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Giel:
Bella has just 2 letters left to look for now

M and T

Go Bella Go
Go Bella go!!!

Big Bella For A Reason!!!

Go Bella, go Bella go!!!

Giel:
When they last showed her table I think she had about 6 letters left.

Chaiiiii!


My cousin is home now, lemme join you in cheerleading

Giel:
Lmao Drag me small small
I no dey shout again. Jor

As Biggie no want make my girl win innoson task make he carry im car dey go
Riggie Biggie out in full force again

Has she gotten any letter? How many?

If Danny wins, that'll be crazy. Come on the show, collect orgasm and car. Choiiii!

safarigirl:
If I have phobia for balloons, not sure I'd even be able to step into a pit like that.

I fit just begin dey cry.

Haaaaa! This is really serious

Giel:
I'm not even interested again.

See as our babe dey shake when person burst balloon near her.

Biggie you didn't try at all.
No wonder she isn't burst the balloons she is just opening them.

No be you suppose dey shout go Bella, go Bella?


He really didn't. One would expect them to know this basic things about the housemates to prevent situations like this. Riggie Biggie.

damiviolet:
Ewwwwww the thought of it self makes me cringe......if u burst balloon beside me I fit bite u

Wow. That's something. Sorry about it though.

I don't like the sound of it getting burst too.

damiviolet:
Same here I don't like it
I have a friend that can not even touch it at all

Haaaa!

What does it do to you guys? I never hear this kain thing before keh

Giel:
Yes she is oh and he'll make sure she wins as she's scared of balloons.
Thanks you !!!!!

Omo! How many letters has she gotten?

For Big Bella!

Giel:
Na wa oh.
See what Chomzy said Bella is scared of balloons
Chaii, God still do it for my Bella

Ahnahn. Bellarina, which kain phobia be this?

Giel:
My Bella
Not our?

You are still not voting for our girl?

No oooo. She's our girl for life keh. I was referring to her being God's baby girl.

I'll vote tonight or tomorrow, for you sha.

Eeghe:
God, ignore everyone being disrespectful of a brand new car, and still bless them with cars….
People can disrespect money o chim

God, I'm not being disrespectful but please, bless me with a car. I'll goan learn how to drive very soon.

Giel:
Spell out innoson ivm connect by popping the balloons before them and doing this wins them the car.

Praying for you Bella to win.
Once you find a letter you must go back to your table and place it there before going back to search for more letters.
This means you must search for one letter at a time.
Any housemate caught with more than one letter will be disqualified.

There are 3 baskets before them
If they find a letter they don't need. They should put it in any one of the baskets.

If they litter the pit by dropping their unwanted letters there. They will be disqualified.

They are only allowed to pop one balloon at a time using their hands. They must pick up the balloon, pop it and check it's contents before they proceed. If they fail to do so, they be disqualified.

God please, do it for your Big Bella.

Eeghe:
Chomzy would have legit won the car

I remember one season when the discourse here was about how horrible and cheap the Innoson win/car is- I do not remember the season and the motive now, but it surely happened

We do have sacrilege on here from time to time sha

SMH/Lol at once

Pepper dem. I can't remember the motive too but I remember the fanbases that got into a fight because of it.

Sweetpink:
My dear,I’m getting better. Thank you
Tacha and Erica’s disqualification didn’t make me shed any tear but I found myself mourning like I lost someone so precious to me.
Thank you for checking on me
How’s your boy doing?

This cracked me up

Sorry Tati

Physical abuse doesn't just appear from no where, it's a continuation of other form of abuses in relationships and marriage. You can't possibly draw the line at Physical abuse when ignoring the abuses that lead to it. It starts with emotional abuse, depriving your partner of your space and presence, we heard Segun threaten Bella with this. He said and I quote, "if we were outside, you wouldn't try this shiit with me because I'd ghost you, not break up ooo, I'll ignore you". Emotional abuse is a tool to weaken the resolve of a partner and bend or change them into doing tour biddings.


When abusers don't succeed with emotional abuse, they proceed to verbal abuse. Verbal abuse is a tool used in ridiculing, demeaning, manipulating, bullying and controlling one's partner, we heard and watched how well Segun used this in just 9 weeks of meeting the love of his life. Most of the time, abusers get the job of intimidating and subduing their partners at this point done because their partners would rather not get on the bad side of the abusive lovers and bam! They're tamed.

For the abusers that don't get what they want with verbal abuse, they proceed with the very popular and widely "accepted form" of abuse, physical abuse. There isn't much to say here, we all see the result of physical abuse, often times, it ends with obituaries. With no solid rebutting from Segun, Bemi's video is a proof of how horrible this man can get.


No one hates Segun, I mean, I don't. If he learns from this, he'd be a better man for it and will go on to have a beautiful relationship or marriage. I'll get loads of yumyum from that , so, I'm for it . But would he know the gravity of his actions if we don't call him out? How would he know he needs help if we keep cuddling him. He's 27 in few months, he isn't a child, his mates are raising families, so, while I agree that he has enough years to unlearn and grow, his age will not be a ground for excusing his abusive patterns.


Again, we can’t draw the line at domestic abuse, while overlooking the abuses that lead to it. Ki olorun ma so gbogbo wa because ko ye ki a re su.

Giel:
My 5'7 biggest Bella. my small but mighty, my babe wey no wan gree say she small LMAO
Asin
The forgiving spirit is too much. She must learn how to keep small malice just small one

I don talk my own before sha, when she comes out on Sunday with her 100 million prize as winner of Bbnaija s7 level up, I want her to give all these Housemates space, all of them. No friendship, not even cordial relations, just hi and bye

Orente. Do you understand yoruba? Orente na fine babe wey small but get shakara, shakara in a good way ooo.

Big Bellaaaaaa 100M, purrrrrrrrrr. I hope our former in-laws voted sha, the money must come home.


I don't even care for her friendship with them because I know she'd be able to handle whatever comes with it. It's the abusive relationship I want her to shut down. Hopefully, Ugegbe comes through with the hard resetting that she needs to pull this off.

I can't believe she's a finalist. Omo! Wetin we no read hereeee back then. Big Bella elemi 9plus!

nazablossom:
This is serious

It's more serious than this. There are other allegations but I really can't be bothered about those ones.

Nhazeru:
Them abuse you, you no gree mention name, you snap picture of a broken leg without a face post so you can get engagement for your channel, you've deleted all the pictures and videos on your page, why are you running? Wetin dey pursue you? Why did you suddenly put your page on private?

If truly you were abused come out clean and talk, stop hiding through corners.

She didn't mention names probably because she was scared? If he broke her leg because they had a disagreement, it's okay for her to be scared and not want to mention his name, because who knows, he might take her life next.

Why she no go run? You want her to relive the trauma of being associated with him? You want her to get attacked by SheggFC like they've been doing to everyone who has called him out for being an abuser?

His mum also put her account on private before deleting it, wetin dey pursue her?

If truly Shegg is innocent, he should counter and deny everything she accused him off in the video.

Nhazeru:
Them abuse you, broke your leg, no arrest was made and all this happened in UK of all places... If you believe this you are a dunce!!

And if you doubt the possibilities of this happening, you're a bigger dunce. You're acting like victims are always quick to come forward. Do you the number of years it took before R.Kelly's victims found their voices and decided to speak? Why do you think victims will be quick to speak when we've enablers like you that are quick to doubt their stories?

Osinachi was popular, had bigger platform than Bemi, was supposedly surrounded by the church and notable people. Yet, no one knew she was being abused until her husband killed her.

Don't let the emotions of a supportive fan cloud your judgement, isn't it out of line that a man would suddenly assume that there are women accusing him of being an abuser if he had no skeleton in his cupboard?


Na today partners dey dey abusive in the UK?

Quadruple2:
Hmmmm

The emotions behind this write up is heavy.
Seems like you've been with an abuser before?

A ma ni resu keh

Giel:

My loving, sweet, kind hearted biggest Bella wey no dey carry anybody for mind, she no fit hold grudge for anyone at all. If she fight with you, she lets it go and moves on. And she can even defend you later like she's doing with Rachel now.
And That has been her personality from day 1.
My consistent babe, from day 1 to now. Consistent in her kind, forgiving personality. Even when I want her to hold grudges small she no fit.

I still can't believe she claims she's 5'7 . Dramatic konkolo Bella.

She must learn that grudges before coming out ooooo

Giel:
Bella dey carry friendship for head sha
This my kind hearted forgiving Bella

2 times now Bella has gone to speak for Rachel and try to mend things for Rachel
Last night she spoke to Chizzy to settle things between him and Rachel
Now she's speaking to Phyna to try and settle things with her and Rachel


Chai.
My babe with good heart
Chaii

Sweet like sugar, coconut head big Bella.

Just remembered Segun tried to pin his abusive tendencies on Bella in the interview with Elozonam . God abegggg. Drag this boy to kirikiri plissss, he should be there for 12 harrrrrrrrrrssssss!

Ladies get away with emotional abuse, all the listed ladies used as example got disqualified but Olumose stayed till he was evicted. Abuse is abuse, doesn't matter if it was done in a loud or low voice. We know who has gotten away with being an abuser on the show but...

ItisHi:
Edo witches make una kill unaselves

The funniest bbn clique ever

Geezeem:
I don't know this person and will not comment on what I wasn't privy to

.... till Bella comes out I say

If i ask you to list out what Sheggz did and how many times he did it in 9 weeks, will you oblige me?

I once asked someone here to list the things Sheggz did for Bella that was positive, I wasn't taken up on that challenge

We will not lump this, we will break it down... bits by bits. I challenge you to it, list the ways he was good and the ways he was bad to Bella.... let's see the side that has more actions

I hate that Sheggz is in denial over his actions.... I truly hate this from the dept of my heart.

But I understand it 100%

Men hating feminists should not send this young man to early retirement. He is someone's child!

Everyone deserves a break and second chance, including other contestants I drag here

If this is what this is to you, I'll refrain from engaging you on this.

ItisHi:
there are more dark side to that abuser. You are yet to see half of it I tell you.

You wait till he exhibits that side before you label him. For now, let's leave that label for madam who dey that has bragged about doing it.

Geezeem:
Don't loose your sleep if he gets gigs though

I wouldn't even loose sleep if Who dey wins, why would I loose sleep if he gets gigs? Good for him, he'd have enough money to seek for help if he's honest enough to face his demons.

Geezeem:
I think you people should dig up evidences to shame him into acceptance

Muddling his name will keep making him defensive and will yield no fruits.

His so called ex should speak up now that he is out, so he can tell his own side of the story!

Hawk.... I agree that Sheggz did abuse Bella a few times verbally, I also admit he was out of the line a lot.... but I honestly do think this thing was and is still being blown out of proportion

A lot of woman are projecting on this.. a whole lot.

Women who were so abused are getting triggered by this matter, it's even an indication that they haven't healed properly!

They should use this revelation to get help too

Bella also need help, so she knows what is acceptable and what is not in a relationship. She admitted to having chopped lots of breakfasts in the past.... something gotta be wrong in that nah

Sheggz could even be a pattern for her

Plus Sheggz denying whatever doesn't mean he hasn't gotten what the buzz is about. At the quiet of his own space, I am sure this is there staring at him.

However, his opportunities in life shouldn't be destroyed for participating in a reality show. He has his profession and family to consider.... so I understand his defence on this, rightly or wrongly. He is only 27years!

None of them has ever allowed their bad outing on the show to mar their careers, Sheggz shouldn't be any different pls

If Bemi's broken leg didn't shame him into acknowledgement, acceptance and seeking for help, who says our tweets will do anything? The same tweets he read but still went ahead to make viewers look like fools by saying we jumped to conclusion because of the video from bemi.

We aren't muddling his name, he spent nine weeks doing that to himself. His words, his actions muddled his name.

"His soul called ex" will not speak up, she doesn't owe her abuser any clarification. If he knows he didn't do, why is he not debunking it? He only said "I know beautiful women" and "she didn't mention my name", meanwhile, pictures of them together are all over the internet. He did that shit! He referenced being tagged an abuser more than once in the house. If he wasn't guilty, why would that even cross any sane person's mind.

Few times? There are at least 10 videos, showing instances of Segun verbally and emotionally abusing Bella, you watched, I watched. The week he was the clown of the house, they fought 4 times, just in one week. How many is too many?

Yes, women haven't healed becauseit isn't something you get over in few days,week,months or years. No, we aren't projecting, we're seeing a pattern and it'd be a shame to let this happen without a smoke. Most women didn't have anyone speak for them, we wouldn't be doing that to Bella and Bemi or any other woman. Nigeria isn't a serious place, so, the law doesn't send us. We'd fight back with everything we have including shaming and deplatforming abusers.

Bella doesn't need help. Not in regards to the relationship we watched. Yes, she should learn boundaries and what healthy relationship should be like but she doesn't need help except the help is to undo the nonsense Segun has done on her in just 3 months. And no, she didn't admit to chopping lots of breakfast in the past, she had only dated 2 men before Segun and one of them, she didn't even meet because it was long distance relationship. Bella had no single blame in the hurtful dynamics of her relationship with Segun. Not one.

Then he should act it and take a break to figure himself out. The other people that have messed up didn't immediately come out to try to gaslight viewers. Ceec apologized right after the house, Tacha did same and Erica apologised twice. Yet, people still reference their Bleep ups. We won't keep quiet and let people whitewash Segun.

If his behaviour on the show would mar his career or not, that one is in his hands. If he had acknowledged and accepted his shortcomings instead of gaslighting viewers, we wouldn't be here. He should keep running his "I'm yoruba and educated" mouth.

ItisHi:
Face of an abuser and a potential rapist. He needs to be called out all the time and be shamed. We need to get rid of people like this in our community and country as a whole. #SayNoDomesticAbuse

Don't let us mix things up, plis. Na Who dey be the bolded.

safarigirl:
It's the lack of remorse that is most upsetting

Clearly this guy's narcissism is extreme. Someone who was even coached, would come out and butter the audience up.

He would have said, "I admit I made some mistakes in the house, did things I'm not particularly proud of, and came off in a manner I did not intend to come off as. I'm a flawed person, and I deeply apologize for whatever I may have put Bella or even viewers through. I'm a work in progress, and I will be speaking to people about how to most remedy this behaviour."

Instead, oga came to tell us he is exhibiting Gen Z behaviour, LIED that he and Bella only had 3 serious arguments in 9 weeks (people have created threads where he was mean and abusive to her, and it is not just three times), even accused her of being rude to him as if it justifies his reprehensible behaviour.

Sheggz is an unwise individual and everyone supporting him, especially the women, have loose knots in their heads.

When I was calling for him to be put him for eviction, this was what I wanted to happen. His actions and words were disturbing but for some reasons, I kept hoping that he probably was unaware of the extent of the damage his actions and words caused. Only for him to actually comman put a big stamp with his name boldly written on everything. God abegggg

We all understand how bbn works, we want to always support our faves but who says you can't support your fave and still stand for the truth? How can you see everything Segun did and said, the tweets and videos from Bemi&friends and not think about taking a back seat? How can you watch him deny all this and still want to baby him?