@Big_Man,
I worked in a financial institution holding an influential position, To me it's normal to get advances from women. I have always tried to separate my work from my personal life. This fateful evening, a text came from one of our clients " Good night my teddy bear". This particular lady that sent the text was fond of calling me Teddy bear because of my stomach, she always use it to staunch me that i should go to the gym.

Immediately I saw the text, I was like na wah oo, My wife just said what is it, "I want to read the text". I told her not to read the text that it will hurt her feelings, she insisted and promised that it will not. On reading the text, She started reacting and I explained to her that I will take care of the situation that its not her(My wife's) battle, I know the kind of girl that sent the text and I will take care of the situation. This is not the first time i will be seeing or having such

While having my bath, she lied to me that she want to call a friend using my phone, she picked the Lady's number. While I was away to work, she called the Lady and started ranting on her. The lady in question is not normal when it comes to things like that, Omo Unilag, She just "teard" for my wife on the phone, and even told her that now she has drawn the battle line and she will take her husband away from her.

On getting home, I did not know what has transpired she started the quarrel as usual, I was like what I have i done again. she now told me how she called the lady and how both of them abused each other and ,
I just laughed and told her that "I have warned you that its not your battle, you should have allowed me to take care of the situation but naturally you won't listen to me. See the kind of disgrace you put urself in " My people b4 I land, the ground don scatter, From one bad word to the other suddenly she pull out my picture and replaced it with her guy ,



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@rokiatu
It is not a joke, This is like part 1 of the series of things that we've been through and you know that in our African settings, You don't tell other people about your family issues, they will tell you to endure it that all marriages are like that.

@Big-Man
I am about too go into a meeting now. I will give u the full story on my arrival.

OAM4J:

but nothing's wrong if you fix yourself and the entire house a dinner once in a while.

Nursing a little baby can be tasking. Show some understanding.

Another example of typical 9ija woman. because of a baby now, there should be no ,ore food gradually it will be no more sex. Women should know what they are in to in marriage. A man can help but not in the kind of insultive way the woman and you are putting it.

During one of the usual heated argument in your house. Your wife brought out a picture of "A FRIEND" removed your picture (The husband) from the standing mirror and place the picture of the guy there.

Her Reason: Thinking about the guy always give her happiness so far she is not happy in your home.

What will your reaction be?