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Giel:
Chaii. Bella is so concerned for Sheggz. She says she knows people are bashing him and the Housemates are telling her not to think that way. It may not be why sheggz is sad.

Bella's family rush oh.

Kiddricashawk where are you? Light candle oh

My Giel!!!! Lookat my babe in Top3!!!! Look at our konkolo! The less deserving of love Bella! OMG! I'm going to cryyyyy

Big Bella for a reason!!! Rebellzzzz! You do this one!!! Thank you so muchhh!!!

scondy:
And pple are still looking for evidence...

Pray never to experience one.

Omo..if u leave alive...thank ur God.

If there was no camera, God! The damage he would have done. Na Bella's head go chop that slippers.

Geezeem:
That I said what?, pls provide backing for this

if I ever even said this, then I picked it from here... I don't go to Twitter

I must have quoted someone who said so. Pls screenshot that for me first

so it's her the silly boy wants to go back to? that serves him right. Bella will come out and see the way her so called rival is dragging him by the balls

Sheggz is very stupid for saying the 3rd bolded. Do you have a link to this tho?

The last bolded is one of the process of self healing. Nobody ever healed until they call to mind the role they played in their hurt/trauma. Don't take my word for it, do your research

At this stage, you are facing and acknowledging your truth, either to break a pattern or learn the lessons provided .... most people bypass this stage..... reason their healing is shallow deep

This is a topic with large scope....I wouldn't want to go into it now

Just went through our exchanges, you didn't say she should mention his name but you said she should come out to address it. I'd assume they're the same thing but in case they aren't, my sincere apologies.


This is victim blaming. He did this to you because you did this or said that. If we didn't watch him with Bemi, we atleast watched him with Bella. Their fights, What role would you say Bella that warranted how be spoke to her?

homesteady:
The way that guy has been whitewashed and made the poster boy for false accusations on twitter is still kind of surprising.
The problem is that most people don’t want to dig deeper. When they just see a tweet from one of the popular guys, who are most times agenda pushers, they just swallow it entirely.

I'm still waiting for Danny to reply me. I remember bookmarking the tweet about it early this year, I'll take my time to go through my bookmarks if he does.

They know the truth but which cross do you want them to nail twitter feminists to? They don't even care for the male victims half of the time, they just want to score cheap points. Stupid people.

hayzed19:
Emotional abuse is not a crime abi wetin I read now

emotional abuse is a criminal offence called coercive control

You would read certain things and know there's no point engaging this person.

Amya:
She said he flung her laptop to the wall and started chasing her. She fell down the stairs and broke her leg.

The same way he flung slippers at the wall because he was mad at Bella.

Mayhem1:
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Ahnahn! You're such a fine man keh.

Geezeem:
She conveniently allowed it to fly... until it got very ugly. That is sheer wickedness and why I will never believe anything until Sheggz confronts this

She sounds too bitter for someone who has "healed and moved on"

But I don't know her and I don't CARE!

When I said, personally I withdraw into my shell... you shouldn't read that to mean I will stay until physically abused

In all my years of existence, no man born of a woman has ever abused me in any form

I know what love looks like, feels like and sounds like.... I've a litmus test that must be passed before I even get on with someone

Anyone who is with a bad partner, must first judge their choices and taste

Yesterday, you said she didn't mention Segun's name. Tonight, she has mentioned his name but you want Segun to come. Okay, we'd wait for him. She's too bitter? Of course! She is bitter, no one gets abused and have their abuser use them as a pawn in subduing their next victim and not get mad. Abi you think she didn't see how Segun threatened to leave Bella to go back to her? Imagine someone that treated you like trash, trying to use you to svore cheap points with his new victim? Why wouldn't she be bitter? Imagine someone that dated and abused you for 3 years denying that they know you and call you a random beautiful woman, of course, she'd be bitter! Imagine the supporters of your abuser coming for your job and livelihood, she has every right to be bitter!

I'm glad you haven't had to deal with this at any point in life, I'd be absolutely glad if we can make that possible for more women.

The bolded is you blaming the victim and that's so awks...

Dannyxy:
tbh I don’t know, I just know, Bella too no good, she is condescending as much as Sheggs, she says mean things too, Sheggs is just more loud and imposing with his, again I say Bella is as bad a narcissist as Sheggs, both of them are also entitled, over pampered and have a over bloated sense of self…
Bella just really loves the boy, na why she dey hold back on somethings, if she falls out of love with Sheggs, she go use abuse finish him life….

My issues are not all this though, the ex allowed a narrative of him physically abusing her thrive , only to come after people have formed an opinion about Sheggs to post a similar story, even using words fans use…

Haba na, reason am…

"Bella is as condescending as Segun, Bella is as rude as Segun". Give me instances where Segun was at the receiving end of all these vices from her. You should be the one reasoning, you're countering what we watched with what could've been. Does that make any sense to you?

I repeat. No victim owes their abusers clarification! Take that anywhere! Segun's mother and sister knew about the whole thing, if their son was innocent, why didn't they speak up for him? Didn't Ozo's siblings speak up when people were trying to spin narratives about him? What stopped Segun's people?

Was it also the ex that said "they'll thing I'm an abuser because I'm fine and rich?" Danny, you sef check am!

Dannyxy:
exactly!! She is posting all we watched, she could have posted all this weeks ago, not after we watch , you now come to post a similar story, even call him “fake footballer” sef, fans slang.

How convenient for her, na my crux be, and the reason it looks like clout chasing…

Abi nobody dey understand my point ni?

This is why you shouldn't rush to conclude. She most definitely had no intention of speaking on it because she deleted that video the moment people started linking him to it, unfollowed his mum and locked her account. Now to what pushed her to that thread. Sheggz fc have been calling her all sort since the video leaked, accusing her of lying and being a bitter and jealous ex. Last night, one Marshall guy from Segun's camp created a thread, tagging Bemi's brands and accusing her of lies, defamation and all sorts. That girl saw those tweets, liked them and made a tweet about us getting data for Sunday. What should any reasonable fanbase do? No be to step back as you aren't sure of anything but they kept on poking her till this morning. There's only so much that anyone can take.


If Segun had come out and just apologized and taken responsibility for his action, all this could have been avoided. But nope, he was pinning what we watched on Bemi's video and Bella.

nazablossom:
I'm just coming from twitter now. The lady has spilled everything

He should comman deny everything. Sheybi we're blind and don't know what we watched for 9 weeks.



I can't even believe I let myself give him a benefit of doubt, the signs were fucking glaring. Who assumes people would accuse him of being an abuser if he wasn't one. Nahhhhh!

Dannyxy:
Twitter judges and feminist made a young man commit suicide over an allegation from a lady, it was later discovered to be a false allegation, the boy already took his life, femco and their fans never apologized, never acknowledged their wickedness, them and their fans moved on. Since I saw that story I made my mental note to always give a benefit of doubt in any story like this, we can’t all be emotional, some of us must be logical…

But then I get the emotions, but again, some of us must be logical..

Izu lieddddd. Izu wasn't a victim. Over and over again, his lies have been debunked by text and voice notes from him, apologising to the girl for harassing her. He wasn't falsely accused of rape like you guys claim. She accused him of sexually harassing her over the phone and he confirmed that when he apologized to her. You people know this but you must hold on to it to make cases for abusers like Segun.


God rest his soul.

scondy:
Ki ni eefa ninu eeje....meaning what's the difference between 6 and 7.

If he wasn't pursuing her....Will she trip on the stairs...

We all watched shegz for 9 weeks...that guy is narcissistic, emotionally and verballly abusive.
A very toxic person....laced with being obsessive

Bella should run...her film shd ensure they make her break all ties with him

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Thank you.

Geezeem:
It was all I was interested in as I had said before that physical abuse is my deal breaker. This is not me trivializing the emotional or verbal abuse. We all have our threshold.

Me personally, verbal abuse will send me inside my shell, but physical abuse will unleash the lioness

You people sold a narrative that HE BROKE HER LEG. the silly girl allowed that to fly for a couple of days before coming to clarify it

You see eh... I don't give a rat ass about this Bemi girl and whatever she has to say. I didn't witness it.... it's left for Sheggz to clear this

I am more concerned about what I WATCHED and how it affected Bella. I am convinced that Sheggz need a therapy. I am convinced that he needs help

I will contain myself within the boundaries of what I watched and I don't care how this makes anyone feel or nor give a fuvk about whatever they have to say

This should not be my business but theirs

Everyone is entitled to their opinions

Hopefully Sheggz do the needful

Your limit is cool and personal but not everyone will wait till it gets to that point, as a matter of fact, nobody should tolerate any form of abuse or be waiting till it gets physical before speaking up.


She isn't silly. She doesn't owe her abuser any form of clarification. She hasn't said what she didn't say in her YouTube clip, she's still maintaining the same stance. People speculated, added and deducted from the information and ran with it. That's on people, not on her.


Yup. People are entitled to their opinions. While you draw the line at Physical abuse, some of us draw the line at the slightest form of abuse and won't be quiet about it.


Getting help doesn't have to interfere with facing the consequences of his actions, he'll and must collect both.

Dannyxy:
dont spin my point, I heard Sheggs assaulted her and broke her legs, this narrative has been spinning against him for weeks, why didn’t she come to say no he didn’t, or come to say what Sheggs did weeks ago, how convenient for her to come out today weeks after with the narrative of Sheggs Bella debacle…

I don’t send Sheggs but mahn you people should give him a breather,what’s the end game to all of this? Getting him arrested? If yes, she should drop it all and let out, this is not about emotional but logical…

What’s the end game to destroying Sheggs, all that happened with Bella? Or are people just projecting the reality of their relationships present or past on him.

Is Sheggs a narcissist, yes is Sheggs a douche bag, yes.. is any of this enough destroy his person, career and family?

Like Bella is any different from him, Bella and Sheggs are the same, cut of a coat, they both need a revamp In attitude and humble lessons, but why is Sheggs the only one being destroyed and Bella protrayed thr damsel in distress..,

It’s really a woman’s world I guess, they get away with all and every thing, na the same show person threaten rape and killing, but because she is female, she is not getting any stick but has a strong chance of winning…

Lol please I am a logical person on certain matters no matter my sentiments…

And this is why he's a 27 year old with a functioning brain. He is an adult, adults know that actions have consequences. You can't mess with people and try to gauge their reactions. He should have thought of his family, career and person before acting a fool.

All of this is tied to their ship. Now, give a moment where Bella abused Sheggs during the course of their relationship? Please, don't come at me with Segun said "she's rude". I want instances of her running him down, questioning his judgement and reasoning, threatening to leave him and go back to her ex, telling him he's not acting to the standard she wants, holding their relationship over his head. Go on.

PatientVulture:
I really appreciate what you are doing . You do not allow your "stanship" to cloud your sense of judgement

We must call a spade a spade. Housemates have gotten labelled for far less atrocities. Why is it so hard to call out Segun's acts for what they really are? Because he's someone's son? Are his victims not people's daughters, are they ghosts?

Giel:
As I see say Gbemi dey sew thread on twitter
I know say food don done for you
My own is that I just want Bella to be on her own post show. I don talk my own about how I want her to relate with the housemates post show.
Hi and bye things.
Make e no pass like that.

Gbemi tweets or not ehn, I know my truth already. I didn't even want her to get involved in this and go through the trauma of reliving that experience but shegemenge fc were tagging her brands yesterday, calling her all sort of names. We should protect abusers but throw their victims to the wolves? God actually forbid!!

I'll join people to tag Chris abi wetin be hin name because that konkolo Bella get stubborn head. After the show on Sunday, they should bundle her home. This is threat to life and sanity, no be fanbase, vvip or twitter feminists matter. A o ni resu ooooo.

Geezeem:
I thought he was the one that broke the leg?

She was trying to escape from him and she fell off the stairs.

Is that all you got from her tweets?

InSanety:
She has spilled EVERYTHING


They know themselves, and they are still defending rubbish


May God not allow us encounter some sort of human beings in this life. We are seeing them. They are the ones that will protect abusers, they are the ones that if their daughters come to them for protection, they will say, "All men are the same"


They know themselves. They will stay inside abusive relationships and defend abusers, then when someone dies, they will say, "Why didn't she leave?"

You don't have an idea of how disappointed I am that women are the ones reducing this shiit to they want to destroy him. Bemi has been traumatised because of this person, whether Bella cuts him off now or not, this won't be a walk in the park for her. How many number of women are we going to add to the list of his victims before we realise how serious this is and we cannot keep quiet?

If Bella is with him because of the promises of good life, was Bemi also with him for his money? Should this even be grounds for any form of abuse? Have we completely lost it?


We can always make excuses that people defend or excuse these men because they don't see them carry out their evil deeds but we all watched Segun for 9 weeks. Even I that liked him as a fave got disturbed at a point, yet, he came out to say we only jumped to conclusion based on Bemi's video. Bleep him and those standing up for him.

TrulyTemitayo:
Are you doing this bcs Sheggz tried to be a kiddwaya?

God abeg. Kidd was annoying but he was nothing like this and I pray he never becomes this person.

Don't ruin him, don't deplatform him, should he now die?


Last night, his fans were tagging Bemi's brands, they were coming for her source of income and he kept mute. He read tweets of them piling on his victim and kept quiet. I'm sure he was banking on her silence, lol. Definitely, not anymore. He should come out and say his name wasn't mentioned again now. A shameless dirty liar.

InSanety:
Let Sheggz sue her for defamation if she is lying.


Everything she has said is easily corroborated by his utterances, videos on the internet, pictures and even his abysmal behaviour on the show.


Everything she accused him of doing, he has done it all to Bella. Same pattern. Same MO

It is you that needs to go and rest, all of you that support abusers. Wicked people

Call them by their names!!!

She didn't mention his, she didn't mention his name. Name has been mentioned now!

https://twitter.com/beautybybemi/status/1575963722291740673?s=20&t=znPu2DBneKon6U291CGpnA

Well. I'd say the name rings a bellllllll!

duduade:
Adekunle and Chizzy

Says he is happy for him… Chizzy replies him

Then says something like … na lie not everyone is happy for him..

Chizzy says that’s their business… they should come say it to his face…

He's the everyone in question, Adekunle himself. Such bad belle. Tueh!

duduade:
Bella on her bed sleeping

Still on the IVM shirt

Little Miss Konkolo is tiredddd. Biggie, you do this one.

Congratulationsssss Chizzy, user work don done.

Una never got to bed?

NozinoGroup:
Strong woman over ballons?

E concern you?

Giel:
Exactly.

I'm proud of her.
Despite her phobia.
She didn't give up, didn't quit.
Pushing through

And now it's only T remaining for her to win the car
Her slow and jeje style still won her results.


Let her find the T God abeg.

Biggest Bella. I'm so proud of you.

I'll cry if she wins

I hope her team make a video of her bursting balloons despite her phobia with that strong woman song playing in the background.

Bella is good good though, look at her standing strong, despite her fears of balloons. My small body, big engine! Omo Ope!

Oluwapomile1:
She may see T first shaa.

Amin jesu!