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"LOVE.. SOME OF US ARE JUST IN IT, EXPECTING THE WORST, HOPING FOR THE BEST."


LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING MATE.
IGNORE ALL THESE PEOPLE GIVING YOU IRRELEVANT ADVICE AND FOLLOW YOUR HEART ONCE MORE.
"EVERY WOMAN IS NOT THE SAME", THEY SAY. "YOU CAN'T HATE ALL WOMEN JUST BECAUSE OF A FEW BAD ONES. YOU SHOULD GIVE IT ANOTHER CHANCE", THEY SAY.
BUT I TELL YOU WHAT BRO, NOBODY KNOWS WHAT YOU'VE FELT MAN. NOBODY HERE WENT TO JAIL WITH YOU. NOBODY HERE LOST THEIR DAD BECAUSE OF THE ACT OF A WITCH BUT YOU. NOBODY HAS BEEN PUNISHED LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOU WANTED TO LOVE AND BE LOVED BACK. SO HOW CAN THEY KNOW WHAT YOU'VE BEEN THROUGH OR WHAT YOU'RE GOING THROUGH?
"GIVE IT ANOTHER TRY BECAUSE ALL WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME " IS THE REASON YOU KEPT TRYING UNTIL YOU LOST YOUR FIRST CHANCE TO MAKE IT ABROAD WITH YOUR GUYS. IT'S THE REASON YOU LOST YOUR DAD. IT'S THE REASON YOU WENT TO JAIL. IT'S THE REASON YOU'VE DATED MORE THAN 250 WOMEN IN YOUR LIFETIME. IT'S THE REASON YOU'RE WORKING IN A BAR. IT'S THE REASON YOU'RE SUICIDAL. YOU MUST BE CRAZY IF YOU EVER FEEL YOU NEED TO GIVE IT ANOTHER TRY. IT DIDN'T GET BETTER AFTER YOUR FIRST HEARTBREAK AT 7. IT DIDN'T GET BETTER WITH THE GIRLS YOU WERE WITH BEFORE AND AFTER YOU LOST YOUR TRAVEL DOCUMENTS.. WHAT MAKES YOU THINK IT'LL GET BETTER NOW, OR TOMORROW?
YOU CAN GET THOSE PETS AND ADOPT AS MANY KIDS AS YOU WANT, JUST LIKE YOU SAY YOU WANT. SAVE UP THAT MONEY YOU EARNING, GET YOURSELF NICE THINGS. GET THE LATEST PLAYSTATION CONSOLE. WATCH SPORTS. LISTEN TO MUSIC AND WATCH MOVIES IF YOU WANT. SMOKE THE BEST WEED AND DRINK ALCOHOL LIKE THERE'S NO TOMORROW. YOU DON'T NEED A WOMAN TO BE HAPPY. YOU DON'T NEED MARRIAGE TO BE ACCOMPLISHED IN LIFE MAN, ALL YOU NEED IS YOURSELF, HEALTHY AND SANE AND SO FAR ALL YOU'VE GOTTEN IS THE WORST THINGS IN THE WORLD BECAUSE OF FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS. SO DON'T LET NOBODY WITH ZERO EXPERIENCE ABOUT ANYTHING ON THIS FORUM TELL YOU YOU'RE MAKING THE WRONG CHOICES IN YOUR OWN LIFE DESPITE ALL YOU'VE BEEN THROUGH. YOU DESERVE HAPPINESS AT LEAST, NO BLOODY SOUL SHOULD DEPRIVE YOU OF THAT.
YOU'VE SUFFERED TOO MUCH ALREADY. FEELING GUILTY FOR WHAT YOU DID MAKES NO SENSE BECAUSE SHE KIND OF DESERVED IT. I'LL ENCOURAGE YOU TO DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN AND AGAIN IF SHE'S EVER RESURRECTED.

LASTLY..
BASHING WOMEN EVERYWHERE YOU FIND THEM IS TRASHY. TO BE HONEST WITH YOU.
THE ONLY WAY YOU CAN EVER FIND PEACE AND JOY IS TO KILL THAT HATE YOU FEEL FOR THEM AND JUST FOCUS ON YOUR WAY. THE ONES THAT OFFENDED YOU ARE IN YOUR PAST. LEAVE THEM THERE.
DON'T KILL YOURSELF.
AFTER ALL YOU'VE FACED YOU OWE YOURSELF A WONDERFUL TIME, AND THE BEST OF YOU IS YET TO COME.

y3mi:
@Mimimile93
Oh poor you, damn!

And come to think of it, just yesterday night, I couldn't help but to ask this old woman I usually buy food stuff from (given to her elderly age, wisdom and life experiences she shares with me), maybe she could explain to me why something that pains me so much to the gristle of my bones regarding girls/women always happen. I needed to know because I really need to umderstand. I carefully phrased the question to her as sensible as I can so she won't get it twisted and believe me to my surprise, as knowledgable and experienced as she is, she was dumbfounded and had no definite answer to give me. I was even the one providing probable reasons as to how and why they might be that way. Worse is, she beautifully digressed into another topic when it occured to me to also ask her if what I needed to know also occured in their own days and also in the time of their forebearers.

What am I talking about...hmmm! If I begin to describe, narrate and provide numerous real life experiences of mine and mostly that of others close to me concerning this relationship topic, I swear, some guys/men might just faint as they process it while reading it and not after reading it all. Many times have I felt compelled to share them all for people to read here on this forum but the thought of where do I just begin from just tend to restrain me. I will nullify all the various dubious argument I have read in defense of this particular relationship-based topic on this from since 2007 which is verily connected to that of the OP. In fact it is the basis of all the ordeals he went through with these females.

You Henitan24 and Oyindidi are likely to be more devious, cunning and evil more than Amy Dunne (Rosamund Pike) in that movie Gone Girl starring Ben Affleck, reason is because both of you and others can go to any length just to ruin a guy/man's life and existence as it is in that intense drama. Imagine what you are wrote...calling him slowpoke and mumu, implying that it is a crime for a guy/man to trust a lady/woman he loves as if it has never ever worked, well yeah...maybe in the periods when materialism was non existing for true love to emerge wherever two lovers can discover it, but how dare you all who chided him for not learning from previous sour relationships, learn what exactly I hereby ask? Oh you mean he should have shed off his humane predisposition to be who he naturally is to ladies he loves and instead be ruthless and cruel to the next girl/lady he meet? I just don't seem to get your logic, and it seems many of you don't even know who a misogynist is as y'all seem to keep confusing that term with something else, this fellow is no where close to who a misogynist is, I used to wrongfully think of myself as one for not being able to land myself just one girl friend in my late teenage days due to my intense timidity, but one day I finally figured out who misogynists really are and to my chagrin, I realize some of my friends are actually confirmed misogynists without them realizing it, with all the various girlfriends they cheat upon and torture both physically and emotionally. Let me just give you a hint, a misogynist can be in several seemingly working relationships wherein he actively manages them all but seriously hurts the females involve so much that they feel so trapped in it and struggle to escape out from. Missogynists aren't necesarily males who express their hatred for ladies/women in general openly. The real misogtnists don't say it, they are silent killers and sadists who enjoy bringing female down by any means because to them relationship is a game they just have to win.

@Mimimile93
Recently, I rebuked a very young teenage boy for openly referring to some teenage girls afar as "b!tches", by the time I finished lecturing him as to how wrong and bad what he just said is, anyone could notice the remorseness in his face, listen bro, believe it or not, it's highly likely I'm the only one on this forum who can understand how hurt your feelings are and how damaged your emotions may be, if I share my stories and those of others, meeeeeeen! I can only hope you might find some relief in them and thereby desist from calling every females h0es and b!tches. Perhaps it is the profound understanding of the well grounded foundation to which the ancestral belief system of my ethnicity that inhibits me too from just lumping every female together under those subjugating words, for believe me I have seen, heard and experienced and still experience what my question to that old woman was about but still dont go about calling and referring to ladies as Bs and Hs, even if one knows some or many are, keep it in and never say it out. Use that knowledge to guide yourself while searching and guard yourself when you are with one that you've found.

According to my ancestral elief system, there has being a perpetual battle since the begining of time between Oko and Obo in a war of not just supremacy but the right to dominance, (think not of the Instruments as those words translates to from Yoruba but of a more deeper understanding of the sacred odu corpus) one requires deep noetic capability to figure out why God (not Abrahamic) considered feminities first before all others when granting access in the hierarchy of powers that be, and once you do, then can you realize man just dey do agidi as na woman get this world. The knowledge we acwuire from the experience we go through are meant to open our wisdon and guide us rather than abuse and twist things the way man has twisted this world in order to win that war and thereby defying God. I know by now you are probably thinking what the heck am I typing in this last lines of mine but my brother, if we sit one and one and I explain deep things to you, you go first calm and re-tune your new found mentality, albeit evil against the womenfolk and retrace somethings and do the needful.

These are all I have to say for now, maybe I come back and drop more once I have read through the rest of the pages as I am currently on page 01

Edit:
MissRaine69 you're hereby summon to manifest your presence on this thread inimical to women

mimimile93:
fvck wome, fvck love, fvck relationship. I was done with that part of life.

Y'all are perfect pretenders. None of u is useful.

I remember during the days I posted against y'all on FB, a lady inboxed me and started preaching and tellin me not all women cheat.

She did the same way u are doing tellin me she wanna changed my notion towards women.
She acted cool and kind. But guess what? She was engaged she even invited me to her wedding. Few weeks to her weddin she came to my house to give me invitation card guess what again? We bleeped.
The next day I sent her text and asked her if she can boldly tell me again that women are not cheat..

Fact is, y'all women are prostitutes

Mofe72:
Lmao, you deluded mofo. Is that what you do? Urinate in vaginas. What an animal

Mofe72:
Lmao, you can hardly even process grammar. Women could mean mother, sisters, cousins, friends or partners. But a typical Schlemiel like yourself wouldn’t get that.

FYI, I’m a guy, I don’t have any plans to be like her. It’s unfortunate she has to put up with a tumor like you.

I’m sure that your woman probably has more sense than you

Bossontop:

Me when i was told dat theresa may don land : ......chaiiii e don finish buhari go fückup again

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Mofe72:
Trolls will be trolls. I weep for the women in your life

Mofe72:
You’re SICK!

To think a woman carried you for 9 months.

AmazonTopaz:
Amberon11,has been giving you solid points word for word oya stop spilling rubbish.feminism has come to stay in Africa and beyond and there is nothing you can do about it.

Amberon11:
Lmao....you must've searched the entire internet for that. I'm not reading no links that anyone can decide to cook up. Pick up a book or better still, ask any lawyer you know. In the developed world, a suspect is always innocent until proven guilty. If you don't know that then it's a huge shame. That is why a person is called a "suspect" even though he is caught red handed.

Women that their men would kill if they dare speak out you expect them to say the truth. Why do they keep running away if they were so free? LMAO...

Dude I'm done with talking to you. So that you don't reduce my IQ. Bye!

Sirjamo:
Igbos hate anyone who's head and shoulders above them, period

Amberon11:
are you really this ignorant or you're just pretending to be? I come from a family of lawyers (even though I'm not one) so I'm not a novice to the law and I suggest you stop saying rubbish that you know nothing about. Listen , there is no offense in this world (in a democracy not the babaric middle East Sharia states?
for which the suspect is guilty until proven innocent. That is the "daftest" thing I've heard all year. Even though you kill someone you are always innocent until proven guilty.

Amberon11:
And please Nigeria is not misandristic, it is rather misorgynist. It is only in the middle East that a woman will be raped wit overwhelming evidence and still be jailed for it, not in civilized Western societies.

Amberon11:
Very daft questions that don't even need answers. So all the other bridges in the world that have been collapsing were made by women? I asked a question which you've not answered, have you deployed women soldiers to the battlefield and they said they wouldn't go?

Amberon11:
Lmao.... saying women should forgo maternity leaves. Well we will forgo maternity leave when you men start develope a vagina and start bearing kids. How about that?

NgeneUkwenu:
Gathering of ipob pigs!

rock003:
So, the western world is your standard? Are you saying you will even worship Satan if the western world says it is right? Slave trade ended centuries ago, but it is clear that you are still a slave

Have you been to Saudi Arabia, where women have no place? Will it interest you to know Saudi Arabia is more developed than many of the western countries? So where did you get those last two myopic statements you made?

Amberon11:
Bla bla bla bla bla bla bla

Who told you Saudi women are comfortable with such laws? I've watched secret interviews of them on YouTube.
They die trying to escape that hell hole. They commit suicide by setting themselves ablaze because they can't even go purchase poison on their own. They have to be accompanied by a man.


There is no human being who doesn't want their total freedom.please can you give me the verse of the Quran that states that the movement of women should be restricted or that a woman must be accompanied by a man? Why are many Saudi women trying to flee. Dina Ali a Saudi girl tried escaping last year to Australia. She was on a transit at Philippines when the govt of Saudi in collaboration with Philippine authorities bundled her back (infringing on her fundamental human rights to freedom f movement since she was an adult). No one has heard from her and we don't know if she's been killed already.

@ bolded being a feminist doesn't mean I must quit my job for the struggle. Creating awareness on social media is part of the activism.

So before I demand for equality, equality and justice I must decide to first fight in wars? Have you deployed female soldiers to battle and they did not go? In Syria, many of the men ran away to seek refuge in other countries. Their women have formed a group where they are taught to fight and they have picked up arms to defend their country since many of the men ran away.

On alimony: Do you know that under California law a husband is entitled to alimony if his wife was the breadwinner? Do you know that Russel Brand (Katy Perry's husband was entitled to over $20m in alimony after their divorce which he rejected?

If a man will not let his wife work or have a source of income during marriage like most of you Nigerian men then it is imperative that the wife receives alimony after divorce.

Amberon11:
Pls don't educate your daughters o, because feminism gave way for the girl child education. And how is feminism putting down the make gender. You people just feel threatened that women are now being woke and taking charge of their own lives.

That's a very foolish question. It's like asking why Saudi women are prohibited from moving freely when their men go anywhere they want.

Basiljoe:
Seriously, i would advice you visit a mental hospital, you exhibit symptoms of delusion and schizophrenia. Also try exercising every morning, i heard it relieves stress and reduces frustration. Stay safe.

IamPlato:
...


Feminism Is Not Domination But Equality...




Men Dominating Women Is God's Curse To Us but
Feminism Can Not Change God's Curse On Humanity

yeyerolling:
Any woman against feminism is a fool. At a time women could not vote, women could not work and belonged to the kitchen, women are expected to be seen as hoes wen dey fuk around bt men as dons, we have seen pple like arouma oteh akunyili and other okonjo who suppose to be in the kitchen. But made waves in male dominated sectors. Nonsense weak tweeter

hopefulLandlord:
I'm not "arguing" with you, since you disagreed that faith is not requirement to acknowledge Yahweh's existence so substantiate that with Bible

you're free to dodge though because I've asked lots of Christians the same question and nobody has come close to giving a name

hopefulLandlord:
can you tell me anyone from the Bible who believed Yahweh existed only by having faith first? I'm not discussing philosophy here