundation and you know the remaining story... You saw something that endeared you to the first rekindle it and atop looking for who or what didn't lost and if you can't leave the brother and go you go get sense.

kingeze88:
I Opened My Wife's Bag In Search Of My Wristwatch, See What I Saw After 8 Years In Marriage.
I have been living a righteous and faithful life before I got married, now that I am married, the whole story changed. At first I trusted my wife so much that made me believe every single thing she says, not knowing she is another thing entirely.

I was at home this faithful day, I got a call from my customer that I should come for the money he promised to give me, I quickly went to the bathroom, took a shower, put on a shirt, then I can't find my wristwatch, during this period, my wife was not at home, I was confused totally, I couldn't think straight, I had to carry my wife's bag closer to see if I can find her wristwatch.





While I was searching her bag, I saw a small nylon, I opened it and found an inhaler, I was shocked and I thought maybe it's not for her, not until I found an hospital report in an envelope, my wife's full name was written on this letter, and the doctor reported that she shouldn't miss any of her drug, advised her to do away from taking cold drinks and to keep the inhaler close to herself anywhere she go.

I started thinking, I began to ask myself various questions; is my wife an asthmatic patient? , how could she hide such secret from me after 8 years in marriage, or am I dreaming?

Readers, I need your advice and opinion, is that kind of woman a good house wife? Can I trust her even with my life, please do not hesitate to advice me, thank you for reading.

Dont accuse an innocent woman.... My maternal family had an history of asthma not all the children had the asthma however my maternal uncle all of a sudden in old age developed the symptoms and was given an inhaler with test results.... Should his wife say after 15 years of marriage are husband as lied to her? The question you should be asking is how can you manage the situation on ground I.e the asthma and the concurrent lifestyle changes than looking for a fight and also clarify things with her. Abeg dont go and cause trouble in your home

It is stories like this that use to pain my brain....

OP! Op!! Op!!! How many times have I called you? Mr Op ask yourself what you want then you know the answer to the question and what to do already.

Please what sort of NGO are you operating so I can come and apply? Cause its obviously that is what you have become to the Ibom gal. The fact that you have the resources now should you become a spendthrift people are looking to consolidate there fortune you turn NGO.... Not your fault sha seems you have mommy issues.

For the Yoruba lady tell your friends to kindly block her number then for you when next she threatens suicide ask her which does she want. The sniper version, 3rd mainland bridge version, phone charging version or trailer version...... Anyone she chooses kindly assist her in achieving her dreams because you have turn to savior of the world.



Instead of you to use your young 27year old brain to be thinking forward its leeches and idiot that you bothered about.... Flush the both of them off your life if not for your self remember you have a child who should not be a victim of stupid people.

Ineedtoheal:
Thanks sis. I'm praying for the will power to do that. it's as if I am powerless when it comes to him.

@Ineedtoheal

Hmmmm sweetheart you are on a customer service call that no one is going to answer. I categorically would put it to you that you don't love yourself or value yourself cause if you do you won't tolerate this.

Babe on behalf of yourself ehen I beg you stand before a mirror and acknowledge yourself for a job weldone. This is a relationship and not a marriage. You didn't even set standards for yourself and you hoping this man would marry you. I pray he doesn't self cause this Bobo won't ever treat you right and its all your fault. Babe nothing like 50-50 its 100-100 if you can't get the full package then no useless commitment or you think this man would somehow change his attitude.

Babe run abeg we have too much gory stories about marriage don't even wish he marries you. Forget the years and start over but start with a good self image of yourself.

You are well loved babe

Mr Brother, Should I call this a self esteem issue or what. How do guys still go for ladies who tell you they have someone on the sideline? Why would you chose to be an option. Bros when and if the obodo oyinbo brother comes around this babe who follow forget all this your she lobe you I love am....

Yes she ticks all your boxes but calm down she also had made a choice earlier on with the obodo brother and her family is aware of the choice. With her actions its very clear you can't put this goat in your house cause when she sees another yam she would chow(I could be wrong sha ooo) or you also don't plan on going on courses or travelling that could cause distance between you both.

Oga take a step back lemove lobe from your eyes and think deeply. The person that spoil another person own so his own would be better hmmnn I don't know the outcome oooohhjj

Ma, let your husband perform a DNA test to confirm if indeed he is the Father, if positive make your husband fulfil his duties to his son otherwise someday you might be to blame. I said that because your husband seem like one who likes to blame everyone except himself for his action( pardon me I could be wrong). Am also sorry to say you can hardly avoid the baby mama trouble because with her recent gimmicks she looks like a trouble maker. You would have to wear the garment of patience and wisdom to keep your home because with his relationship with the child would give the baby mama a lot of access. No one request you love the child as your own but a word is enough for the wise if you need your husband in your life you would have to accommodate that child as much as possible

After a long famine villagers would bring basins out even if it is an eagle that peed from the heavens.

Massey27:
I don't have plans of hubby and I taking the child. I only want him to do good by his son if the baby is truly his. Number 4 which is the baby mama drama is what I am not ready for.
And the lady going all out to change her name's on Facebook and adding hubby's name even changing her relationship status to recently married to husband makes me certain she will cause a lot of drama. She has been called by my brother in law with hubby's directive to take down his/ their family name because she is not a wife and has never been, but she has not done that.

My office is in Yaba and I live far off In ayobo, I’ve researched online and I’m wondering if it could be the blood pressure? Because I have researched so much online[/quote]Its the stress that is the challenge. Could you get an apartment closer to your office or even a place to scot for the week days and go home for the weekend? The stress for commuting alone is enough to cause different symptoms.

Sounds like we work in the same office. Oga 26years old the only solution for your problem as said before is take a vacation. The type that you off your phone, internet, and even your brain.... Except you do this you would keep treating what is not there and doctors would find something that did not lost.