Singletonn: Hi, I'm a young Nigerian guy in his mid 20s. So the only type of ladies that I am genuinely interested in are the light brown skin south africans. They're beautiful and I learnt that they're lovely and kind.
Matter of fact, I've never dated any Nigerian lady. Partly, because I hate lies and deceptions. But majorly because they're not my type of ladies.
Has anyone here(a Nigerian) dated or maybe married a South African? Is there any downsides to this?
I'm planning on traveling to Pretoria in the future, but in the meantime do you by chance know where or how to connect with these south africans ladies, online?
I will appreciate any help I can get.
Ps: Apologies to anyone who might be offended by my position.
Don't blame you though..we have argubly the most beautiful women on the continent
Gadafii: why dont your women desire you guys, the same way they desire and rush naija men?
Could it be because South African men are lazy, rape their women and beat them?
Lol... South African men don't run away with boats to settle in a Europe built by rhe blood and sweat of European men .. this "lazy'trope has no basis in reality none whatsoever. No country becomes like South Africa with a majority lazy populous..it cannot happen. Who do you think builds infrastructure, sweeps the streets and mines our minerals? The same "lazy" SA men, y'all just jealous
99.9 % of SA women prefer and date their own men..don't know where you get your nonsense you're spewing.. focus on kiling your women for their organs and leave us alone
God1000: Be very careful man, the girl may like you but south Africans in general are hateful, they hate nigerians with passion, don't say we didn't warn you
I have a lot of female south African friends but we're just friends, I will never think of marrying any them, think about your future children and how they will be treated
You can go for girls in other african countries
Nonsense..we aren't hateful, we hate those that take us and our country for granted. Yes, in SA Nigerians are hated with passion...and that hate didn't fall from the sky
MrBrownJay1: btw IMHO there are no difference between how SA women look and Botswana/Namibia or Zim women
Um...no there are differences... In south Africa we can instantly identify a Zimbabwean.. South Africans look a lot like Batswana not Zimbabweans or Namibians
Singletonn: Thank you for this. Oh yes, I am aware of Nigerians reputation over there, but I like to think there are well educated south africans who wouldn't judge others based on their past experiences with some bad eggs. Again, thank you.
ednut1: When South Africa home office was doing the right thing investigating Chidinma whose mother stole someone else identity. Did you support them Stop the double standards. What is the big deal in participating in a church election. Did he earn any money from it or what. Abeg abeg
hammerT: U ARE REALLY OVER-RATING YOUR BLACK ASSES BECAUSE THE WHITE MAN CAME TO BUILD INFRASTRUCTURE IN SA.
NOW U TAKE IT UPON YOURSELF TO INSULT OTHER AFRICANS, Y DONT WE HEAR THIS KIND OF AFROPHOBIA FROM ANY OTHER AFRICAN COUNTRY?
U ARE VERY SICK.
U THINK SA IS EUROPE? NO WONDER YOUR LAZY ASS IS NOT WANTED IN ORANIA.
LAZY BASTARD!
Here are the lazy ones boss.. instead of developing their cesspit of a country, they're flocking to Europe to feed of the sweat of hardworking European men
Lionessza6: LMFAO. No the department of Stats in SA excludes black neighbourhoods when they count Stats in SA😂😂😂.
But I know 70 % of your neighbourhoods drinking sewage water 😂😂 and only 10% have toilets .....now those stats include all the Niggers in the area like these😂😂😂:
Sepukku: The above bolded is very true. I personally know a Nigerian guy who owns several businesses established in Benmore gardens-Johannesburg who I can swear on my life has no affiliations to anything illegal, does very well for himself, drives a benz and lives in a nice crib but no matter what you tell the average South African that guy must be a drug dealer.
Shame, envy is a disease neh!
No no no. You setting a precedent and Us being "envious" are two very different things.
if you always steal from your mother's purse who will your mother suspect when her money goes missing again? ..you guessed it
They both debunked the " dating " as a publicity stunk a longtime ago dummy....and even if not....celebrities and politicians don't necessarily count among the regular citizens because they all play in the same occultic and sick circles
But everyday SA girls who hang out with an everyday Nigerian crew are almost always BAD NEWS😂. But they are trophies to you atleast
Lionessza6: LMFAO. Now I'm jealous because he lives in a complex as a renter not even on bond or owner😂😂. The idiots move from one complex to the other every six months because they can't afford to keep up with the payments but they want to "form" . They share an apartment meant for 2 ( 8 of them) ...that's why they get kicked out everywhere. I remember city property in Pretoria stopped renting out to them years back because the broke asses had no regular income to cover their living needs 😂😂. They think we don't know how they live here
Nigerians share a trait of delusions..I swear I don't know a more deluded nationality
Yes, Nigerian yahoo boys are the only people living in Estates and complexes in South Africa 😂😂. This is what coming from the poverty capital of the world does to ones mind....if they can manage to get two cents then everyone else who doesn't brag like them must be broke .
The images you posted are from Kenya slowpoke😂. And yes, we do have informal settlements in SA, but what percentage of SA actually live like that compared to the Nigerians that are living in perpetual under-development with no hope of any government that will build them houses ?😂.
These fools will show you pics of poor areas as if we said poor people didn't exist in SA. Dumb lots these ones.
They will soon accuse the male SA of having lost their girlfriend to them or jealousy....those are the only Nigerian talking points: centred around sex and money ( money they don't have)😂😂👋
Every one of these fools goes around with the delusion that everyone on the continent is "jealous" of them.. it's like they're brainwashed with this idea 😂 😂
Imagine a Namibian residing in a city like Windhoek is somehow jealous of a Lagos dweller
You insult SA all the time on this very forum and your dumbasses thought we wouldn't find out and come for you ? .
The only problem you have here is that , you met an African group that will cure your stupidity...you can't walk all over SA as you do with other "nice"blacks😂👍
[quote author=Mtmike post=131713923]as far as it is wrong for us to hate on one another, we should also try to understand peoples perspective too, im a nigerian and ive spent more time here than anywhere else, we need to ask ourselfs why people hate us this much. reasons are not far fetched, and that is PERCEPTION. you cant go to another persons land to commit all sorts crime, from selling drugs to both adults and UNDERAGE, scamming people, stealing or leaving a lousy lifestyle and expect to be welcome there. if you mention nigeria anywhere in the world the first things people will mention are those crimes. WE CANT BE MESSING UP OURSELF EVERYWHERE AND EXPECT TO STILL BE WELCOME[/quote]Bingo!
Lionessza6: LMFAO...always looking to be admired and validated by foreign women...but never learning a thing or two from foreign men who hardly need a reason to escape their own homes 🤦♀️🙆♀️😂😂. It's always sex first and everything else follows 🙆♀️😂
Electorate: Says a blind Zulu boy, Your women run after Nigerian boys because your men are fuckgly and can't satisfy them on bed reason for your jealousy, you guys just shamelessly accuse Nigerians for drug because we keep banging your big ass women since you cannot do the job properly
A Nigerian girl is a South African man dream girl but you all look alike with your hairless skulls
Graysons: Of all the south Africans to ever grace NL, you are the dumbest of them.So stupid,you don't think before you type. But then again,you don't have the brain capacity to think.