soccerpipe:
Maybe u should change ur search environment. U might be looking in the wrong place, if you are a regular church goer why not try to look for a decent girl in your church. U can't have and do all these things u have mentioned and not be able to be in a serious relationship. Pray and i believe my ubiquitous God will intervene.

my time at work is such that I spend 80% of time in one placd ,I basically meet most of the women there too. And I'm not a very good church goer either .

samincredible44:


bro he will question them from now til tomorrow there will still be no tangible reply.he need a strong white garment church to flog out that demon

LOL I DONT KNOW AGAIN SEF

Mandela27:
You're fvcking ursef.That's why u're always losing,u're being too weak for the dating market.

P.s I responded according to ur post and ur comments.

What do yo mean

alkines:
wetin happen na, seriously there is something that is turning them off about you.
I guess the best you can do is to question them on the main reason, they might not want to spill the beans out at first but then truth may come out eventually.

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I've asked and asked and asked ....it's always the same. They be like ...you re everywoman's dream bla bla but they can't date me...

Miniso:
A lady that will want to hang out, gist ,laugh have sex with you abeg what else do u want. biko nu

I need someone I can care deeply about..lean on , call every night and morning ,someone that can make me lose interest in other girls

samincredible44:
go back to ur village and beg ur village people to free u because they are doing u

I'm suspecting that.

SavageResponse:


Maybe you have very bad breath

Savage responce...as expected not surprised by ur response.

MhisTahrah:
Do you look presentable, well groomed?Do you have a good reputation?

Yea I'm very well groomed I'm a banker actually and I have never been a flirt .

unclemaths:
Sorry about the situation.

What you just said here is a summary. Can you be more specific?

Can you relate a case in point? Maybe people might see something that you are not seeing..

It's basically the same thing that happens...when I meet a girl ,I'm not in a hurry to sleep with any of them until maybe they want to. I treat them good ,give them cash, even allow them handle my phones and go through them because I've nothing to hide , somebody them have even gotten do comfortable that they like spending time with me even sleeping over .but once I mention dating they will run,One of them actually jokingly said I'm too fine to be dated that I'll give her HBP I'm not sure she meant it thou.

MhisTahrah:
They probably think you're a Playboy.

Well...I'm not and it's very clear to them .

Asaimuede:
Check your character

I've asked repeatedly ...what's the problem why can't they date. They all said nothing.

This started about 3 years ago, after my Ex girlfriend of 5yrs got married , it took me awhile to move on ,but when I now finally decided to start seeing other women, they all started acting the way .....they will want to hang out, gist ,laugh ,sex but wouldnt want to date me which is exactly what I've been looking for...
I'm good looking ,very tall have a good job .obviously to me, I don't think any girl will have any excuse for not being interested in dating me. I am tired of trying and having the same results Everytime.. Please what should I do??